Judgmental people
Hello blogland citizens.I normally don't blog about personal stuff and more so with making people feel uncomfortable about our traits, genetic and or acquired. I believe that we are made of many different genes and cells that define who we are. Coupled with the gracious or not so gracious influence of the environment including but not limited to our own parents, classmates, fellow workers and friends.
Then as we grow granting that we interact with others and develop our own preference of belief, cultures and values, then the more we become who we are as a person, member of the society and humanity in general.
When we encounter people, sure we make up our own assumptions (hoping only for ourselves) which can be right or wrong. We make our perceptions as though it is the authority of how we make judgment of that person. There is nothing wrong on that, I think, if you keep it to yourself and don't use as a basis of argument against that person with however they live their lives.
For anyone to judge me, just because of what I wrote on my profile which of course, for me really define me, but contrary and very questionable on that judgment, I feel I am encroached and dissected without my consent. For someone that is just trying to say hello as the first letter and then claim that I am empty and that I am missing something is to me very rude and very judgmental. Of course I blocked that person because I don't see any healthy conversation that is going to develop. First of all I am not interested. I have never been interested on exchanging for mails except perhaps to about three people that have known me for so long on this site. This person, just said things about me, that is not true, at least to myself, the way I know myself and I find it hilarious if not outright outlandish.
Just venting here and thank you all for your reads.
And yes, I am not looking for anyone to complete my life. I feel very complete, thank you very much.
I am here because like I said on my profile, I am learning a lot. It is about me and my learning through interactions with everyone on other's posts and threads and my interaction with them on my writes, too. Good or bad, in agreement or in opposition, I do learn a lot. On top of that I am having fun. Thanks CS for this place.
Thank you all for your reads and or comments.
Comments (51)
Thrilled to read you've decided against leaving, somethings said to us does sometimes get under our skin (even the tough skinned one's) have feelings also... and I do think if and when we've had enough of this place, we actually do really mean it when we say "never again" but having said that anyone is entitled to have a change of heart... ever so happy to see you have
Thanks Ms. Witch and I am empowered by your way of thinking and most of the times your outright strength in calling a spade a spade. Truly a blessing for me to be here because of you Ms. Witch.
I was just reading a dear friend's blog about opinion and it is true, we all have one and most of the times it stands out to be good for all and sometimes refuted and argued against and that is alright.
The main thing we do have to remember is that there is an option to be civil and I know, we all need to remember it when we become so heated up against one's argument.
Thank you all for your concerns and comments.
Thanks Track.
But in the end, I realize it is his choice to make others feel bad and I do need to leave him alone, which is exactly what I did. I ignored him and blocked him. But it is over now and I am back as normal Track.
Thanks to all of you.
Thanks so much Track.