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As a small experiment of women’s uniqueness and the special bond between a mother and child, we met up with 6 wonderful women, and asked them to let us blindfold their most precious loved ones. Their children!

How we did it:
The children were guided towards the group of women, and using their senses and intuition asked to try to find the one they believed to be their mother. Anxiety, love and a bit of heartfelt tears filled the room as children from the age of 3-9 tried and succeed in finding the one and only they could call mum!

All women are unique in shape, personality and heart, and so is the beautiful connection and precious love we saw this day.

Celebrate the woman in your heart



Incredibly heartwarming and beautiful.......

Its been coupple years since i am trying to locate a cs member he goes here by the name of Hank Harlow


Maybe if you are here long enough you will remember that HankHarlow often blog and comments on the blog and forum.

I correspondent with him for sometime on here, i ask him to be my mentor in writing , and he pretty much taught me what i know now.
He was a writer who have written 9 books and done many good deeds in his life
He was a Navy veteran and work as a DVOP interviewer for 20 years and found jobs for many veterans.
He was a good man

Couple weeks ago i ask one of my good friend here, how can i find a guy who live in NJ for he is not responding to my mails for years and phone is disconnected.
Yesterday, my friend send the obituary report.
HankHarlow have passed on August 2012 in New Jersey

My deep condolences for his family, his sister and friends. May his soul rest in peace
Thank you for all that you have taught me, your entertaining blogs and your books that inspires us. We will always remember you ..





Inside My Heart A Fire Is Always Burning
A bientot Stanley

Watching human behavior always become my interest since I was 15 years old.

Once I met a lady blogger who hold psychology degree and I found her very cool and unpredictable. I love her style in writing, so honest and easy to digest. Often, we discussed about the character of other bloggers in perspective of psychology side. From her I learn a lot. Unfortunately, because of my business, I was off for almost a year and so did her….

I believe there are many bloggers in CS who hold special expertise in certain thing, especially about life and daily life.
30 years (I am now 45, I was 42 when I joined CS) is still not enough time to understand people. Everyday I find new character new case on human behavior, especially the “abnormal” character. Watching people attitude and trying to understand why they do this or that, often I come to a conclusion which is not far from what those people admit about their characters.

Now that I join blogs in CS, I continue watching human behavior. But it is always my case that reading is not my strength, so I just read some blogs and comments that attracted me. I really sit and take all my time when I read their blogs and comments. I don’t comment if it is not necessary. The blogs that having the most comments are only 2 : either it is funny, interesting and well presented blogs and people love to participate in it or the blogs that full of unmeaning messages, mean that someone like to keep dropping comments in pieces (the blog’s owner that replying each comment one by one is not counted !!).

What motivated me to rise this blog is that…. I find, some bloggers has special mission to carry (not special mission of finding Mr Right or Mrs right). These blogger seems love to spread hate, putting oil on fire, attacking the writer for no reason and feel victory when the blogger owner starts getting tired with their attitude. My barely conclusion on this case is that they are having psychology problem in their personal life like disappointment in life or never reach their achievement, etc. But for sure, these people have so much energy that pushing their nerve.

In the other hand, I like to have these people. I am using their character to test my patient and wisdom, also to enrich my knowledge of human behavior. Not to mention, to know the reaction of other bloggers when these people start commenting one blog and I am impressed that many bloggers prefer to either just commenting on the topic or drop one short comment on these special behavior.

Finally, I present my most appreciation to this special group with special mission. Without you, the CS blogs would not be that colorful !!!

Keep it up !!!

Dream of a beautiful life pushing asian's to western countries.
but they forget there old parents , widows old mothers, there lonely wives , there childrens behind them.
and at last there parents died to awaiting them.
but they dont came back.
there dreams pushing them so far from there families.
IS MONEY IS VALUEABLE THEN RELATIONS ? ? ?

I just want to share my happiness with all of you

I ever posted blog that I missed my little baby (5 now) for more than 3,5 years now due to the divorcing. She was taken by her father just to torture me. He hidden her from my reaching. But since last 2 years, he entered Jakarta and my baby stayed with her aunty and been raised by her.

Since I heard that, on purpose I recruited one of my ex. Husband's nephew to be my assistant to connect me to her. Since last years he works for me. I got all information and photos of her from the nephew which he got from the aunty.

After more than 3,5 years I couldn't see my baby.. The nephew tried to arrange the meeting between me and my baby. He marathonly talk to the aunty. They actually have little worry that the secret planning of meeting will be heard by her daddy. If that's happen, he can take her away and go far away to hide her again... Yes, very selfish.

And the day is coming. Today I met her BUT I was not allowed to cry and not allowed to introduce myself to her to avoid she talk to her daddy, not allowed to be over reacting. Let she try to recognize me by herself. The aunty introduced me to her as a friend...

Her aunty told me alot abt her growing up. I was crying when she told me story... That time my baby was not around. I really thanks to her has been taking care of her very well. And we talk abt planning for her elementary school. I just asked her to register her to the best school and I will be financing her.
. Hi... What's your name? she answered me.. Come here dear.. Do you like to take a pic? Oh..yes aunty..
Once again ok? Say cheeeeeers.... And show your cute smile..

I wish I hugged her.. But the nephew gave me sign not to over reacting, actually he disagree I kissed her but I couldn't resist.

Very nice meeting... And the aunty promised slowly will introduce who I am to her..

I am your mother darling...

I am not writting "Be a Hero for ourselves" as it means 'us' where there are other people around. It would be good enough if we could be a hero for ourself, one me, one you. I believe there are many ways to be a hero for ourself. For me, the easiest way is to be honest to myself, mean that I am brave enough to tell things like they are, to admit my own feeling.

When a question of why am I still here in dating site? In the beginning, 3 years ago when I just registered myself in cs, it was to find a matching man. The fact that I found him not in CS but from other group called Inter Nations, it doesn't then make me decide to leave CS. Why...? Cause I found something else in CS. I am not making a friendship in CS, if you see my friends list, I only have 2 people and even we don't exchange messages but for sure they have my supports in all ways and when they come to my country and to my city specifically, it is guaranteed that I would be their local guide. For those who always have good intention and attention to others -not only to me, you are noted in my mind and my heart and my doors are open for you.

I read blogs pretty much regular. There was a time when I had so much ideas to write and to share in a blogs room, even about my private things. But what I enjoy so much is to observe how people express themselves through their blogs (as much as I do). Through their blogs and comments we could indirectly recognize their characters. Some people are so open minded, some are narrrow minded. Some are very wise, some are not, some are very friendly and some are very sarcastic.

In any case, this is a virtual world where the freedom is guaranteed by God Himself. Prejudices and biases could be built easily without any references, simply they know us in person or just base on word that other people told them.

We we also notice, some people could not stand to receive complains and critics, they select and keep things that please them.

I don't hope you anything but be happy and be hero for yourself....

So hi just find out my daughter is pregnant am so stress out an sad my head is killng an she is sixteen but God knows best I was writing the blog to ask who is reading this if they have any second hand baby clothes that they don't want an Can give me I would really appreciate it have a lovely weekend everyone ps

“Another fresh new year is here . . .
Another year to live!
To banish worry, doubt, and fear,
To love and laugh and give!

This bright new year is given me
To live each day with zest . . .
To daily grow and try to be
My highest and my best!

I have the opportunity
Once more to right some wrongs,
To pray for peace, to plant a tree,
And sing more joyful songs!”
? William Arthur Ward.. .. ...“In this new year, may you have a deep understanding of your true value and worth, an absolute faith in your unlimited potential, peace of mind in the midst of uncertainty, the confidence to let go when you need to, acceptance to replace your resistance, gratitude to open your heart, the strength to meet your challenges, great love to replace your fear, forgiveness and compassion for those who offend you, clear sight to see your best and true path, hope to dispel obscurity, the conviction to make your dreams come true, meaningful and rewarding synchronicities, dear friends who truly know and love you, a childlike trust in the benevolence of the universe, the humility to remain teachable, the wisdom to fully embrace your life exactly as it is, the understanding that every soul has its own course to follow, the discernment to recognize your own unique inner voice of truth, and the courage to learn to be still.”
? Janet Rebhan... .... “Half of the time, the Holy Ghost tries to warn us about certain people that come into our life. The other half of the time he tries to tell us that the sick feeling we get in a situation is not the other person’s fault, rather it is our own hang-ups. A life filled with bias, hatred, judgment, insecurity, fear, delusion and self-righteousness can cloud the soul of anyone you meet. Our job is never to assume,instead it is to listen, communicate, ask questions then ask more, until we know the true depth of someone’s spirit.”
? Shannon L. Alder .... .... “To make 2016 (or any other)your year, keep it simple:

1) Count your blessings first
2) Whatever you did last year, Do it better
3) Go step by step, One day at a time.
4) Create/make your own opportunities.
5) Believe in your abilities at all times,
6) Quitting is not an option. Keep Going.
7) Finish what you started”
? Pablo ..... ... .... ....“May Light always surround you;
Hope kindle and rebound you.
May your Hurts turn to Healing;
Your Heart embrace Feeling.
May Wounds become Wisdom;
Every Kindness a Prism.
May Laughter infect you;
Your Passion resurrect you.
May Goodness inspire
your Deepest Desires.
Through all that you Reach For,
May your arms Never Tire.”
? D. Simone............

Hi,I have a question for you what would you do if the mother of your boyfriend tell his in front of you everytime he should take another girl who had money and he said nothing in front of her to defend his girlfriend you killer her or left him?

i thought we are a perfect match. He promised noone will make me as happy as he can.

Everything went on smoothly ultil after we both declared our coming wedding and sent out invitations. the preparation aroused many arguments and sadness, even silence.

Now I am so confused and unsecured. the questions like is this decision a right one? are we meant for each other? should we reconsider this marriage? how to deal with all the set wedding arrangements? how to deal with family, colleagues, friends.... keep coming up and chasing my mind

what should i do?