The Chase
Courting, to use Cat’s phraseology, is usually a game of cat and mouse; the predator and the prey.Not in a bad sense, but one usually does the chasing, and even in today’s modern world, that is usually the man.
So, how do you play the game? Cat has already told us his style, and it works for him.
Some people like the full-on romantic approach – flowers and flowery talk and whisperings of love from the outset;
others prefer a slower, softee softee approach.
Some like an ‘exclusive’ online relationship without ever having met, others don’t believe that online chatting is a relationship.
Some hate a particular approach, while others revel in it.
Whether we are the chaser or the ‘chasee’ (or both, at different times), we all know what we like and what works for us.
Or do we?
Maybe we can learn from how other people approach it
