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There is a phrase In our Bengali language ..

" Life is the Synonym of Water "

Which usually means that , Living Creatures , be it an animal or a plant , Can Not Survive Without Water ..

That's very much True no doubt ..

But ..
What If we take this phrase a bit differently !!

If we say that ,

" Water is the Synonym of Life " !!

Water has some special and unique characteristics ..

Water is Flexible ..
It can adjust with little effort within any formation ..
It can be transformed into any state easily , comparing to other elements present in our Earthly environment ..

Yet , Water is Tremendously Powerful ..
It can be too much destructive if not being handled carefully ..

Before implying Restrictions Forcefully and Unnecessarily upon the Water , everybody should Beware about the Limit ..

Water under Restrictions , Within a Containment zone , is Not Safe to Nourish the Life ..
Water without a free flow , can become poisonous and the nursery for deadly Bacteria or Insects ..

Above all ..

Water is One of the Most Free Spirited Elements that Exists in this Universe ..

Nobody can Capture the Water with a Strictly Grip ..
You can only Hold the Water When you Humbly Fold Your Hands Together ..

So the best way to deal with the Water is ,

Let It Flow Free ..

And the Same is for LIFE ..

Let The Life Be As It Is ..
Live The Life To Be As It Is ..

If at any time in 2017 I have annoyed you
Pissed you off
Or offended you...
I'm sorry...
Happy New Year!!!

If there is love then your shortcomings don't matter

"WARNINGS SIGNS"

ITs All Depend, At What Stage You Are At The Moment!
If you Already are seen Visions, If you Are Feeling Violent!, Toward Other People, If You Are Letting Your Self Go,You are not feeling Hungry To eat Your " Favourite Foods", If you are Staying in doors, Not wanted to See or Talk to Anyone,If You Feel Unworthy, If you Feeling Not Wanted to live Anymore.
"You Need To Seek Medical Help Immediate"
Get Your Self To A Near Hospital!
"Please Do it For Your Self And your Loves One"
"Medications Should Be The Last Result"
" And Just For Short Time" By Reducing the Doses Slowly! " This Is To Avoid Addiction!

What Help You To Overcome Depression!

To Overcome Depression: You Need To Express What You Are Feeling( Talk, Talk) If You Can Not Talk To A Love One ," Contact Head Space" Or Similar Helping Place ! As soon Is Possible!
They Will Counselling You, And you Will Feel Better And Better!
"Do Not Miss Any Appointmments"
...................................................Continued....................................................................................................By falicia
What Is Your Opinion?

Following my footsteps in reverse I journey to search for the dreams in which will guide me forward, onward down the path which is mine in truth. As doubt fills my mind, laughter fills my heart, and so forth joy spills from my soul. I linger for safety, for comfort in the thorns, though they may be, filled with angry storms. As an old friend warns, not to seek that which the dreams, fail to speak. For the temptations draw in the weak, with short lived pleasures and negative after effects, simply to deceive & misguide from the honest vibration inside. As a saw guides itself deeper into its target goal, so must I, dive deeper into my soul. Answers clear of bias are found nowhere outside the questioning mind, the most complete perspective is within the inner multiverse, for it is comprised of all the facets of the self, simultaneously.

This story is about you dear reader, a story that should have been taught to all from the day you, as a child, understood your native tongue.
It is a story of the two spirits within You. Grey Wolf and White Tiger.
There is a third spirit, the third spirit you have heard about often in fact I am confident majority of the world knows of this Third Spirit. The Soul...

But very few understand the purpose or role of one's own soul. So I will make it basic, but know this, The Soul is a vast and complex spirit, and yet, it is governed by the two spirit animals, the Wolf and Tiger.

Now like any beginning the Wolf was once a pup and the Tiger once a cub. Both spirits were happy and at peace, loving even. Because you as a baby, most at least, acknowledged both. During the early stages of your life story you fed the Tiger, which in turn fed the Wolf. But here is the sad piece to this story, the world around you fed the wolf also. So there was a growing unbalance between the two spirits. Now the Tiger was the leader which is why we naturally fed the Tiger, because she is or was loving, wise, gentle and beyond intelligent. So she fed her enemy willingly the Wolf, now the wolf feared the Tiger to the very core of his being, but the love that emanated from The Spirit Tiger, was intoxicating that he embraced her as the leader, he could not fear with the life force of her love.


But...
What the tiger could not do is change the choices of the reader, You...
Over many years the Wolf grew stronger with vigour because he no longer needed the White Tiger to feed him. Because he had other wolves to fed him now, he also realised he was strong enough to fight for the right to be The Alpha of the pack. But still he could not fight her yet because she was still stronger than he, even without food she was an unstoppable force, so he waited...
and he waited...
and he waited...
12 Years go by the reader(you) has all but forgotten The Beautiful White Tiger because the ways of the Grey Wolf have been deeply embedded into you all. That the tiger within you is weakened beyond imagination, simply by choosing to ignore her. Now how the soul works it is but a bridge between both spirits and over 12 years you have chosen to travel from one side to the other, but choosing the tiger less and less. Simply the best way to describe the soul within yourself is on that same bridge there is you and the story and bridge are both the soul in one. You, as the reader of this story chooses between the Wolf and thee Tiger as the story unfolds but the bridge provides the choice of either spirit done by telling your lifestory. Now the wolf is 12 years strong, and as a right of passage challenges the tiger the right to be Alpha. Now the Tiger knows as well as the Wolf does that she is going to lose, but she will fight never the less. Because she loves both the wolf and you she fights to bring peace. She must because it is her nature, as leader, but she was never going to win . As weak as she was she fought fiercely and valiantly with strength that the wolf did not expect, her nature to save you dear reader was all that drove her. But the wolf was cunning and had you to fight her also. His true plan was hatched, because he knew she would not raise a single paw against you, and he ripped her body to the very edge of her existence. He knew IF he killed her he killed himself so kept her under heel by keeping the wounds constant and fresh never healing.

Her heart as not only the White Tiger but the leader and lover of both the wolf and reader was devastating beyond imagination.
And if you stare into a mirror long enough you will see the sadness in your eyes. Her sadness. I know for I also saw her sadness

But there is still a chance, how do I know? because you have read this far. It means She fights for you even now her gentle and loving nature still remains in tact and needs my help. As a lover of the White Tiger I will do what I can.

This is what happens when you take social distancing way too far.
In compliance, somebody wasn't thinking this matter all the way through.
They sure-did put their mark this bench to comply with social distancing.
It's TOTALLY USELESS now.

It's in front of a grocery store and a few steps away from where they spray carts with chemical sanitizer. I'm thinking maybe they could have peeled back a portion of the screening so the bench could be used by one person and spray it a few times a day.

From time-to-time people ignore the orange mesh and use the bench sitting one at each end.

I am giving up smoking cigarettes. Patch really works.

Everything is useful. To a degree, of course. So don't celebrate anything above your breath, and don't mourn anything longer than you should. Joy and sorrow are just two different ways that build you as a person. Avoid neither, glorify none. In time you learn that even things you extremely don't like have a rightful place in your life. You can't shake them off, there is a law above your will. You have to rearrange them, change their priority level from high to low. And get on with your life. People you don't like won't magically vanish. Things you don't like doing won't stop just because you're tired of repetition. Muscles don't grow stronger without effort, patience and discipline. The same goes for your personality. It's a spiritual muscle. If you want to become the person you believe you deserve to be - earn it. Forget the world, prove it to yourself. Respect is not a human right, you have to build it. It starts within you and radiates to let others know how you see yourself.

So stop demanding, and start growing.

My major interview was today. Yesterdays interview was just a short one, while today was the interview, that will determine if I get the job or not.

I had to complete some tests again. The first one was where i had to answer 16 questions. On that test, I had 93.33% correct, which put me at the top. The second test was designed to calculate my WPM. I ended with 56 WPM with 2 spelling errors, which landed me in the top 5% of results.

Next followed a series of questions, where I was asked about previous jobs. How I handled stress, how I was as a person and how I approach my job.

The entire interview was little less than an hour long, and it ended with the interviewer saying, that she didn't think I would have any issues with the job. That makes me think, that I am in with a very real shot of securing employment on a full time basis. The salary is also pretty good, which allows me to save up for a new place to live!

Fingers crossed that I will hear some positive news back from them! They said tomorrow or Monday at the latest!