"They" already know a lot about us, thanks to our internet habits and Google--plus with their high speed computers and information centers that dwarf ours. Privacy is not respected, and that's the truth.
I highly doubt Mark Zuckerberg had some nefarious plot in mind when he created Facebook. That's just stupid, unless you can produce some hard evidence. However, once the government gets their hands on FB, then it's a free-for-all.
It comes and it goes. It may be for a moment or an hour, but I've learned to recognize that it is self imposed---meaning it does not last all month or year. It's a choice really, and not an easy one.
Nobody should change anything about themselves to be "accepted" by anyone in the future. You are what you are, so be wise when choosing a partner who gives you the liberty to be you.
On the other hand, if one has immature, rude and destructive habits to oneself and to his/her's surrounding environment, then sure, change that asap---but not for anybody, but for oneself.
The trick is to find somebody who will accept you for who you are---with all the good and bad that is included in your package. You should not be a concept or an idea to anyone, and you should not compromise who you are in order to be something you are not so you can have a successful relationship. The society of projection haha.
Also, when looking for a cat, get a cat---not a bird
This dispute will never end. It's designed, as it seems, to be never ending. If there is one debate that I won't touch, it's this one since it's fruitless.
Time and trust. My kids will never meet a new partner of mine until at least after 2-3 months. Also, I have to feel that the relationship is going in the direction of long term---and that I am deeply in love.
If it doesn't work out, life goes on. We can't assume how our kids will think---they're smarter and more understanding than we realize. It's our reactions after break ups in front of them is what plays a huge role in all of this, so even if there are "many partners", that doesn't automatically mean it's such a bad thing if the relationships were not destructive and that the kids were treated with respect by the partners of their mom or dad. On the other hand, there is an ugly side to this if mom or dad introduces you to a new partner every other month---and if the new partner did not care about the kids in any way---as well as if the kids witnessed ongoing fights.
Lot of variables involved here, and wise discretion should always be used in an unselfish manner. This topic has many complexities to it since answers will vary from individual to individual due to belief systems. All I know is, the kids factor into the decision, so be wise and patient with who you introduce your kids to as far as new intimate partners go.
Without using the Google translator, I think I can make out 2 words there haha! Have no idea what you just said! Men, jag hoppas att du sade någonting snäll
Danish sounds funky. I can barely understand that language. Norwegian is the only other Scandinavian language I can understand. Never heard Icelandic though---sounds hot!
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RE: Would you marry a tabledance girl?
Does it have to be marriage? I'll be with a table dancer, no problems there. I just don't see the big deal with marriage.