Losing a buddy ..... hope NOT
Losing a buddy is so hard, especially the one you have known for years.
I might be too harsh with her who has been one of my close friends since we were in secondary school. But I had my own problems and was quite fed up with her complaints about her life, her hubby, her kids, her family, her siblings.
I have tried to be patient but then I lost it when I was facing my own problem which I tried to deal myself. Everyone has their own baggage and should take the responsibilities mostly by themselves. You cannot always ask someone else to solve your problem for you. Nope, it’s not the way.
Lets get some time to cool down and see whether we can forgive each other.
I will always be her friend. I will not forget her, even if she wants to erase my name from her buddy list.
And no, am not on her hubby’s side. The problems between he and she, should be settled by them only. Am just the outsider who care both of them, and also their lovely children. Hope it will work for the best.
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If your friend was indeed a very close friend, then you should have been able to politely, but firmly, say to that friend that at the moment you are really having problems trying to deal with something in your own life, which is taking all your available energy -- and you know that he/she will understand.
Be gracious in your inability to deal with your friend's problems. You never want to burn your bridges behind you, as they say. You never want to lose a friend, the same as you always want to lose the love of your family. Both are precious gifts to be cherished.
Yes, that's it true, but it should be working both ways not one way only and there is a time when you will be tired to be the sole person who should be in charge
Well, she has been a friend of my friend first. But she was welcomed to our friendship. Every one have been fed up with her as most of my close friends have families of their owns too and I was the last person who had an argument with her
I can't imagine to be left behind by your friends. That's why I hope that both of us will cool down and forgive each other