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The great mystery, savior, enlightener, solver of seeming dilemmas, contributer to the biosphere, ultimate recycler, and so much more. But for the few who chose her, she is so often really merely a permanent solution to temporary challenges. Glad simeone convinced me of this way back when. Of course, some have regrets. ;-----)) Aa.

One must remember that most people on our planet today have very little freedom – Every society in our world is very different and each attempts to find meaning and happiness in a completely unique way. .. ..."Happiness is not something ready made..... It comes from your own actions." -- Dalai Lama. .. .. Happiness is one of the many emotions humans experience. It may perhaps be the most important feeling a person can have and it is the one feeling everyone strives to achieve, yet strangely, for the most part, people seem to only get a glimpse of it. Pleasurable satisfaction, a state of well-being and contentment are the more outstanding elements of happiness. .. ... true happiness is found in the emotional connections established between people. .. ,... the length of one’s life, the presence of love, and the amount one’s progress or success throughout their lifetime. ... ... “Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace and gratitude.” -- Denis Waitley. .. seeking only pleasure cause many problems on both self and others. Therefore, I think that striving for authentic happiness is the best way to solve problems that humans cause by seeking pleasure and make the better world where many people can become happy .... ,,.... ,,,.... the concept of happiness is complex and hard to measure, many people believe that happiness is mysterious, elusive, and totally out of their control. This is not true. Actually, happiness is a choice. Each person can decide whether to be happy or not. ,,... ..."Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be." -- Abraham Lincoln....

.....or something like that. Let's face it folks, doesn't exactly seem like the general level of civility world wide is on the rapid increase. Many of us are quick to anger at the behaviors of others. Think about the many irritating examples. The driving of others. Friends' forgetfulness. The adage---"one always hurts the one one loves". Most interactions with teenage miscreants. My own blogs. People who don't use full sentences. And so on. Wish I had learned the following solid truth decades ago. If I really think about it honestly, almost every annoyng behavior I experience with other humans is something I've myself done to others----often more than once. OK. Got the helmet and flack vest on, so bombs away. Aa

While undergo this life, sometimes what we dreaming of for our life are turning / not suitable with reality.

~ Once we have ever dream that our lifetime project will ended with compliment by our boss, but it failed and ended with a disappointment.
~Once we have ever dream to have a job and be settled on a well establish company, but.., it failed and ended with dismissal.
~ Once we have ever dream to have a harmony marriage, but .. it failed and ended with divorce.
~Once we have ever dream to re try and find another good man on dating site, but.,, it failed and ended with met some terrible scammers.
~ once we have ever dream to have a long and joyful life with our beloved family , but.., it failed and ended with loss.
~ Once we have ever dream to have a peaceful life around the world, but it failed and ended with war and death.

Like it or not those are some stages that once in a life time will be faced by all mankind.
Behind it , there are always a mystery that created by God to make us more clever, responsible, tough, strong and courageous mankind.

Wise spiritual words " Some day we'll be really, really grateful that God gave us what we needed instead of what we thought we wanted."


Happy Sunday for all bloggers and my old friends here...

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It's often said, that life is what you make of it.

More than that, how we treat others is actually our legacy.
How we treat others affects them and
often how they also treat others.
These ripples of influence can have profound results over time.

Physics teaches us, that each action has a equal opposite reaction.
However, social sciences demonstrate chain reactions, often
recognized in trends or even mass hysteria.
Random acts of kindness can ultimately be magnified over time,
resulting in powerful positive change.
Sometimes karma even pays us and others back well.

Unfortunately, none of us gets out of life alive.

With all that as a preface, I'm asking you to give a little bit of yourself
in a good cause to help someone else.
It's really not too much to do. Indeed, it might bring YOU joy to do so.
Have you ever smiled at someone and saw them smile back ? :)
It's a good thing.

There's a little boy dying of a mitochondrial disease.
It is terminal. There is no cure. Eventually, it will kill him.
The disease robs him of his energy and one day his heart
and his life will succumb to it.
He might make it to his 15th birthday in August.
He has one wish. To receive 100,000 birthday cards before he dies.
Each one inspires him to hang in there a little it more.
His name is Jacob Priestley and his address is;
P.O. Box 855
Queen City, AZ 85142 USA

If you can find it within your heart and budget, send him a
birthday card with some kind words, like "thinking of you",
some encouraging words like, "Each day we wake up is a wonderful gift" a nice kids joke, or maybe a hand drawn
Star Wars scene, or something else a 14/15 year old boy might enjoy.

Here's the link for his story;




And here's the link for the song - 'Give a little bit'



Feel free to copy my blog and post it wherever you feel it might help.

Have a terrific Thursday !

Jim

If you don't make changes in your life, you will be non-stop in the same place. And that is a bad feeling, trust me.

When I was new to this hospital I’ve got a sign to a preceptor Nurse meeting she is a senior nurse who is supposed to teach me the policies and the operating procedures in our hospital especially in our department where I was assigned an emergency department. I noticed that most of our coworkers didn’t like her I thought it was just because she’s Frank and straightforward and a little mean when she talks but personally I don’t mind people like this so I kind of sucked it up and it’s OK with me so we became friends.
She was a little difficult because there were times when she would just ignore you and then when you directly talk to her ask her what’s going on if she’s mad or some thing she would deny everything and just carry on like nothing is happening. But of course that’s some thing that I don’t like because Frank as I am and straightforward as I am if there’s some thing that I don’t like about our interaction i would say it.

Now fast forward when I got Covid. When I Got discharged from the hospital people were talking to me asking me how I was if I’m feeling better what problems do I still have because of Covid and what sort of things they can do to help me cope and recover even better. Aside from that though there were some concerned people who mentioned to me about the things that she has said against me behind my back. They said that she’d been telling people that I was being so careless going on dates while there’s a pandemic. That I am actually the one who gave them the virus and put them at risk. To be honest I felt really sorry that if I was the one who gave them the virus that I didn’t want to do that although I was being very careful with my own health and other peoples health like washing my hands all the time wearing my mask changing my mask if I needed to just to make sure that I don’t spread the virus that things still happen. Good thing though for them for her and her child they were a symptomatic they never had anything like cough or fever her child got runny nose and so did she and then they have a test and they were positive and they got isolated at home while I was admitted to the hospital for eight days and stayed on home quarantine for few more days until I got better to go back to work. But I wasn’t sure where I got the virus all I know is I got the vaccine and after two weeks I got the chills and the fever that doesn’t go down no matter how much medication they take so I don’t know who to blame I don’t really want to blame anybody anymore or even during that time because blaming would never help anybody anyway so I focused on meditating and praying and going inside myself thinking and trying to heal myself.

And then because of the things that I learned that she said about me while I was in the hospital I went on silent mode. I stopped going to their house. I just stopped the communication and the bonding.

Then yesterday I was having fun with other nurses because they had idle Time and so we made a TikTok video where we danced. I posted it on Facebook and there were a lot of reactions and comments to it. The next day I came to work and I was told that I have to hide it or take the video down. They said that somebody complained about it in the meeting. I didn’t have to ask to know that it was her who did it I know because that’s her nature to go behind a someone’s back, friend or not. I know it was her because she’s done it before. It didn’t reach the higher management and quite frankly I didn’t think it was wrong because like everybody in our hospital has been doing that and I don’t know why it was just me who was singled out.

Anyway it doesn’t matter that you did that anymore. I just removed all my Facebook friends that work in the same hospital. Maybe life is better this way it’s going to be more peaceful without the eyes and ears and mouth of other people dipping in your life. I hope she finds happiness in her life so she stops being bitter and just be happy.

You can speak about other poeple, only if you know who you are. :) This is one of most important things in someone's life (who am I?)

We Always Focus on Every One Else!
But We Forget Our Self!
We Are Important!
People Need Us!!
"So Be Nice to Your Self"
"Start Today"
"Find a Big Mirror"
And Look Your Self!
What Is The Nice' s Thing You Have!
For Example ! It Is You Eyes?
Make It stand Out! ( By Using Black Eye linner under your Eyes)
Also By Wearing a Top the Color of Your Eyes!
Make Today " Me Time"!
Go to the Shop and Buy your Favorite Food ! What ever It Is!
If You Like Dancing? Put You Favorite Music and Dance Or Go To You Favorite Club to Dance! ( I Highly Recommend Campbelltown Catholic Club! It Is A Happy and Safe Place To Go!)
If you Are a Heavy Drinker Cut Down Strait a Way!
It Is Very Dangerous Habit! Please Start To Cut Down The Amount Of Alcohol You Are Consuming Now Right Away!
Together With The Number Of Cigarettes You Are Taking! " Please Today"
Make Your Self Heathy Again!

Stay Away From Negative People!
Hang Around With People Whom Will Like And Love You!
Do Not Stress Not Matter What Happen!
Dress Nice And Smell Nice !
With Colors That Suit You!
Love Your Self!
By Doing That You Will Be Able To Love Others Too!

Thankyou !

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