How to Approach Attractive Women: A Guy's Guide to Dating Hot Women

Some guys are reluctant to ask really attractive women out on a date. They fear they'll be rejected, or that a hot woman won't be interested in him.

While it might be true that men are very visual when it comes to their preferences, women can actually become attracted to a man based on his personality rather than his appearance – as long as he plays his cards the right way.

What Attractive Women Find Appealing

When you see a gorgeous woman that you'd love to approach, always keep in mind that good looking women are quite used to men falling all over them. They've heard every corny pick up line you can think of and they're used to being approached by men.

They're also masters at reading body language.

If a guy approaches her who seems nervous or is acting as though he knows he's going to be rejected, chances are her mind is thinking: "He doesn't even believe he's good enough to go out with me. Why should I bother?"

However, if you approach that same attractive woman with a cheeky grin and plenty of confidence, she'll be curious.

Self-confidence in a man is highly attractive to almost all women. They love a guy who is confident in himself and secure about who he is, but don't overdo it, or you risk being viewed as arrogant instead of confident.

Your body language is enough to tell her whether you really do have a high level of confidence in yourself or whether you're just acting that way. It's those tiny little facial signals and how you hold your body that she's reading.

For example, if you are able to catch her eye and hold her gaze for longer than just a quick glance, make the most of your opportunity. Raise one eyebrow at her at the same time as giving a cheeky little grin.

The eyebrow gesture is a silent question whether she's interested in you or not. The cheeky smile is a classic flirting sign that lets her know you're interest in her is more than just friendship.

Take notice of her body language in response to your signals. It will tell you whether it's safe to approach her or not.

For example: if she holds your gaze and then looks down coyly before looking away, she's displaying her interest. Give her a few seconds and if she's curious, she'll glance back at you to be sure you're still looking. However, if she looks directly past you at that super confident guy behind you, don't bother. She's picked up signals from someone else.

Women who are eager to be approached and asked out will display a few subtle body language signals at this point. She might moisten her lips, or flick her hair over her shoulder to reveal her neck. She may also cross her legs so that one foot points directly at you. This not only reveals her leg, but also reveals the object of her interest.

These body language signals in a woman are her way of letting you know it's safe to approach her and that she's not likely to reject you outright.

If you can see these signs aimed at you from an attractive women, go ahead and approach her. She invited you over, after all.