Oh, you seemed like you were over acting mad yourself when you first came to CS with all your strange posts. But, you are back to being bazaar again. You think I have some madness? My, I was thinking the same of you. Ditto.
I worry you, ha ha ha? Now I could be a man's worst nightmare? Wow. That sounds exciting. I wonder just what I could do to torture some poor man. I'm going to take that as a good thing, like Martha Stewart. A nightmare that he'd never forget Soft, you have made my day.
I prefer to live in the present and think of the future... JMO
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Doesn't it depend on if someone cared. It is the past, but there can be still a feeling. Doesn't help if the other person doesn't care, but the past stays there....
Rather sad, some of the relationships that could still be going on, if the one who left could have thought some of the other instead of themselves. But it is better for the other one that they are gone. Since time waits for no one.
As for my ex, he called to wish me Merry Christmas. I think he is finding out that one of the things he would do with me, and I let him know he was walking on a thin line, almost made his new girlfriend break up with him. Also, she doesn't like him getting crabby. Oh, what a laugh I had about that. Also, she is stubborn like I can be.
But the funnest thing, is he would get grumpy when sick. So I'm sure she has experienced that. He told me things were good but could be better. I asked what's the problem, ha, he said she can get real grumpy. So I'd say he's dealing with some of his own ways with her. But we can talk, and I stay close to his sister and neice.
Oh, I agree, if the guy is resisting, let him free. He is either a player or he's just not into you.
But I think it's rare that both people even when married are both even in how much they life each other. If the relationship ends, the one that was not 100% will be leaving first. But, there is also the chance the other will leave. Who wants to be in a relationship that is not level.
Ha, Felixis, I use to wear Heavenly. My Mom is very picky about perfumes and picked it also. But I have changed to Candy. But they have either retired it or replaced it. There are other lotions that are similiar to it.
This is a normal feeling, I bet the majority who do not have someone feel this way. From the sounds of it, even if you have decided to give up, ha, you would still like someone in your life.
I think it's worth all the reasons you state to still not give up hope.
I'm glad you are being honest with your self. So change your status to looking for relationship instead of a casual friendship. Maybe you will get some nibbles. Who on here really wants a casual friendship unless you are married or involved with someone. A casual friendship means nothing to a woman. Flip it around and think if you met a women who wanted a casual friendship and you liked her, there would be a problem.
Exactly, I do not like a love struck man. It's a fine line between being too easy or too hard around a man. I think the bottom line, is to act yourself. I am fun to be around, a little flirty, enough to keep a guys attention. If that is not enough, we are not right for each other.
I like your all due respect, thanks. I do not mean chase me until he catches me, really playing hard to get. I mean, the women can't be just a door mat either.
So, Rubendario from Connecticut, you Dam Yankee! Sorry, I'm giving you a hard time since I was born in Southern, Virginia. What would work for you? I'm serious.
I think most of my friends know that I do not over dramatized. You are barking up the wrong tree.
Cloud, 2 different stores. This one is about my ex fooling around with someone. Just recently, he told me he found out there had been 11 other married men before him. I believe him. We have buried the hacket.
The part about my husband was true. I found out about the affair, and went to the lawyer the next business day. It killed whatever I felt for him.
The reporting of the scammer from me was also true. He said he had lost his wallet and without it could not visit me. He wanted money, and I knew never give money out.
As for paying scammers, if you are not with it, scammers can get money. I went to the police about the guy, and the cop said one guy had gotten $1000 from a man.
The Doberman Also, Leave it, a dog command - stop this silly behavior of yours, Cloud
Just act normal and you might get some friends. You are always stirring things up and CS people are tired of it.
Carenza, just had it. The funny thing is I have had some scammers bother me here. But this one had me fooled at first, but when they start talking money, dead give away. I was ok. Thank you very much!
Would you not say that is true of a woman who settles down also. Men desire her.
For me, I might see a guy and just think he's cute, then see he's with another woman. But that does not make him desireable to me. In fact the opposite. I do not find attached men my cup of tea.
Hi all, yes, I'm back. I thought I'd either be in CS jail or I would leave. I see the thread is gone. Plus, the scammer is no longer in the building with the name I mentioned. But I'm sure he will come back.
Now if I could only find out who the guy is whose picture he used. He was nice looking, not handsome but seemed like a guy that would be nice to know. Yes, that part worked.
Now back to "Fallon" the 25 year old with the married man habit, I had a mental health person talk to her on the phone. She told him she had had therapy. Well, it's not working. I'm sure she is still on a roll and could have another illegimate child. She had one from another married man and could have 2 from my ex. I'd say the first was a miscarriage while she was on the pill, ha. Now to get pregnant again, come on. This one was aborted to make my ex upset. She was a peace of work.
Felix, I know exactly what you mean. If a guy is giving you attention, then he shifts to another at the same time - no thanks. This Sat, I could be with some friends. But I know that guy is going to be there. I think he has it all wrong, these 3 ladies know that he is "so called being friend" but is also deciding who he wants to go out with. I wish they would get together and really mess his mind up. For some reason he gave me his number. I guess he is interested in me too. Sorry, already deleted his number.
The best thing is to fill your life with other interests and carry on. That way you will be happy with the life you had. I think you are trying to much, and that leads to frustration. Give yourself a break, usually when you are not looking, someone comes into your life.
There are good and bad on here. It stinks that you were lead into a unreal situation. Maybe something was wrong with her and that is how she gets here kicks.
Alot of us, use the forums and grow to know each other. That way you become as real friends as you can online. We also warn each other of scammers, and people full of stores. We care for each other and share each others ups and downs which is not a bad thing.
It is possible to date real people here. I am meeting someone soon, 5 hours away from me. He is flying to see me for Christmas through New Years - with his 2 kids. They are staying at a hotel. We will see what happens.
I dated another guy here for a couple of months.
Anything is possible here, don't give up. People have met and married, had kids.
Believe me, we have all been lead on and lucky for most of us, things have become clear, and that is it.
I have seen some similiar's being signs and the month a person was born in. Like Leo's, Scoripo's, Aquarious (my favorite) sign. I was born on the cusp, Sept 23. I was usually a Libra in the charts. It pretty much describes how I weight decisions, yes or no. I met another cusp, Oct 23. We were like brother and sister with a wild banter with each other. A guy friend watched us with amasement.
I do believe in a connection between people, animals, and the Full Moon. The people in emergency vet places swear there are more animals that come in that night. Also in the ER. I love the Full Moon.
But I do not run my day according to how a chart goes, just now and then check it. I run my own destiny, not a chart.
Let's see he was suppose to be doing overtime at work and was riding the horse every day. Also, once I found out, he said one of the reasons he had the affair was because I broke a bone in my foot. Yeah, right. Yes, now it's time to Ride'em cowboy into the lawyers office, because I am getting a separation from you.
Thanks Larry, yep, it was downright nasty. But I'm doing good. It makes me kind of laugh, when I knew about her, I really gave him hell. It was hard not to when he would come home late. Then I guess he was pissing her off. So he had to deal with one mad one here and one there,
Yep, my ex is in Tennessee. He lives in a cabin facing a prison. Now has a trailer. After leaving, VA, he found someone fast, his landlord. Ha, I didn't know the landlord was a lady. He really didn't take him off from women.
He complains of being poor but still pays on a 2009 Harley Davidson 100th Anniversary Police Bike. He's glad he has 17 months left. I said if you really wanted to be better off, you would not have the bike payments to pay. But has a dump of a truck. I expect he will marry the women, and she has a house. They practically live together now. But at least it's not the other one. The new girlfriend sounds ok. Anyway, it's his life now.
Yes, we went from a nice house, had to sell it right when things went crazy. I'm in an apt. But I could be doing worse.
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Soft, you have made my day.
Thank you, Arapaho
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Well, I could care less about anything you think. My posting to you is over. A pure waste of time when I could be writing to others.The Dobe