doberman3 Forum Posts (1,838)

RE: To: Snow White

Why don't you put up a true picture of yourself. It might help if you are trying at attract someone you already have written to.
You are going this far, why not, go all the way.

I do not think your way of communication is bad, you are trying one more time. You are not bothering her with a email. I would be flattered if it was me.

But I would watch how you write to people if they are bugging you. I think you were too graphic with your words.
A little goes along way and shows that you have restraint and can express yourself without getting ugly.

The Dobe

RE: Kate Middleton

Hi Choco, thought you told him 6 mins to get hard

Sorry, mind in the gutter.

RE: Kate Middleton

I do also Kaybee. I always will feel that way. How people act through out the years is very interesting.

The Dobe

RE: Is bigger really better ??

I agree with myself. It would be right handy if the pee pee could be reduced or lengthened naturally, not with some kind of device.
I bet that would make the guys run to Mama.

RE: Is bigger really better ??

I'll up you one inch - 6!

Too big is too big.

It's too bad they can not be adjusted in size at the right moment to what the woman prefers, heck what the man wants. I mean we have to deal with it, don't we?



Ladies, what do you think about my idea?
Men, forget about it!

RE: Do women run from NICE guys?

Thanks Wilson. Yes, I agree about reactions. I have posted to a guy and gotten my head eaten off.
Same thing with people on Facebook. People can be in a bad mood and take it out on you. Or they take something wrong. It happened twice today.

Luck has alot to do with relationships. Meeting a person, they both being open to dating you, etc.
Wrong person, good person = nightmare.

You also have to have your eyes open about a person you just met.
You need to get to know them for several months before really getting involved, so bad relationships are eliminated.
Going baby steps, etc. I am not desperate to get involved with a player, they can walk right past me - I could not be happier.

The Dobe

RE: Is bigger really better ??

Size does not matter when it goes in
to enjoy the high tide.
Likes the water right away
(wham, bam, thank you ma'am)
Then is taken away with the low tide.
Then it's time for lights off.

Oh, that felt wonderful, honey.
But you are thinking,
I do not think so.

The Dobe

RE: Is bigger really better ??

Really Cherry, ha, only bugging you because I know you.
So what is your definition of too big?

I really do not care what the size it is as long as
it is in working order!@

The Doberman

RE: would u date a disable person

To me that is not disabled. If he can still walk, and just has a plate then he is fine.

I broke my hip in one leg and have pins and bolts. It was just as good as the other until I tried to do bootcamp hell dancing. I ended up with the same leg developing a pinched nerve. I still dance, etc, but am going through physical therapy so that both legs have the same strenth.
It's a pain, but accidents happen.

I also got through it without pain pills. I did not want to get hooked on them.

Sometimes true disabled people have more guts and will power than those that work and are couch potatoes.

The Dobe

RE: Is bigger really better ??

The most boring man I have been with besides my ex husband was a french man.
He bored me out of my mind. American guys are 100% better than that guy.
So all of that talk about how great a French guy is, hog wash.

The Dobe

RE: Is bigger really better ??

The picture of Bodleing's dog didn't show. He put his dog's pic up for VenusEnvy. That is what I liked and I am not into animals.

I think size has importance but what matters more is does the guy have rhythm. Does he know what what to do with it or is he a bump on a log?
He goes through the process and finishes, then goes asleep.
Why bother with that type? He may have gotten off but I certainly didn't.
That is why I would never wait before I was married with my next mate.
I want to know what is in the future or forget it.

The Dobe

RE: Is bigger really better ??

The Dobe likes it too! Nothing like a dog.

RE: why do some women use the term i don,t have a boyfriend but i have a friend.

Men can be the same way. It all has become a big mess. But it become simple if you avoid these people. If you don't fall for their games, just don't begin a game with them at the start.
You can really figure out the better guy from the player.

I believe that loyalty and death do us part exists and real love is around.

Sometimes, you have to find the right ones and forget about the actors. Even if it means not dating, guez, being with friends that are women and men is much more fun. You feel better about everything because you know they care about you. The player doesn't get attached to someone good. Having fun with friends is better than a bad date where you are fighting off a octupus.

Also, finding someone with the same interests and way of being raised. If they have been raised where there is no structure and no rules, they will continue with that way of thought.

Forget the bad boy! We always have a gut feeling if we state getting bad vives about a guy. We have to listen to them.
They will guide you every time.

The Dobe

RE: Do women run from NICE guys?

Exactly, good with a little bad. I think that is what I want.
I like to go slow and really find out what the guy is like.
A player can swept you off your feet and is gone, then you find out they were a big nothing. Then I would feel bad that I had ever gone out with them at all.

I think I have found that person, plenty of good qualities.

I think it is harder to find a good/bad guy but they are out there.

There are so many players, men that have been hurt, or just don't want a relationship. I've done my time.
I got to the point of saying stop this roller coaster ride.
I am going to stop dating for awhile. None of these guys were worth it. I decided to focus on my life , fill the time with things that make myself happy, and forget about the bad guys. They are going to forget about you.

He is basically a actor. After he has dated you, he moves on to the next women, he doesn't want a relationship. I am happy that those guys are gone, who needs them??

The better guys will look more attractive to you if you can get out of the player mode but you have to be open to happiness.

I think good men can have the same problem, they like bad girls and they end up playing the same game that women end up doing. At first, it's love and acting like they can't get enough of you. Then they start posting to you less or forget to call when they say they will. Then a week is gone. They should have called for the weekend. At that point, they are starting to move on.
You have been put on the shelf and then all of a sudden call you. You are excited but what about the time that has passed. That isn't mentioned - if you ask, they say they were too busy, didn't have time to write. But they write when they want something from you. They also write if they don't have luck with the next one. If you haven't been called for a week, you have been dumped and it is with no more communication by him. That is the easiest way for a player to end it. They don't have the decency to say I've had enjoyed your time but this is ending.


I personally would like to see a player woman meet a player man, then they can see what happens if one of them falls for the other. Maybe it is at that time, a player can feel what it is like. But I doubt it, they will recover and enjoy what they are doing. Their esteem isn't broken enough to stop playing.

It really does help protect yourself of being hurt by having a better selection of partners.

The Dobe

RE: Fingernails

We understand and you are doing good learning English more.

This forum will help you with your English very well.

The Dobe

RE: Fingernails

She meant with the emoticons, a hug.

I like my nails medium, not short or long. I garden and type so it's the best for me.

Also, my Mom had long nails, and I hated how when she washed my

hair, her nails would dig in and hurt me. I'd tell her, you are

washing my hair too hard. But then another nail would get me.


I can understand men not wanting to get have nails hurt them also.
It's not unmanly to say you do not like it.

I'd rather a man tell me and I would trim them.

The Dobe

RE: No contact

Very well put Kaybee. I would shut this door and another one will open. My uncle had a saying if I was having a boyfriend problem,
"Does he make your cry, or make you laugh?" It was simple to see that he was not acting good towards me and it was bothering me.
Nothing is worse then wondering what the other person is thinking.
Sometimes we met the one when we have stopped looking and are taking a time out.

Be kind to yourself.

The Dobe

RE: what would u do?

No, I'm the Doberman

RE: Women should know their place and stop being so selfish.

Hey June, yes we are! I just pushed you in again.
Oh, guez, you are trying to push me in, yep, you got me that time.

The Dobe

RE: refused

Plainly, when you feel attraction and they do to, they would stay. That is what I'm feeling for a guy right now. It's odd to have a guy say nice things after being around players, or guys that you do not click with. It does happen. I have a girlfriend who is getting married May 29. I watched it happen to her.

The Dobe

RE: what would u do?

I would say if you have to think about it, then chances are the next date would not go good.
I met someone online on another site and looked at his picture and felt a connection. He was not my usual type.
There was kindness in his face and I instantly wanted to meet him. It was close to love at first site. That is the one you want to go on another date with.

The Dobe

RE: what would u do?

Thank you Yabba
How is the weather there in Kiwi Land?
What is your temperature there now? Do you have season changes
like here in Virginia? We have 4 seasons.
Nice talking to you

The Dobe

RE: what would u do?

Now I have to curse you in another and better way,
You will never know American women.
You are the one who started the crude talk.
Usually guys like you try to act big but it just shows you are a little mouse that cats like to play with.

The Dobe

RE: what would u do?

Hi Carenza, I thought the same thing - What???
I like that - I am an American creation.
Plus, a perfect one also.

The Dobe

RE: what would u do?

RE: refused

At some point, you will feel attraction to another and it will be returned.

The Dobe

RE: what would u do?

Morning Jac, that was clever, it was funny!

The Dobe

RE: what would u do?

Is that enough tongue for you?

The Dobe

RE: what would u do?

WTF? Trying to wind me up, are you there now? I thought you seemed decent but I think you like being a jerk. So f off.
I believe that was an American creation also. Dam good one.

The Doberman

RE: Women should know their place and stop being so selfish.

PlainlyJune - starting this fight with you - Here's mud in your eye!

You asked for it Vinny! Oh, hell, here's mud in your eye also for starting this thread.