Don't you remember you married me in September? I am one of your wives also. My birthday is on the first day of fall. So I am the calendar girl for September. You have a little while to decide what to get me for my birthday present. I will be wearing my birthday suit
I use to have them. I did not know what caused them at the time. But I know now what it was. It was fear of losing my husband which was happening. I had 2 panic attacks in 1/2 hour before seeing him. So I would have a reaction to being near him. I also had them in the grocery store. Talk therapy is very important. I learned from one therapist what to do if I was shopping. To face my fear, I was suppose to go in the busiest line. I made myself do it. Medication to control it or breathing better didn't work. What worked was giving up on him. Getting stronger without him. I found I did not need a person who wasn't good to me. But it took alot of work. It was the best thing I have ever done, walking out the door to freedom from oppression. I finally found out what made me tick.
Even though this is in the past, devotion to my grandparents while they were alive. I knew how special they were and was devoted to them. It was a wonderful feeling to be so loved.
My friends, my 2 cats who are brothers: Chewbacka and Piggy and Blue Doberman, Wile the Coyote, and my new boyfriend. Also, my plants inside, ha, and my 7 Beta's: The girls: Janis, Lola, Roxanne The guys: Darth Vader, George, Goldfinger, James Bond, Sting Last but not least: my 3 cousins and my nephew and niece (I love to spoil them and then go home)
I pose but would not be able to come to where you are. I see no problem in this post. A artist needs models. I have been the Artist and the model. But as a Artist, I have a preference for drawing males. My favorite sculpture is of David. I've seen it in real life. What skill Michaelangelo had.
Good luck to you, I believe to achieve what you want, you do have to be forward. You get nothing if you do not strive to achieve.
I know you are just trying to push buttons here. So I will push a button for you to take a trip to Mars because maybe the Marsan women will like your better.
I would pay attention to how some of the CS men here act to learn how to communicate to CS women here. Maybe you would make better progress.
It is a shock when your friend is gone. It is very normal to feel sad. Time will help. You have lost your friend but you will always remember him and he will be in your heart.
I lost a wonderful friend once, I never heard her say anything mean about anyone. I would say it would be a very rare day for her to be sad or even grumpy. She was amazing. She was a delight to be around. But I lost her to cancer, her name was Lucille. She reminded me of a star in the sky, she had a glow about her. This may sound crazy, but she reminded me of an angel.
IMHO, I would not get involved with a 20 year old if I was 42. That is 22 years difference.
How old is his Mother? How does his family treat you, etc.
I do see that you are thinking of him and his age. But you have got to think of yourself just as much.
If you stay with him 10 more years, you will be 52. Will he still love you if you are 52 and he is 30? Will he leave you for another women so he can have children?
I would not put myself in that situation of it might work or it will end in sorrow. I would not want to worry all the time about the relationship and that is what you are doing right now.
Let's say he did leave when you turned 52, 10 years is a long time to waste of your life when you could be in a loving stable relationship if you had ended it with him.
Believe me, love can go bad even if you are the same age. But it is more risky with 22 years of age difference.
Even with a man who is 42 and he is after a 20 year old, what are the chances that the women will stay with him. She will be growing also and could reach the point that he is not attractive to her anymore.
Love is grand but it does cost a pretty penny when it's over. I think most of us know that here.
Yes, I did once and not any hole that you are thinking of. It was a box of wipes and I wanted to get the layer of wipes up through the whole. Instead of pushing up, I stuck my finger in the whole that pointed ridges. Then I could not get it unstuck. I was lucky I had a guy over that helped me get my finger out. I was almost crying it hurt so bad. Poor torture.
Bental, I know you have a very special person in your life and lost her. IMHO, I think you should try to walk in the shoes of your new person. She is fighting someone else for attention.
I would run from you if I was her. I want a guy who can love me and not compete with someone else. So if you care for this person, before it is too late, try to think of her more. I would not be her for anything, it would be too hard loving you and you still won't let go completely.
She treats you like this now, guess what, she will treat you like this again. Just ignore her. It will drive her crazy and serve her right. Then keep on trucking, you will find someone else for sure. She's a loser.
Maybe it is because of Valentine's day coming up, this might be bothering you. But I think alot think that way at times when you are single. In the USA, I found a online site that brings people together of the same interest. I have found people just like myself. Divorced, and not fitting in with couples, etc. It is called Meetup.com. There are singles groups, dinner groups, nature and art, etc. I am in one single group and out of that have made some great women & men friends. Nothing romantic but people just like me that I hang out with once a week. We get together on the holidays. It sure fills the void. We even say we are the family we chose instead of by blood.
When my Mom and I were alone, she dated. She eventually meet my Step-dad. So it does happen.
Welcome to CS. I found that getting onto the forums, I met friends here by getting to know them.
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Don't you remember you married me in September? I am one of your wives also.My birthday is on the first day of fall. So I am the calendar girl for
September. You have a little while to decide what to get me for my birthday present. I will be wearing my birthday suit