I messed up, Carenza, ha. I know that feeling when you want to say good-bye. I thought I could do it, but then I missed people here. I felt honored that you spoke of me. I have always loved your posts. I hope to find what I'm looking for, but, for now, I'm just going to live my life the best way I can. Wow, to be told you are a diamond in the rough, thank you.
When things aren't right, it's best to walk away. I hope you have a Wonderful Life. There are people here that care for you, so remember that. Hope to see you on Facebook.
I felt very sad for the children loss. Life can be brutal at times. I will plant a iris bulb for the children and the adults loss. I have a Doberman friend on facebook who was 10 minutes from the government building. One of his friends apt. building burned down. But all are safe.
Postivethinker, were you married for 25 years like I? In the beginning did you love your wife and think it would last forever? That your ashes would be with his when you left this earth? I did, then a affair happened and he also got her pregnant twice. So things do go wrong and by dammed I will eat my divorce cake and your can preach as much as you want on how I am wrong, but you cannot force your opinion on me. I have my own mind.
I would call him again when pigs fly. Don't be lifting his term, he's quilty of a crime, I would have taken him to court during the divorce but would have cost a fortune. No, only God can forgive him for what he did. Honestly. You can feel sorry for him but I would not trust him. If he doesn't change his ways, I would not be seeing him in the hear after. On to a better guy now.
Sterling, any answer to that? This is like playing with one of those black balls that your turn around after you ask a question, then you get a yes or no or ...
Thank you Satellite. I do get dates. I just try to pick the best guy to go out with. Been with alot of frogs. I have been going out with one guy for a month now. So far so good.
Oh, here is your answer, I just sign my comment as the Dobe. I have a Doberman, etc. Some women are into horses but I love Dobermans. I help rescue them.
I do not think by saying The Dobe I mean I am the "thing" here on CS.
So The David is bigger, just sign as The David if it will make you feel good.
I should hope you have a bigger thing than me, since I have nothing. It seems like your big thing has gone to your brain. Which is true of most men.
Sure it was sad the marriage ended. But it was a farce at the end. There were no children. So it is a celebration, being married to someone who had gone from someone wonderful to someone who chose to cheat and was no more committed.
One of the best days of my life was when I left my house of pain to move into a apt by myself. I was not crying, I was happy to get away from the pain.
Very funny, Boban. The GPS was created by a man so he would not have to stop for directions. The money for the first GPS was provided by his rich wife. She was tired of him never stopping to get directions when they got lost in the car.
Thanks to someone above who quoted you, I see you have no compassion for someone who commits suicide and leaves behind children. I assure you if you were in their mind set, you might be surprised at what you might do. Shame on you. Sometimes the thoughts of depression will hit and there is no one around to give help. The last thing a person will think of is to call someone, they just do it.
I just read the story of a well know Plant Store in the Maryland area. He had a pristine building full of plants and wanted everything in the store full of quality. He had a wife and daughter. But they think the economy did him in so he was found hung in his boat.
Great idea. I have hit a pinata before. I think my friends would be up for that. A belated Divorce party, ha.
Also, I did throw darts at a paper napkin with a picture of my ex to be at a pub.
Some young couples came in and wanted to know what was going on, so I told them. Then we all had fun throwing darts at his face. I did throw one right on his nose. For some reason, I had drawn devil ears on his face. But that was kind I thought.
In my situation, a celebration is in order, I did get a raw deal.
But I do not think all divorces are to celebrate. The lawyer for my divorce is getting a divorce now. They spent 8 years together. They were living together 5? Then while I was having my divorce processed, they got married. They already had a 3 year old. Then she had another child. She says her life was awful, I think he was very demanding.
Now a 2 year old and a 6 year old split up from a family unit. It made me very sad to hear about. No party for them because of the kids. I got to see a video of the kids and it was very hard to watch. The 2 year old doesn't know what is going on but the 5 year old does.
RE: listen to me very carefully....I will only say this once.
I messed up, Carenza, ha. I know that feeling when you want to say good-bye. I thought I could do it, but then I missed people here.I felt honored that you spoke of me. I have always loved your posts.
I hope to find what I'm looking for, but, for now, I'm just going to live my life the best way I can.
Wow, to be told you are a diamond in the rough, thank you.
When things aren't right, it's best to walk away. I hope you have a Wonderful Life. There are people here that care for you, so remember that. Hope to see you on Facebook.
The Dobe