doberman3 Forum Posts (1,838)

RE: Would u have a one night Stand with ur Ex?

Hell no. Enough of him for a lifetime. It would be crossing the line and I think I would give him Elana Bobbett's phone number.
She lives in my state about 1 hour from me. Maybe she would be
interested in him.

Also Rumyet, since you like to know these things, he stunk as a lover. Plus, if I saw it I would blow. My favorite new English word.

The Doberman

RE: Would u have a one night Stand with ur Ex?

Hi Scarlett, I'm not sure what you can do. I know there are people that help out with identity theft. I would change all your other passwords now. Make sure he has not gotten into your bank account.

I know of this one lady who had a crazy ex that tried to take out a loan using her identity. I think the only punishment he got was probation. He goes back to court.

This guy also ran a dog kennel in Colorado. He would let Veterans from our Services drop off their dogs and kept them until their tour was up. But he was shut down for unclean conditions. He was also sending some of the dogs to foster homes or selling them. People were losing their dogs. But the word got out.

A tv station reporter has been following him with stories.
One dog that belonged to a vet was given to a couple after this guy trained the pit bull.

But he didn't train humanely. The dog was not aggressive before he went to the kennel, but the couple had problems with the dog. So the dog was put down. The Veteran completely lost his dog.

So be careful with this guy, Scarlett.

The Dobe

RE: Have u ever wanted to take a Revenge on ur Ex?

I also have seen some Karma working on him, he lost all 3 of his brand new Harley Davidson Motorcycles. I had asked him why didn't he get 4 more to have one for each day of the week. He also got a brand new dexluxe truck. It was madness. He lost that to.

Now he lives in a cabin across from a prison. But he found a new person right after he moved to that town. His landlord as he called her. She really was his land lady. I actually feel bad for her, because he went from one person to the next not getting air at all after being married for so long.

I am happy that I took a break and when I could started dating.
I was not about to rush for a rebound, I needed a time out.

I am truly happy that I am as close to his sister as a real sister. I didn't lose that. Plus, a niece that feels like my daughter.

The Dobe

RE: Have u ever wanted to take a Revenge on ur Ex?

The night before we split up for good, I had a surprise waiting for him. He had traveled all day to the new state where he was moving. All the furniture was gone and in his room were just sheets, comforter.
I had gone to a police station long before that and had asked a cop for police tape for a accident scene. Plus, stickers. He asked me what are you going to do with them? Since I could tell he had a sense of humor, I said I was going to play a trick on my husband. He gave me the works.

Since I had alot of time before the T-Rex came back, I decorated his made-up bed with accident tape all around it. I made sure it was stuck on tight. Then I made a big x with the tape so he knew where he was suppose to lay (x marks the spot).

He started steaming when he saw what I had done to his make shift bed, tired after a driving. He had a hard time taking up the tape. I tape things very well.

I did one more thing, I showed him our wedding picture which was framed. It was a great photo, we had just gotten married and we were kissing, his neighbor got the shot. We were happy.

But things change. On the photo right where our mouths met, I had
put a bio-hazard sticker. He changed from being mad to stunned like he finally realized what he had done and it was over. I had thought he would laugh a little.
I felt bad and said I could use a glue be gone solvent and remove it for him because he wanted it for some reason.
But he said he'd take care of it. I also left the wedding album with him. The wedding dress went to the thrift shop. I didn't want anything, 25 years down the drain. But it was for the best.
I will never regret the divorce, as for the marriage, that is another story.

The Dobe

RE: Have u ever wanted to take a Revenge on ur Ex?

That's pretty good! Too bad I didn't think of that. I also would have handed it to him, but would have told him the truth just to see the horror on his face.

The Dobe

RE: Have u ever wanted to take a Revenge on ur Ex?

Ha, Venus, was it an accident or meant to happen?

The Dobe

RE: I am getting married!

Summer, sorry to bust your bubble, but he said the same thing to me.
"You Aughta Know" (Alanis Morissette). Ha.



Men, typical behavior.
That is for some men, with Time4fun I think he is a gentleman
You know you have to butter them up if a joint wedding is going to happen!

Time, you asked for it, you are getting it! HA

The Dobette - see you later, future husband

RE: I am getting married!

Exactly, that is when Women will run the world, ha. Oh, we do already and we let men think they do, ha They would not know what to do without us.

The Dobe

RE: I am getting married!

"War of The Roses" I have to say I loved the ending. They are both dying on the floor and Michael Douglas reaches out for her hand and Kathleen Turner throws it away from him. He had cheated on her. Usually an apology isn't wanted after that. Plus, it was like the final word on the subject to him from her Paybacks are hell, ha.

The Dobe

RE: I am getting married!

Oh, Time, I forgot to tell you, I'm in charge of making it easy for me and the other wives. We are going to hire a Master Chef, maybe with benefits to give you a night off sometimes.

RE: What are your thoughts?

Question 1. Time, I don't get it. You were a kept man being told to sod off? Please explain. Sounds interesting.

Question 2. Time, in another thread, you say you are getting married. Since you will be getting married to multiple women including me, wouldn't you call that a kept man or the
kiss of death?

That is all,
The Dobe

RE: I am getting married!

Oh, I'll be sure she gets the message and she will be the wife
nurse. I will try to see that she will be a good nurse and not go into detail about painful things.
I am sure each wife will have a different talent to provide.
We will have to have June list each of the wifey's special talents. Oh, we will have to have a Doberman and a cat added to the household. That's a must.
When is the wedding going to be? I have get the right dress for the occasion.

The Dobe

RE: What are your thoughts?

Except some don't have a conscience so she doesn't care, just like the married man who has given himself permission even though he is married.

The Dobe

RE: What are your thoughts?

I would not be a kept woman. Meaning that I would not be the mistress of a married man. But there are women who would love to do that.
I frankly would not think the man if much of a man. I'd think he is one not to trust. I would also not want to go against another woman that is his wife with kids.
I like being on my own and not bought.
One day, he will tire of you, by that time you have gotten use to the lifestyle. Also, what about holidays. He wouldn't be around.
He would only there when he could slip out.
There are better ways to make a living instead of being kept.
The very word kept makes me cringe. It's like you are kept in a prison.

The Dobe

RE: I am getting married!

Ok, add me in to the process. I want in on the dough but also some time4fun, ha. I say we only allow so many other women to be on his wedding list. That way the profits once split will be higher.
We won't have to worry to much about wear and tear on us.
Since we will be hiring one substitute for our team and keep him happy and ourselves also.

The Dobe

RE: Who usually ends a relationship ?

Neither. I'd say the one who is in control of the relationship more. It could be the man who a normally in control but not over this type of woman. It could be the man because he is not as committed as the woman is. It's real luck if both care about each other equally. I'd say that relationship might last a long time.

The Dobe

RE: Can we all be blind?

That might have worked for you typing it, but it doesn't work for me reading it. I couldn't make sense of what you were saying.
Can you sum it up without all the "we, I". I would like to understand what you meant.

I liked your next post better when you answered what the OP had asked.

The Dobe

RE: Do you stil have a childhood toy?

Yes, I have a sock monkey made by my Great-Grandmother. She used brown socks to make him and dry beans for the insides or something like that.

I also have a furry kitty that you wind up and it's arms moves. I think it is one of a kind. It has stayed in good shape. I'd never sell it. My Mother's boyfriend gave it to me. He was a great guy.

The Dobe

RE: Reading Body Language

Once at a outdoor party, I was talking to a guy friend. On the other side of the party was a blond guy that I was interested in. We knew each other and keep looking at each other. Then I paid attention to the other guy. Then to my surprise, the one husky guy I really liked came right to me. Then we danced.

That was fun by just giving him the look, he came right to me. That was a powerful feeling. We did date for awhile.

The Dobe

RE: do black clothes....

I wear colors and also black. Black puts me into a different mood. I think black is a strong color and fun to wear. It's also a powerful color. Sometimes I like to wear black from top to bottom. Wearing a black turtleneck and pants. Then black boots with a heel and a short leather jacket. Plus, wash out black color for my hair with red lipstick on. Then walk to an event with my Blue gray Doberman. It was interesting the effect we had on men.

RE: Ouch

I'm sorry Nanners. I'm sure you didn't want things to end.
You have fought one battle and won. You would not accept the behavior, it affected you and your children so you ended it.
Now, as someone posted before me, you will go through the stages of losing someone. You might be in the stunned stage now. Then there is the grieving stage. It's fine to cry, it gets feelings out. There will be anger also. Eventually, you get to the accepting stage then things will be better.
Time is the best healer.

Plus, you don't want to get into a situation where he starts to threaten you and hurt you. I went to a separated/divorce meeting recently, I've been divorced since June. One lady there who is getting divorced, broke my heart. I thought I had it bad, my ex would get angry also, then not talk to me for 3 days or so. Then he had an affair...
But this lady had moved 5 times in one week to get away from her abusive husband. He had tried to hurt her and their daughter would come to be with her mom (only 7) and get into the fetal position. So the only way to deal with this brute is for my friend to get a lawyer that will be ready to take this guy on. Somehow, he has gotten close to her Mom who is interfering with things. Even calling her daughter's school.The bad thing is she would call the police and ask for help and they would not come. She called again, no police. So she drove to the police station.
It has happened several times. It seems that the police either can't or will not do anything to help her.

The Dobe

RE: Is bigger really better ??

Cherry, I agree with you there, nothing can compare.

Ha, I just had a vision of something popping up, ha.
Yes, over 8 is a monster.

One guy told me he had measured himself and he sure was
proud of it. Again, it didn't turn my world around.

The Dobe.

RE: Gentlemen seeking a daughter!

I think you may get off writing about it and causing attention.
Can't you do something better in your life than sink this low?

The Dobe

RE: Gentlemen seeking a daughter!

I do not think you should be on this site. What you want is pretty sick.

It sure goes to show you someone who looks like the OP might be nice but he appears to be a major wack job.

Go get some therapy.

The DOberman

RE: Get him back?

After being in a separated/divorced class, my ex cheated - the amount of men suffering were the same as women. I think women are cheating as much as men. One man's wife took off with a married man and he left his wife and children.
It's sick what people will do to each other. Alot of times, it is a itch and they put that before morals. They are so far gone into pleasure, they ditch their family. What about the children? They don't care anymore.

The Dobe

RE: Get him back?

But he is not a good man if he has chosen another beside you and cheated.

I think you are caught up on wanting him but he doesn't deserve you.
There will be someone better. Throw this flounder back in the sea.
Sure it will hurt but you will feel better.

The Dobe

RE: Get him back?

Right, Wilson, the poor man. No, it's about his ego, secret desires, and it's all about him if he resorts to that. No women deserves that. Don't be a slime bucket behind your wife's back, be a man and be upfront, and get a divorce.

The DObe

RE: Get him back?

I would be on my way to find a decent man, not him for sure.
He would be the loser since if we were married, divorce. If it's done that behind your back, why want him back. High percentage he will do it again, I don't want any STDs.

The Doberman

RE: To: Snow White

Maybe we should leave you alone so you can communicate with her so that you do not just jump on people when we do not agree with what you say.

I'm out of here.

The Dobe

RE: To: Snow White

Another example of your foot in your mouth.

The Dobe