To Love Or Not To Love

So many times I heard people saying that they will never love again as it only brings pain but are they not doing themselves short for nothing? There is no guarantee the next affair will be the same.mumbling

Surely there must be some good memories sprouting from a sunken love affair. I mean why have the affair in the first place if it brought no happiness? If it brought no happiness then you have only yourself to blame for placing an expectation on something that was not to be. A lover is supposed to make you happy.happy place

Love is too beautiful to be wasted but it needs not to be blind. You have to love with your eyes open. When you see the signs, don’t believe that it will go away for it will only grow worse. Break it off sooner than later and make it a clean break. Rather take a small hurt now than a much bigger hurt later.heart wings

Most aborted love affairs end in (or because of) some unpleasantness. That is life. When I think of the relationships I have been involved in, I only remember the good times. The bad times erase themselves with time. Don’t dwell on the shipwrecks of the past. Take the knock, put it behind you and get on with your life. There is no need to deprive yourself of all the joys of a future love. There is another love yet to come.idea

Don’t miss your dreamboat when it arrives. And if you discover that it is not the dreamboat that you thought it was, there is nothing to prevent you from jumping ship at the next harbor.uh oh

It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved.hmmm
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Have a wonderful day.!wave

Comments (85)

Catfoot
Johnny,
I think real love is much scarcer now. Not because of the on-line situations but because we are gradually moving away from mating for life as it was until a hundred years ago. In all my school years I have come across two divorced persons. Now every second person is divorced.
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Catfoot
Johnny,
I'm not so sure if on-line dating sites make it any easier. Methinks it only increase the opportunities. What we do with it is up to the individual.
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Stargazer111
Hello again Catfoot wave ,

We are in the age of Copy & Paste

Unfortunately or fortunately, I haven't reached the age of "copy paste" yet. laugh laugh hug
Catfoot
Hi Star,
Too young then? I did not know it had an age restriction.laugh
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Copy and paste is part of homework research in schools, Stargazer, are you old enough to be on this website? Or were you home-schooled?

It is very easy to do, I'm sure you can master it.

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