What is the best mindset to have before going into a relationship?
Not everything you see is reality. Be ready for surprisesNot everything you experience initially is going to last forever. Accept that there are stages and you need to pass through them. You can’t get stuck in one stage forever
Be open to adapt but don’t get influenced
Have some boundaries or you will feel suffocated to death
your opinion is much appreciated
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To your question, the mindset one ought to have if one is realistic is that you will start off with a phony heaven and finish with a reality hell.......All your love is in vain.
In that way you are focusing on your strengths and the positive impact that you can have on that persons life.
Now I don't expect a miracle. If it doesn't work out I can dump him the same as he can dump me.
Be prepared for the dump
I agree.We had our fair share of moments in our lives ,different road we pass and until
one pass by only then that one can understand
I would think that going into a fresh relationship with the pain of the previous one taken care of would benefit both one's self and your new partner.
Remember, you new partner is not your old partner.
That is so true it is not fair for both party comparing your ex to the present.
I experienced that too even mentioning would hurt
I would think that going into a
fresh relationship with the pain of the previous one taken care of would benefit both one's self and your new partner.
I guess it is johnny it would benefit in a way,after all you both will learn from it
Relationships are not easy. They need time, commitment and effort, lots of effort to make them work.
All the best if you are going into one.
than to expect things to be good and subsequently be disappointed.