I dont know. Just seems very two faced to me. Someone opposes my views in public, and then sends me a private email saying they actually agree with me, but are afraid to publically say so. Has happened quite a lot.
Exactly. It was between them. And should have remained that way. Most of us didnt know who the hell GF was talkin about. It was simply a general thread of interest to people. Unfortnately that changed, when LM idenfied herself. That was her choice.
As I said, only those that knew GF and LM knew who the hell they were talking about! I, personally, had no idea! Was just replying to a general thread, and it should have stayed a general thread.
Cork is good, albeit a bit wet, windy and dark! How are you?
I had absolutely no idea who GF was refering to, and had no interest, other than the general idea of the thread. The only reason I replied to the thread in the first place was to make a general comment.
The original post was one that could have applied to lots of us. LM didnt have to identify herself and make it personal. No one forced her to identify herself.
Why not just do the proper thing, and email him directly and tell him her thoughts! No one else knew who GF was referring to. If they did, then they should have kept it to themselves.
Agree, absolutely. No one knew who GF was referring to, until LM identified herself. It was a personal gripe between the two of them. Could have remained a general topic before that.
As far as I can see, and Ive just checked again, when you came into the thread most of the concensus of opinion was actually agains GF, as far as I can see.
So, why the need to identify yourself? You seemed to have people on your side already anyway...
Going off topic slightly here(!), but I think it is also because since the weekend, alot of people have perhaps rethought things a bit. Sometimes things have to be allowed to blow for them to be sorted out and a compromise reached.
Its not nice, and its not pleasant, but as in all relationships, sometimes you have to have a good argument to clear the air.Nothing is ever changed by just keeping quiet and festering about it.JMO
I know for me sometimes a song, or the sight of some particular thing can bring the image of an ex into my mind. Perhaps she has had that happen today, and felt the need to contact you after all this time. She may now feel a little embarrased about it, so when you asked her for an explanation, perhaps she just wanted to forget she had done it, and therefore just try and dismiss you.
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RE: genuinely confused
What?