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I have been a member of CS for about a year. Of course hoping to find a goodman as a soulmate. AT FIRST that is the ONLY POINT being a member of CS.

As time passed by...there is another thing that I enjoyed in CS. The BLOGs. Recently for the last month, I spent time reading the blogs...and I enjoy it. I read how members support each other....share many topics...(positive and bad)...sharing experience ....and many more. I begin to notice the usual bloggers.... Now...when sign in to CS, the first thing I click is BLOGS. And spent more time reading it compare to browsing searching online men. Even when I hide my profile...I still sign in to CS...reading BLOGs. Thank you bloggers for your writings.

Daily outputs:
Positive & Blessing Speeches will result.....
- Positive attitude/manner
- Positive mind/thoughts
- Positive language
And that is BLESSINGs for your love ones and yourself.

Happy day.....to All...

Lindzy

This separate paragraph......

writing business.....

really isn't so bad....

after all!

I don't understand why no one ever brought it to my attention before.

But, be careful what you ask for.

Do you ever look at your life like someone else may look at it? Do you ever take yourself out of yourself, and look at your life from a different perspective? As if you aren't you? Like looking at yourself through a camera lens.

I do that sometimes. I remove myself from me, from all the emotions and ego, and just examine what I've been paying attention to. And I ask myself, is this worth putting any energy into? If my attention is hooked, then I've invested some kind of energy - positive or negative. If I devote any energy to it, then I must care about it in some way.

Let's face it, if we don't care about something or someone, we simply don't devote any thought or energy to it. It doesn't hold our attention for one second. It's like this blog. Have I hooked your attention? Enough to read it? If I have, then you've devoted some energy to it. Now, I can ask you, what did you feel about it? Anything? If I hooked your attention enough to read it, if it's meaningful to you, you will feel something about it, hopefully something positive.

If it's not meaningful in any way, you may feel I've wasted your time. And then you will forget it. A fleeting moment lost. But perhaps you're angry that I've wasted your time. So you write a nasty comment, venting your anger at my blog. And thus, I have hooked your attention enough for you to care to elicit an emotion and to make a comment. And if I respond to your negativity, then you have hooked my attention enough for me to care and perpetuated that negative energy.

But sometimes that camera that we look at life through, has a very narrow lens perspective on it.

I know there's a quote by Maya Angelou that says something to the effect that people may not remember what you say, but they always remember how you made them feel. Now, I do have a bit of an issue with this, because no one can 'make' us feel anything we don't choose to feel. But people do remember the energy one emits. And it's up to us, whether we choose to emit positive or negative energy. If the energy one emits is always negative, then it isn't any wonder that other's don't want to be around that kind of energy on a consistent basis.

In widening our focus, we get to see so much more than the pithiness of ourselves. That as much as our lives are about us, our own dramas, our own plays, our own tragedies, our own comedies, they really are about living wider than our own narrow perspective. About loving and accepting ourselves enough to be able to share that with others. Not in a way of trying to control what they think, do, say, or believe, but in a way that benefits them - giving them what they truly need. When we help others, we help them believe in themselves. Of course, the payoff is that we get to feel good as well.

And I truly think that's what life is about. Not hoarding who we are - but sharing ourselves. Not seeing what is wrong with everyone else, but seeing what is right. Not concerning ourselves with what others do wrong, but only in our own goals and what we can do 'right'.

And I think that's what optimism is. Living wide. Seeing life through a wide-angle lens. Seeing that everyone has something of value to offer, even if it's to teach us what we don't want in our lives. To help those that actually want and need our help. Being able to 'scan' with the wide angle lens, and then narrow the focus only on those things and people that are worthy of hooking our attention, emotions and energy.

I don't think it's ever too late to learn how to live wide. To change one's focus and perspective. To not only feel good oneself, but to help others feel good about themselves. And it's up to us whether we want to focus on the positive or negative.

We all deserve the abundance that this life offers and to share it. We all deserve to be happy and feel loved. We all have value and deserve to live the fullest life possible.

Open up the lens as much as you can. Live wide open.

Well, I guess that this just proves once again that I'm none too bright.

I know. A lot of you on here have already suspected that to be the case.

I wasn't going to say anything about this to anyone because I should know better
by now.

My father used to say, 'too soon old, and too late smart' But I never listened.

Here's the story;

I sent an e-mail to a lady with a new profile a few days ago. (Why not?)
She actually answered me within an hour. (So far, so good!)
This lead to a flurry of back and forth of about 60 e-mails. (Potential!)
She was in the right age group. She was in my preferred size, shape and culture. (Happy happy)
Idiot boy Vikingson was starting to get some feelings back in an old cold heart. (Stupid)
This morning, her profile disappeared. (Damn)

I really don't know what to think. I don't know if she's real and I scared her off, or if she's a fraud and got caught before she closed the web........

If she's real, and if she's timid, and if she sneaks back on here and reads this, I hope she writes to me.

what a nice and simple life is mine in comparison....

You can’t stop people from talking about you.


People are mean. They will make judgments about you right off the bat without any prior knowledge and they will try to mold you into a character
they deem worthy of respect. If you construct your identity around the criticism of others, you will end up being a very boring person.

It is not until you’ve stripped yourself of your personal opinions, only to have someone find fault with your new identity, that you realize how little other people’s opinions matter. Someone will build you up only to tell you that you’re doing everything entirely wrong and sometimes, that’s the only way to realize that people will talk about you no matter
what you do.

Long story short: you won’t satisfy everyone, and if you try, you’ll either end up dull or crazy...
#Jt

Sometimes I feel like I should be a bit bad, as being too nice has always put me in trouble. Is it good to be bad sometimes ?

In my last blog , some people tell me what's good and what's bad & guide me who's coward , and making fun that one day americans go to job in china , and also guide me that how powerful coward biden is , maybe today they all wake up from there fake dreams ,
2 bomb blasts outside of afghanistan airport and so many innocent people died & injured , there are too many american civilian and army men died and injured , maybe you soo called intelligent people get that what I want to tell you in my last blog if no then take dreams of your looser president , you people did very big mistake to elect biden government and because of him so many innocent people died and injured in afganistan. It's starting.

There is a child inside each one of us, our ego does not allow to come out, but comes out in front of the person we are most comfortable with.

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"if I had a penny for every penny I didn't have."
would I be any the wiser?