Something that I think, from my own perspective, and also from reading other people's posts, that it is sometimes easier to stay on a site like this and "hide" to a degree, rather than head out into the un-cyber world.
Alot of members contact/get contacted by another member, and there seems to be a connection, but then the "What Ifs..Will He/She..?", come in. Its almost like we are worried about taking that actual step into relality dating, and are just looking for an excuse not to pursue it. Think about something too long, and get too much advice, and there is always a reason for backing out. I myself have done it in the past - no more now tho, life is too short. Id rather have a disaster than nothing at all. Makes life interesting!!
Wondered what other people's opinions and experiences were?
Yes, there are, in my opinion. Trouble is, is all subjective! One girl's dream is another's nightmare. Its the same for guys with us, for sure. Each to our own.
I truly believe that there are wonderful guys out there, who have been messed about as much as some women. There is no lack of "good" men, whatever "good" means.
Sometimes you just got to keep the faith, and be open-minded.
Ive started posting on the Intl Form recently, so I just thought I would "officially" say hi to everyone here, and look forward to getting to know you all!
petalbabe Forum Posts (3,101)
RE: STORMY SKIES
Your songs always touch my heart! Hi Martin, hope you are well.