What nonsense. If u look so low at us, heaven help the woman you find. It seemed like you were not bad mouthing us for awhile. I enjoyed reading your comment because they made a lot of sense. Another way to look at a topic about Women and Men from a Man's perspective. I would like to see that guys opions again.
First to the OP, why in the world would you want to be involved with a Married Man? You are the one getting the raw deal and you just went right for it. It's not going to get better. Sod off that guy and get involved with things that interest you and maybe you will meet a guy. This is just wrong.
I hate people that cheat on their spouses and also the single person who just steps right in to cheat with him. There is a word called DIVORCE. So if these men and women are so unhappy, don't use other people, just get divorced. Stop whining.
You do not know what goes on behind closed doors. It maybe completely different from what he is telling you. Men will say anything. He is not respecting you either. His wife deserves respect and she is not getting it from either of you. Plus, what about the children if there are any? He is playing you. Move on if you want to have a life. I know this is strong but that guy took a vow when he got married. Now look at him, wow, what a man, NOT.
I understand what you mean. There are people, and I know one guy in particular that can be with his own age and older. In a way, this is good, you can see how others in your own age. You don't want to be with them because you don't enjoy acting like them. Maybe you can compromise and only go up so many years instead of 10. Down the road it does make a difference, believe me. What they don't tell you, is all the life changes that happen as you get older. For instance, there is the baby thing. Someone might not want to have kids then you would miss out on that. Also, both men and women go through the 50 year old thing. Both men and women are going through changes. Some men buy a corvette. Some find a younger women. Women go through the change of life or find a new man. Good luck and I agree with Goby (sorry if I misspelled that Gob,ha) - I don't see your post - go International. Also, you could met someone in Maryland depending on how close she is to where you are in Virginia.
Langley sorry - l am glad you caught that. No, l certainly don't think that way. I only wish a woman will appear and put him in his place. He is not a friend to women and l doubt he even knows of our power.
Whether ocal or long distance, you should bea ble to see a picture and have a name. Then Skype with the person. You are fightig the want to throw caution to to caution to the wind. If things check out the the fun can begin. If not, there are plenty of other women that are honest.
That is wise of you. She will also be going through the phases of getting separated/divorced. She has to adjust to the idea of being separated and then divorced. It's not that easy.
I think guys who are the same situation want to date awhile and not want to get serious. Women tend to want to date guys not going through the process because they seem to be making up for lost time. I got dates, but I just wasn't ready. I decided I was better off doing things with my friends, also finding a group for separated/divorced people. It helped to be able to talk the same language.
I did go through the drama with one. Then another had a 14 year old. He had plenty of drama. The kid didn't want anyone in his life. So I'll stick to my guns, no separated/divorced men newly free forever. I'd say my lack of foresight to date either of them was my undoing.
It's just good to be cautious. Guys can put on a good face, then change it. The ground is not settled until after the divorce. I know what you mean when it's over for you. I'm glad your ex will be around for your kids. A child needs their dad as much as their Mom.
I consider them players, they aren't ready for dating and a relationship. They just got out of one. They say that men will reach out sooner than a women after a relationship or marriage ends. In general, women are different. I think we think more. Men think a differently way, if you know what I mean. Oops, did I write that?
I had dates but they just didn't work out. I was better off with friends to go through my phases.
Mr. Rick - sorry, I am a Libra, I do weigh things like the symbol of my sign - the scales, ha. I've gotten better about it. Maybe there is no wrong answer to this question.
I would tell him to write to me a few times. If he is local, there is nothing wrong in meeting him somewhere. That is if his profile looks ok.
No one can tell you if he's a bad person or not.
If he appealed to me, I'd be positive. Meet at a Starbuck's just to talk. Then end it it is it isn't going good.
At least he hasn't given you his email and asked for you to write to him or given you his phone number. Or is a Godly person. That is what I watch out for.
There are scammers out there and the above is what they want.
Opps, l would not dated a separated man. I was separated and dated. I know my ex was not out of my system. That takes time. Also, l would not date a just divorced man. It takes time to adjust to being single.
I do not want to be around a guy who is on the loose, now set free by separation or divorce.
The Dobe I am not just pointing the finger at guys, women can be the same way.
Now that I know what vitriolic means, there are comments that come under that term. I think the ones who bother be are the know trolls - but we can report them.
One person who did get on my nerves and others, turned out to be funny once we got use to it. He would express himself by writing something, then write click, click. I kind of miss click, click, ha.
So here's to click, click, wherever you are! I could not find an icon for clicking so this will have to do
Stringman - Here we go again. I do not understand why you keep on creating these threads?
Do you learn anything? Everyone has their own right to what they believe. I have no doubt in my mind that people still believe here. Maybe not how you believe but their own way.
Stop focusing on the USA - try focusing on your country. There has been enough USA bashing going on.
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Sorry, but wanted to say hello to some of my old friends that have posted on this poll.
I could not find an icon for clicking so this will have to do 
RE: Can a man get the Last word in an arguement with a Woman?
Oops, my mind was on the thread about Woman being Terminators I guess so I wrote World instead of Word.Men, watch out for Women who always have the last word and are also Terminarors!!
The Dobe