I want a guy to be confident, busy, strong and there when I need him. I will be there when he needs me.
I want him to listen and in return I will listen to him.
I want kisses, my hand held only when he wants to hold it and visible demonstrations of affection. I will give him kisses, hugs and tell him he is the best and he should not forget it.
And what constitutes a relationship? Let's say more than one date. That deletes one night stands and drunken moments in cars somewhere in a parking area in our youth.
I'm not at 52 yet so I think I can keep dating LOL
How about "attraction"? Her shine is relected in your eyes.
Either you are attracted to a person or you are not, irregardless of age. Some call it chemistry. When asked why you are attracted to a person, sometimes the only answer is "I don't know, I just am". Hence words sometimes cannot express what is seen or felt.
I think we could turn the table on this one. Do women prefer guys who are fit, tall and not overweight?
I'll admit that I would prefer a fit guy. Mostly because we might have similar lifestyles. But also it has to do with what I find attractive. And there's nothing wrong with personal preferences.
A size 6? Closest I've ever been able to squeeze into is a size 8 LOL
I hear you, AKDO - so many changes - so many different towns, cities, schools. I can't believe I moved my children so many times and did it thinking that it would be better for them too and the new relationship would be wonderful.
Hahaha, so many possibilities and I don't want to sidetrack this thread LOL I do have a batch of limoncello brewing in my cellar. A nice sipping drink which helps me pretend I'm in southern Italy. When life gives you lemons, make limoncello!
I think men are great, especially when they are not trying to impress. If a woman is going to like you, she will, without your trying to be anything other than who you are.
That's why I like my male forum friends. They flirt but they also seem to be themselves and are really fun to talk to.
I would say get off the computer, get on the phone or plane and meet the person before you even think of being "courted".
Remember how much everyone fusses about computer security, giving out personal information and apply that to your dating security and the welfare of your heart. Don't fall for someone your REALLY don't know.
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I like reality. If things aren't going right, I wait and hope and try.Hope things get better for us all...