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so let me get straight to the point. this is my 2nd account and i must admit that it’s not as fun as my 1st experience here. so why the need to make a new account? well i met someone from my previous account whom i thought was the one which is why i deleted it. turned out he wasn’t it and he is now happily married to someone else. i’m writing this coz i am still honestly hurt with what happened. it hurts to think how easy it was for him to replace me let alone marrying her. it hurts to think that he is now happy while i am still left alone still wondering what have gone wrong. i may sound so sad but nope. there are just days that i can’t help but question what is wrong with me. i’m just needing this to vent out a bit. cheers to all.

Highest level of crime here is called a felony, but other languages have other names for same. There is a great difference betwen the USA, where these criminal records used to remain for life, adverely affecting job and other recovery prospects, ---and other places, where after a time, changes occur to allow reintergration into society. And changes have started even in this societal policy backwater. Now, in some States, after a decade or so, former criminals can vote, and have some other privledges. And some employers are encouraging applicants to honestly put such past info onto job apps, with more kindness, trust and openness to human changes than before. I think folks can redeem themselves in many ways, except those who have committed the most egregious sins. Such as our illegal criminal burdenson alien border sneaks. Go Trump!

insecurity
gnawing away their insides
turns to nastiness

(Senryu)

If someone does not approve of certain actions of a person, does that mean he/she HATES that person?
Labelling others as HATERS, MORONS, LOSERS, IDIOTS, IMBECILES, etc., merely because they may not approve of the actions of a person is childish, immature and reflects a certain measure of psychological insecurity.
If you do not agree with the views of others, then criticise their views logically and constructively rather than resort to name calling and deragatory remarks.


(Some of you may be familiar with Haiku.
It's a form of Japanese poetry consisting of three lines:
line 1 - 5 syllables,
line 2 - 7 syllables,
line 3 - 5 syllables
Haiku deals mainly with Nature.
Senryu has a similar format but its focus is on human behaviour.)

The other day, I wrote a blog about me being lonely, and someone commented and asked if I was maybe depressed? To tell you the truth: I don't know. Maybe.

Usually when I am alone, I enjoy it, but other times I am so extremely lonely that I want to cry. Like properly bawl my eyes out. To prevent that from happening, I just put on some comedy or a song that I really love. But maybe it is good to have a cry once in a while.

I am VERY good at masking my true feelings. Some say that they don't know HOW I feel, because all they see is smiles and laughter. Maybe I should open up to them, and tell them how I really feel at a certain point in time. But that is not for now. I firstly need to think about how I am going to say it to them. Maybe in a few weeks, or maybe next year.

I know that online tests can be a bit... inconclusive.. But I took one, and it showed, that I have clear signs of a possible depression. I need to go to the doctor to see if the test is accurate, or if it is just a bit of a hag.

I will see if I can get a time on Tuesday, and then get myself checked out. I am worried about the result, to be honest.

The last time i was here in this blog more than 2 yrs i think and a lot of things happened in my life....but what i learned was happiness doesnt come from other people but within ourselves,been thru a lot of struggles pain,name it i had it but thanks god iam still standing,more stronger,and complete.
Love doesnt come easy and we dont need to search,we just have to wait and let god do the rest coz he knows what our hearts desire

.................. The quality of our life is a result of the decisions we've made

Well, I just moved far away from friends and family this year in October, and so far, things are moving but kinda at a rocky start. However, I'm learning how to maneuver myself in an unknown place with unknown people. I'm learning a lot about myself on this journey; weakness I'm strengthening and strengths I'm perfecting. In the end, I know that I will reach the goals that I came here to do; I just have to stay focus and keep at it. I can feel and taste it now I just only have to bring it into reality.

Welcoming intro

.......... happy birthday jarred

............ Nobody can replace your place