I thought about it Mindfful, but didn't. I for once thought it through and thinking as I did, thought it's not my business. Thank goodness, I didn't. Close one. It's just if you read the Thread title, I thought it was about her. Now, I'm really wondering, ha.
Hi Mindfful I did think it was about Smitty, I am so confused, sorry. I was just on the spokesman thread and it as trying to post, the thread went away in front of my face. That was way too strange! Imagine that, posting and so rudely cut off!
Exactly, checked on this earlier today and just now, and thought, hey, this can't be right. I didn't know they could do that, wow! I guess, now you see it, now you don't.
I amm glad that they didn't lock it up. What the heck is going on now. A decent thread and it gets highjacked, we needed a decent thread.
I like men's chests. There is something abot running your hands through it. My ex did not have much hair and when I dated someone that did, I thought, I have been missing something very nice.
Methinks, it takes time. I remember my first Christmas. Just be sure you have a plan to be around a special friend. It's just a day and then it is over. I usually had a harder time before the day. I would anticipate the loss. But I think that is very normal.
I also found a separated/divorced group. It is great to be around people that want to be around someone else just to talk about their loss and get it out. It's hard to be around family and married/couples because they listen for awhile but go back to their life.
You know, Bental, I wish my marriage have ended that way, happy, not that I would want him dead. I have heard from some that divorce is harder because the person is still alive, some have to deal with them because of the kids.
I am sorry for your loss. I thought we would grow old and grey but he decided not.
He had put up a wall and wasn't even giving me a present for my birthday, much less a card or something for a anniversary. Use to give me beautiful flowers, rings, homemade cards, when that stops you know it is over.
So I have no regrets over it ending. A great night was when I spent the first night in my apt without him. I had my Doberman and the cats, much better company.
I would have died if I had not gotten my Dobe, Sir Duke. He is what got me through those times plus the 2 cats. Ole Duke passed 1 year and a half ago, he did come to be there. I thought it was fair to have my dog since he had gotten her pregnant at 24 years old and he was 49. We all believed she tried to trap him since at the end there was no baby. Even at 24, she had a child by another married man who she had been carrying on. When I saw the receipt for Toy's R US, I could have died.
But he is finally realizing the damage done and we can talk, and he will help me if I need him. But it alot of time to reach this point.
I know it sounds unbelievable but it is true.
The Dobe With an inner light still on, I keep on trucking!
Do I miss my ex, not really, did he miss me while we were still married and he acted like he wasn't.
I miss the beginning, but I have nothing to remind me of him. Not any point. Maybe I care for him as a friend, but when I needed him, he went to another. I remember the end, the wall was up and he no longer saw me. the train whistle was telling me, it was time to move on. I had been upset to lose my house, but the last night I saw him, I moved into my apt. and felt like myself again.
But I still believe in love. I see it all around me.
Even though I might have been burned a little by some men here, I would take their comments any day than anything that you have said since you got here. I do not think you can make one post that makes any sense at all or does not try to push a button.
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I did think it was about Smitty, I am so confused, sorry.
They sure are called that for a reason!
RE: PHEW
Try for some natural outdoor pics, and chose the best one for profile and add the others also. Try to be less formal, in a best color shirt for you.Maybe grow your hair out some and add some bangs. But you might be fine just the way you are outsides with another shirt on....
Keep posting the forums and you will do fine here.
Sense of humor is the best thing.
Please notice, that your ranking is better thatn Boban's so there is hope.
The Dobe