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The importance of silence:
When the discussion between couples starts turning into an argument then one should immediately become silent. The silence of one person can save the relationship between them. When you become silent, after some time the other will also become silent.

Sometimes silence speaks better than words.
Silence says that it cares for the relationship and wants to save it from breaking.

There must be such mutual understanding in couples.




Share some more mutual understandings from your experiences.

this and that....
We are all.. trapped in a cage.
If the cage had wheels then
we could still
roam the Earth.

life is a cage
and death is the key.

We are all Living In Cages
with a door
wide open.

Though some...
humans should be permanently in a cage.

We are ultimately like birds trapped in a cage.

People pretend well. In the end you will learn that most who call you “friend" aren't really your friend. There are selfish reasons, motives, and actions behind a lot of people.

No one thinks about anything beyond their personal pleasure.

You are not old as long as you are physically and mentally strong.

Lockdown was my greatest wish came true


You Must Love In Such A Way... that the person you
love..... feels free

Women typically remember their dreams better and have more vivid dreams.

Financial issues can destroy a happy family.
Sleep and laughter is the best medicine.

Living with any chronic illness can be difficult, and it's not uncommon to feel angry, depressed or discouraged at times. Parkinson's disease can be profoundly frustrating as walking, talking and even eating become more difficult and time-consuming.

Parkinson's disease....
i will write in my coming
blogs.

Low levels of serotonin are associated with depression.

There are many different types of depression other than that exist.
Noticing which type you have might be is
very tough. Although after you provide detailed information to your doctor, the doctor.... may
identify it.

Mental illness is most often not 'permanent' in the sense that its effects are not consistent over time,
though the pattern of impairment and functioning can persist for many years.

hope creates happy-hormones

One day everything will be alright, this hope helps us to be happy in hard times. But sometimes seeing the bad incidents that have happened to others breaks the hope that 'one day everything will be fine'.

When do you lose hope?

The answer has usually been yes whenever I have asked myself this question, although how many times I have asked it in my sleep I couldn't say. So, anyway, whenever I have thought myself to be awake, I have always treated it as a sign that I am awake, and the facts that I have had my senses about me and been capable or rational thought are things that I have always considered to be supporting evidence for my conclusion. But now I find that there is a school of thought that says you have to be a completely witless crackpot to be properly awake. This has turned my whole concept of wakefulness on it's head, and I don't know what to think any more.

I think I will need to sleep on it.

The other night, I poured a cup of milk using only the light from the refrigerator. No issues.
I often wonder (envision) what it would be like to have a loss of vision, or hearing. Twenty years ago, I had a monster inner ear infection and get vertigo sometimes when there is a change in atmospheric pressure. I was able to walk through my house in Miami without bumping into walls. It's different in my condo and I'll shout profanities if I accidentally kick the corner of the bed frame. In a dark room, I become a mouse and guide myself along the furniture avoiding the bed frame.

I know a licensed massage therapist who is legally blind. He was born with normal vision but genetics gave him the same deck of cards that his mother had and she lost her vision as an adult. He studied massage while he could see. He also studied karate... just in case he needed to defend himself as a blind man!
Accepting cash only, he's got a viewer that enlarges anything placed on the scanning bed. He can see light and dark and images are blurred as though he;s looking through several layers of waxed paper. Only a tiny part in the upper corner of his eye is good enough to see the enlargement from the viewer.

I think comedian Richard Prior went to visit Stevie Wonder and found the house was dark. It was fine for Stevie, but Richard couldn't see his way around!

Attitude plays a big part of dealing with a handicap whether it was from birth or something that came about through life. I think it's normal for people to go through depression.
As a teenager, one of my neighbors lost a leg to leukemia. I remember seeing him at the public pool making the best of a summer. He didn't have time to think about depression... less than a year later he died.

I was doing my normal music YouTube surfing and (typical of YouTube) some unrelated selections appeared. I clicked one to see Nick Vujicic, a man born without arms and legs giving motivational speeches. I watched. Not all. But I bookmarked it and will come back to see more. He's got a handful of other videos.
Eye opening to say the least. A man without arms and legs overcomes mountains of obstacles and does seminars to Inspire others. He's got books, websites, DVD's



While my blog is about overcoming blindness, Nick gets through life pretty well...