doberman3 Forum Posts (1,838)

RE: Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?

I have hear that from men, but didn't know that women were doing that also.
It actually is a good guestion. I would not think of it as bad unless you were in a fight bad enough that it seemed close to breaking up.

Then I would say, it's close to the end.

If it was just a mild disagreement, maybe she was really asking you a direct question, "what do you want from me:", maybe trying to clear the air.

The Dobe

The guy says he will call you back

Exactly, Still. But for a guy does that mean if you have her number and call, you are expecting no expectations?

I guess we do seem like Queens with you guys as subjects since we expect you to call us.

Now, Still, please tell all, have some bold women given you their number and you have called?

ALso, have you not called, because you think them too forward.

Maybe you have not called, also because you did not ask and are not interested.

Ha, I am asking alot of you. It's this new age we have, but it seems to still be the old way in general in my viewpoint.

The Dobe

The guy says he will call you back

By the way, love seeing the pic of you two. It's nice to see, I'm sure you are a handfull and she loves it.

The Dobe

The guy says he will call you back

I agree. Frankly some guys have said that after a date and I am glad they said it because finally the date is over.

Exactly, I think some guys say that and you know they are not going to,
its a way to exit, stage left.

Yes, I would say if you have had a date and they come back to your door and say they are lost? then they want to spend some time with you, come on, we know. I was happy to see him again.

I know that sign, acting strange, like they are in another world,
it sure is a sign.

Very good post, Rohaan, thanks.

The Dobe
See, we still need our CS guys to help us out!

The guy says he will call you back

Maybe we like that and have gotten you to call us back. How do you know we are truely pissed off

The Doberman

The guy says he will call you back

I think I said that with what you highlighted of my post in red.

Then I say, that way you are not let down.

The Dobe not getting it.

The guy says he will call you back

I like that answer, I'm sure all of CS women would say thank you.
It means alot to us, when a man says they will call and we like them.

Just like if you like a woman, it means something.

Thanks,
The DObe

RE: Happy Birthday Mindfful

Ah, now I know who the othr is (mickeyscouse), ha.

Ok, didn't see this on Monday, give me a break.

Today I did, and Happy Birthday, Mindful! You deserve it.

Hope it was good for you. Sounds like it was.



The Doberman

RE: Women who can't cook

I can see the rummors now, Tight knocks up Opentuit.

Yes, knockup means a real different thing here in the US, ha.

The Dobe

The guy says he will call you back

No, that all guys lie, I did get my call Wed. nite.

I guess it is better to expect that they will not call.That way you are
not let down and go on with your life. But from this thread, I have seen that some guys do make it a point to call when they say they would.

The Dobbie

The guy says he will call you back

Very good, Raven!

I think this poll could be renamed to A Dummy Guide to What it Means When The Guy Says He Will Call You Back.Of course, the Author would be a man.

The Dobe

The guy says he will call you back

Very clear statements, June, ha ha ha.

Back off the Doberman

The guy says he will call you back

If you said that to me I'd say sure, honey, next time I will, then after that, just hold your breath. Also would depend on what would be happening next, ha.

The Dobe

The guy says he will call you back

Well D., I guess you are right because he did give me his number and said to call him. Then the next time he called me.

Good point. You see, guys we need help with what you say to us, ha.

Thanks,
The Dobe

RE: 'UMSLTD' CS member - Did someone contacted him?

I agree with you Boban, frankly I might wonder about his character.
He is a married man looking for? Since the distance between the OP and this guy is so far, doesn't look to good for him. But there are always 2 sides to a story.

I do have to admit, I checked out his profile. What is strange there is he says he has never cheated, blah, blah, and blah.

I am afraid you were had, it happens, and there is someone better out there for you. Just be glad you did ask about marriage and got the truth out of him, frankly that was the best thing he could have done for you.

The Dobe

The guy says he will call you back

I think you did good, you were honest and he didn't like it.
I can't imagine, why he had to give you his number, yuk!

The Dobe

The guy says he will call you back

Exactly, don't need trouble.

The Doberman

The guy says he will call you back

That would be lovely.

The Dobe

The guy says he will call you back

Meri, glad you liked my answer. Plus, Doberman3 stands for the 3 Dobes that I have adopted after they were rescued by my group, Jake (red color), Sir Duke (black & tan) and Wile the Coyote (blue).

Thanks, Meri

The Dobe

The guy says he will call you back

Thanks,Raven for the post, don't ever think I'd give my number on a banana, ha. I was being silly, well, maybe on an apple? Not on a apple either.

I was given my guys number in a email to call him if I felt like it since he did not have mine. It felt strange being the one to call him. But I took the risk and am glad. Before our call was over, he told me when he would call again, and he did so. After that call, the same thing.
I like a guy who does what he says.

From being married, I have found out that guys do not do anything the do not want to do. So if they are not interested, they will not call.

I guess you have to use your gut feelings when a guy gives you his number.
Who knows, maybe he's afraid to ask you what your number is and gives you his. Then he knows if you call him, he is interested.

If I was at a bar with friends and a guy gave me his number to call, I'd say the odds of him being serious is 50/50. They can be drunk at that point.

I agree, guys say they want us to make the move, then go back to thinking we are pushy.

Maybe some serious CS guys would give us their comments.

Even though, things have changed, some things stay the same way just like with dating. I do not know when men and women will ever understand each other completely, ha.

The Dobe

RE: Are they single or married ?

I had a guy interested in me but only wanted to be pen pals.
He was separated and getting ready to divorce his cheating wife.
His lawyer told him to not date any woman at all.
He was in this nail her mode, and I didn't want a pen pal.
He didn't like it when I said, no. He said, you must want a guy now. So I became the problem, I again told him my reason, he was separated. Plus I told him, be pen pals and if he changed his mind at one point and wanted to date others, no way.
That was a strange one.
I have never heard of anyone being told by a lawyer not to date.
His reasoning was it would make him look better.
I have been through enough with just getting my divorce, no way was I going down that road again.
I want a guy who is free.

The Dobe

RE: Are they single or married ?

They are still married, they cannot commit. They need to get their act together if they are just separated. I was separated for almost 2 years, the divorce took forever.

I did not have a date for 6 months. I could not handle being around a man. I needed space.

I would not understand why they would put marriage down.
I would think they are full of it and I would not want to be the rebound person and they go back to their wife. That would be a red flag to me.

The Dobe

The guy says he will call you back

Well you sure did disrespect me with your first post for no reason.

Duh, Prince, she was refering to me. I do not think you get it.
By the way, this is the last of it with you and me.
There is no point trying to post to you.

The Doberman

The guy says he will call you back

Thanks Amity. Prince sure likes to zap people out of no where.

The Dobe

The guy says he will call you back

Ok, Prince, don't get all bitey with me then.

Here is your first post to me, a bit over the edge would you not say:

"doberman--are we to assume that you hear this a lot after your first dates and they DON'T call you back?
I believe that's known as a one-night-stand."

Oh, you think I should change my name and attitude,
well, don't mess with me with a post the above and I would treat you fine. It goes two ways.

Keep it up with the female dog thing just shows how crude you are.

Sorry, taking my bite back, I'm sure you will be treated the way you deserve by women. I'm not impressed.

I think you have a pretty bad attitude also, so at least we agree on something.

The Doberman Luvs that name and will never stop, Haaaaaaaaaa

The guy says he will call you back

You did, thanks. Darn, the text message didn't get to me, I do not text. I did get the voice mail. I have powers, when do you want to do something?

The Dobe

The guy says he will call you back

You know Raven, I don't know. I had just called this guy because we had been emailing after seeing each other on the internet.

He said if I wanted to call him and he gave me his number.
Even then I felt a little strange, but I did it.

Then he called me next.

As to asking a guy for his number, I wouldn't want to do that.
That is me.

But if some ladies think there is a connection, I'd say for them to go for it.

I don't know, at the grocery store, see a cute guy and write your number on a banana, wops, that might send them the wrong idea. Alot of people are handing out business calls now.
A guys did that recently so I knew he was interested. But I wasn't.

The Dobe

The guy says he will call you back

Wow, slap me with a feather. I would love to bit you since I do consider myself to be one of the best breed dog ever. But I sign my name as such as I rescue them. I just adore them.

I think it was your attitude that I was responding to, dear.

Oh, I'm glad you make the calls and call back.

But I am sorry to report to you, that I do get calls back, sorry if I have disappointed you. If you want to get down and dirty, I can too.

ALso, your user name says alot about what you view yourself as.
I would wonder if it is true or not. You have not acted like a good europrince to me, so I think it is a image of yourself, a ego thing.

The DObe

The guy says he will call you back

Prove it, haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

The Dobe

The guy says he will call you back

That's fine Viva, it's just fun when you are just getting to know someone to talk on phone first. Then you know more about them when you date.

The Dobe