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As we continue to fight on our daily lives.
Do not fear of failure, but be terrified of regret. Giving up is the birth of regret??
priceless??

according to all online quotes.
Putting on my investigative hat i decided to research as to why this might be !
While flicking through a news storyI came across stumbled upon This Article !



Now I never even knew that was a thing.
Did you ?

I also wonder,
Given his history did Donald Trump have a hand in mrs Bum Bum

So there's three things for you all to natter about among yourselves.

Remember Keep it clean people

Been awake all fking night with anxiety and can't sleep.

.. Women judge so quickly, and their judgement rarely goes wrong.

If you have crush on someone, your brain will find difficulty to tell a lie to that person.

Studies have revealed that a man and woman can never be just friends.

The closer you are in a relationship, the more you can read the other’s mind.

A study has found that friends-with-benefits relationships are just as sexually satisfying as marital relationships.

Never judge someone without knowing the whole story. You may think you understand, but you don't.

85% of people have experienced a dream so real that they were not sure if it happened in real life or not.

Subconsciously, it takes at least 6-8 months for the brain to process complete forgiveness for someone who hurt you emotionally.

Smiling is the ultimate antidepressant.

Zebras can't sleep alone.

It is believed that when you die in a dream, you wake up because your brain cannot process the idea of death and what comes after.

Psychologically, we tend to ignore those who adore us and pay more attention to those who ignore us.

Swans only have one partner for their whole life. Once their partner dies, they pass away from a broken heart.

You can do 100 good things but people will remember one mistake.

Psychopaths say “um” more frequently in order to appear like a normal person.

After a long journey, you have loved some people, made many mistakes, cried and laughed, and the once unsound, once vain, lost and young ignorance have finally become the past. Then you will find that after a turn, you will return to the original place: live the simplest life, be the most sincere yourself, and love a person who makes you feel most comfortable.

hope creates happy-hormones

One day everything will be alright, this hope helps us to be happy in hard times. But sometimes seeing the bad incidents that have happened to others breaks the hope that 'one day everything will be fine'.

When do you lose hope?

At birth we boarded the train of life and met our parents,
and we believe they will always travel on our side.


However, at some station
our parents will step down from the train,
leaving us on this journey alone.


As time goes by,
other people will board the train;
and they will be significant
i.e. our siblings, friends, children,
and even the love of your life.


Many will step down
and leave a permanent vacuum.


Others will go so unnoticed
that we don't realize
they vacated their seats.


This train ride will be full of joy,
sorrow, fantasy, expectations, ( mostly unrealistic)
hellos, goodbyes, and farewells.


Success of the ride consists of having a good relationship
with all passengers requiring that we give the best of ourselves.


The mystery to everyone is:
We do not know at which station
we ourselves will step down.


So, we must live in the best way,
to love, forgive, and offer the best of who we are.


It is important to do
this because when the time comes for us to step down
and leave our seat empty
we should leave behind beautiful memories
for those who will continue to travel on the train of life.

Unfortunately, carrying around the caboose of regrets, emotional baggage
and anger only just makes the journey that much more difficult


I wish you a joyful journey on the train of life.
Reap success and give lots of love.
More importantly, thank God for the journey.


Lastly, I thank whoever
for being one of the passengers on my train.


(By the way, I am not planning to get off the train anytime soon
but when and if I do, just remember I am glad for those of you who were part of my journey.)

It matters not how many passengers who board or disembark as much as the quality of passengers
who made a difference in our lives.

If someone does not approve of certain actions of a person, does that mean he/she HATES that person?

HATE is an very strong word.

He/she may feel a certain degree of disapproval towards certain actions of that person but may not necessarily HATE that person

Is it fair to label others as HATERS of that person just because he/she disapproves of certain actions of that person?

Labelling others as HATERS merely because they may not approve of the actions of a person is childish and immature.

If you do not agree with the views of others, then criticise their views logically and constructively rather than resort to name calling and dergatory remarks.

This is a violation of Blog Rule 2:

Treat others the way you would like to be treated – with respect - be polite, considerate, with no personal attacks, name calling, harassment, bad language.



Comments?

Do you say a prayer of gratefulness daily? Well, I don’t. I was facing a crossroad in my life recently. I decided not to do what I used to do career wise. But due to the habitual mode of having a regular job, I accepted a position not in alignment with what I want to do. What I want to do is also a part of what I did in my last job. To cut the story short I just did not want to deal with certain aspects of my previous full time employment anymore.

It was only after accepting the offer that I started to look deeply into myself. I read and also spent time in meditation. While being guided through a particular meditation online, asking me to think of all the times I have been grateful, it daunted on me that I wasn’t grateful most of my life. The truth is, the universe has always been kind to me, handing me what I want all the time. Even the things I did not want was given because I have not consciously looked inside myself before.

After looking deeply into what I want, rather than just take what comes my way without paying attention to my mind, I decided I will pay as much attention to my thoughts as possible made me feel a lot better. The offer was also a gift from the universe because in my state of confusion then, I did want a job, but I wasn’t paying attention to what I really want.

A friend gave me the advise this morning. She said her nephew who is only 4 years old, never feels guilt telling someone else he does not want something anymore. Whereas I do – most of my life. I do not like to disappoint people. That’s the nice way of saying it. Rather, I have been conditioned to always seek approval because I did not receive much as a child.

Thanks to my friend, I looked deeply into my behaviour pattern that drives me towards unhappiness. Now, I am conscious I can live without the guilt of wanting anyone’s approval again. It is freeing for the mind.

A free mind is a mind that is able to break from its usual habits. The ability to say ‘NO’ to your own mind when it is driven to do the same thing over and over again that causes you discomfort is liberating.

It is apt that I was beside a child on my way home in the train when she said, “I see cars, I see trees.” It was as what my friend had said. The child was just pointing out to her mother what she sees, without interpreting it and adding unnecessary layers like adults do.

When you cause upset to anyone it may feel uncomfortable at the moment, but it does not have to carry any guilt or burden at all.

Share your views of what you are actually seeing in your mind. We see, but we seldom do SEE it like a child. Be aware of your mind and be grateful because the universe always gives you what you want, even fear.

I'm hungover today guess what mine was lol thank you Coors