I think there are probably a few people here who would change their minds if they were actually in the position of being in love with someone from another country (or a faraway state for those in the US. Love has a funny habit of making us see things differently.
I knew a guy lived in a foreign country for 7 months. he met and fell in love with a woman who told him the first day they met that she was born there and she would die there and would never leave it.
Eventually he had to return home to the UK for work. It was not practical for him to live there because of the language barrier and work situation. He told her he would not push her and he would respect whatever decision she came to about the future. One and a half years later they were married and she is now living in the UK.
Same for me. Also, in my case my dogs are more than dogs. They are my ears. I would never part with any of my animals. If the guy has a problem then we are not compatable. Simple. I had my last two Shepherd mixes until they died at 19 and 21 yrs of age. Who would have taken a dog that old? No one. So I should have put them down for a man? I think not.
A man can and sometimes will leave you when the going gets rough. A pet licks away your tears when said man makes you cry in your sleep. I will keep the Pets thank-you. If a man wishes to join us, He will be welcome.
If its for health reasons, I think so. But if its for their own shelfishness, NO!! I gave away a cat i had for 7yrs for a relationship. All because it was given to me by an ex, and the new gf didnt want nothing to do with it. (I should of run then). In short...Think long and hard before you make that decision.[/quote]
You will be in my prayers. If you need anything email me. I am not always able to get online but when I have time and I am on campus I will reply as soon as I can.
Sounds like my date from Hell During my Frosh year @ College. I never went out until the nexzt year after that one. A memory I could have done with out.
Well, My Dad always called me a Chatterbox once I get over being Shy. Wonder if he had headaches from me? Guess that would explain my disposition to geting Migraines. G-d giving back to me what I gave my Parents?
RE: would you date your partner's best friend?