Judgmental people

Hello blogland citizens.

I normally don't blog about personal stuff and more so with making people feel uncomfortable about our traits, genetic and or acquired. I believe that we are made of many different genes and cells that define who we are. Coupled with the gracious or not so gracious influence of the environment including but not limited to our own parents, classmates, fellow workers and friends.

Then as we grow granting that we interact with others and develop our own preference of belief, cultures and values, then the more we become who we are as a person, member of the society and humanity in general.

When we encounter people, sure we make up our own assumptions (hoping only for ourselves) which can be right or wrong. We make our perceptions as though it is the authority of how we make judgment of that person. There is nothing wrong on that, I think, if you keep it to yourself and don't use as a basis of argument against that person with however they live their lives.

For anyone to judge me, just because of what I wrote on my profile which of course, for me really define me, but contrary and very questionable on that judgment, I feel I am encroached and dissected without my consent. For someone that is just trying to say hello as the first letter and then claim that I am empty and that I am missing something is to me very rude and very judgmental. Of course I blocked that person because I don't see any healthy conversation that is going to develop. First of all I am not interested. I have never been interested on exchanging for mails except perhaps to about three people that have known me for so long on this site. This person, just said things about me, that is not true, at least to myself, the way I know myself and I find it hilarious if not outright outlandish.

Just venting here and thank you all for your reads.

And yes, I am not looking for anyone to complete my life. I feel very complete, thank you very much.

I am here because like I said on my profile, I am learning a lot. It is about me and my learning through interactions with everyone on other's posts and threads and my interaction with them on my writes, too. Good or bad, in agreement or in opposition, I do learn a lot. On top of that I am having fun. Thanks CS for this place.

Thank you all for your reads and or comments.
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In my 5 years on here, I just want to thank you all for interacting with me, loving me, hating me, enjoying my writes and sometimes frustrated with them, learning from them I hope and sometimes make you feel degenerated etc.etc.

I think it's time to leave this place.
I have learned a lot from all of you. More so from those who opposed me as much as to those who agreed with me.

Thank you.

Phyllis
Jesus said dont judge others, but he didn't say you cant judge,goodbye and good luck on your journey,Lindy if I hurt you I'm sorry
NO,NO,NO!!!!!! I don't like that at all!!!!!!!!hug hug
shock what Ms Jones... you can't go sad

Never mind Rose he's just looking for some attention and like most men, goes about getting it the wrong way.
I don't especially like blogs like this cause sooner or later that particular person who says that they are leaving CS usually after enough coaxing they don't leave.

But whatever you decide to do I wish you well all the same.

I'm not going to coax you to stay.You also know that in all if not in most of our interactions with each other whether it had been in the Blogs or Threads that I've always been straight forward with you.
I thought Rose was Sands at first...laugh (the topic: narcissm).

Don't go, Lind. You are a very interesting person and provide a lot of content and discussion for the blogs.

If you want to stay, stay. Don't let occasional rock throwers rain on your parade. sad flower hug bouquet
Muslims ever where are in despair at the thought of you leaving the blogs.
Do you know what Rose, I hope you find a nice sensible woman here .. and hopefully she'll have the sense to beat the living day lights out of you with that black book you preach from very mad
itchy,

thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
Some people need to practice what they preach....Just another thought I have....peace
Lindsy,

he is not worth that....I know from past,that you have much more power in your self,no need to leave.
Miss Jones

Blog land won't be the same without you. Though I may not have commented on most of your blogs, I believe they were most informative and current.
Blogland would loose an iconic force.....hug teddybear cheers comfort
I agree with you Home thumbs up
some people should practice what they preach... so someone give me a black book and I'll practice beating him myself giggle

Mind yourself Semsu, I think he's out to get you comfort
itchy...laugh if you lived closer to me I would give you mean..rolling on the floor laughing
That should be mine...not mean...rolling on the floor laughing blonde moment...laugh
Home" if only I weren't so lazy at this hour of night, I'd be tempted to get out the owld broom and fly over and get it.. but tomorrow's a new day, who knows what might happen laugh
Itchy...laugh laugh Hopefully tomorrow will be a better day!
Unfortunately I know exactly how you are feeling at this moment.

I have felt exactly the same a few times.

I wish I had some sage advice to share with you.

But I don't know, I'm thinking the same as you.

Maybe it's time to do something else.

cheers

SOME people..??! shock
EVERY ONE needs to practice what they preach. And thaaat ALSO includes the OP. tip hat
Lindsy, Lindsy, Lindsy!
Surely you jest. Lol.
Did you have a bit to much to drink
when you wrote this? Pleassee!
Some comment from an ignorant
person made you want to leave
the site? Should I be on bended
knee holding my ribs in laughter?
Take a deep breath, and a bubble
bath. You have a mountain of
Extraordinary blogs that have
sparked the minds and imaginations
of so many. But something got to
you I know..
Let it go.. Let it go..
Your sensitivity about the nature of
things is a two edged sword
People can cut your heart by virtue
of their blindness
It's a devils trick to make you think
you're not who you say you are
We cannot give our faith and belief's
to another.. we can only share them
Continue to share..
By order of the High Tribunal.
Lol
Cafe
Lindsyhug You keep blogging away,yay You got someone here who enjoys your blogs. Don t let one persons opinion mumbling sway you,scold you remember you have alot of people who enjoy your blogs,yay and would miss you if you leftcrying Tomorrow is another day,dancing
Judgemental !
Seems Less Judge and more mental laugh
Good morning blogland.

Thank you all for all your effort to read and comment on my personal encounter that really for the first time got me hurt.

Then I realize, our choices are to ourselves. No one makes it for us, but us. However, with the number of you who want me to stay, that makes me smile. Thank you.

I have mentioned over and over again. I am not looking. I know this is a dating site and it is primarily for finding someone to be with. Which is exactly the reason most of us here are for that reason. But fortunately this site allow all of us to be here, looking or not. I do enjoy all my friends that I have found and get connected over the years. There is about three that I can certainly say, I would be hurt and sad if for whatever reason we stop our connection.

I am staying not because of what you guys said, but because it is my choice to be here. I am learning and that is all that matters. I am having fun and this guy that slighted me already apologized. That is all that matters.

Thank you all again. teddybear bouquet
Nice to have you here Muss Jones..handshake
One thing I can add to this experience if only for me to confirm what probably most of us already know is that, we can't ever change people. They are who they are as we are who we are. In my case, I do like to change, if only for the better, for me and my family as well as the whole of mankind.

But it is important that we do listen to others and make ourselves adaptable and do tolerate what we can. In the meantime conflict will always arise, for one thing, it is impossible to be liked by all. There will always be those that wont ever like us. That is just the life is. Now that I have said that, I do want to specially thank Ken for his comment as it made me smile so much. Specially that "ear" thing episode and now that I found out it was specially for me, it just made me smile.

I did meet so many members on here and perhaps in the next few weeks I will go and meet Mr. Jim from Wisconsin.

I met three members from France who are very active in the Poetry corner. I have two in the blogland and Forum that I have already met and continue on our connections.teddybear

Thank you all again so much.
Very good Lj....teddybear
Prof, you are one reason I am here. You are so smart, so balanced headed as most of our fellow members here and there are so many of us. Like I said, we can't all be liked by all. That is alright. We learn a lot and sometimes we learn more from those who oppose us than those who agree with us.

I do love to stay Prof and for as long as I am learning and having fun, I am here.

Love you dear girl.teddybear teddybear
My thanks you my dear lady.teddybear teddybear

You have no idea how you made me feel when you wrote, again on my rare personal blog, that you will write a blog for me when I die. Thank you so much. Not that I am truly expecting you to do it, however the very fact that you mentioned, you have no idea how you put so much hope on my future when it does happen. Please do continue on your upbeat blogs about life. I do love you, too My..teddybear
Thank-you Lj...you brought tears to my eyes...teddybear Love you....bouquet And Lj you are a special woman please remember that at all times....No matter what someone else may say....teddybear
lindsy I knew that you weren't really leaving cause from what I've observed of you within the blogs and threads in the forums that you are a strong woman.
Coolcool We all feeling the love today.dancing
Thank you CC..I am so pleased to know and you know how precise you are in your words and terms. You are one most honest to the bone dear lady and you know how much I am grateful that you do swim in my world.teddybear
My you did make me cry on that blog when you, only you who mentioned about what you'd do if and when I will pass on.

Thanks and I know how you are communicating with your loving husband in dreams and in real everyday. I know because I do talk to my parents as though they are still here.teddybear
Ped, yes, love and more of that where it comes from. Thanks Ped.teddybear
To my dear Non. Yes sometimes more mental than judging. lol..hug
Yes Lj I do talk to him every day..teddybear
Lindsy,

tank's......yes,we start from the bottom,but managed it to the toplaugh wave
Miss Jones

You are most welcome. We will agree and disagree but the common ground we trod on must be RESPECT!
I am more than happy you decide to stay. You are loved and appreciated much more than you know.

teddybear bouquet
Thanks Jim, I will call you later. I am double tasking right now, on here and watching the football game. Vikings against the Cardinals.wave
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