Maybe He Is Into You – Here’s How To Tell

Maybe He Is Into You Heres How To Tell

There are plenty of people who are happy to tell you that a guy is not interested. In fact, there are entire books and movies dedicated to the subject. But what about when a guy does like you? Here are some of the ways to tell that a man is interested in you romantically.

He's Got The Look

He has that look in his eyes. You know the one. He holds eye contact for just a little bit too long. When he speaks to you he is facing you, and his body language is open. The way we look at another person along with our body language is a strong measure of how we are feeling on the inside, whether we are conscious of giving ourselves away or not.

He Lets You Know About His Achievements

He just got a promotion at work. And guess what? He called you first to tell you about it. Sharing important news in life, be it good or bad, is a way of telling you that he trusts you and respects your opinion. It's also a good sign that you have been supportive of him in the past. What a great basis for a relationship!

He Remembers the Things You Like

He rings and offers to take you to see a new comedy movie that you mentioned you wanted to see. In the car on the way he is playing your favorite radio station. When you take your seats, he surprises you with a Frozen Coke, when just last week you mentioned you used to drink them all the time when you were a kid.

Remembering the things that you like is more than just an effort to please you. It shows that he actually cares about your preferences and wants to see a smile on your face. Taking the time to remember what you like also shows that he likes you enough to put in a little time and effort.

He Mentions You To His Friends and Family

Sometimes it's nice to be talked about behind your back. Maybe he mentioned to his friend that you love going to see sports. Maybe he told his mom how great you are with interior design. He may not have mentioned that he is interested in you romantically, but if he's talking about you, then it's a sign that he's interested in you, and also that he finds you pretty interesting and holds you in high regard.


If you are noticing these signs in your relationship, then there's a pretty good chance that the guy in your life wants to be more than just friends. If so, it sounds like things are going pretty good. Let them go along at their own pace and it's likely that you will be a couple pretty soon. Don't be afraid to speak about how you are feeling either. Let him know that you are interested. It could lead you to that place that you both want to be a little faster.

Comments (1)

HuggerMan4U
Good advice, though when I like someone they will generally not know it. Shyness and plenty of very bad experiences keeps me from telling them I like them. Instead of telling a woman I like her, I might compliment her on her earrings or necklace, or I might say, "It's cool that you know how to do______," or "I like that you're into_____."

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