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Duality to overcome to become One again
Every question has the answer within itself otherwise it would not be a question in the first place.
Every problem has an solution otherwise it is not a problem.
The Universal Law of One as the sacred Womb of Chaos
That is where nature comes from The plus and minus /Yin and Yang
The polarity of two energies equal in strength Bringing order in the chaos

When there is one two will come , when there is three one has to leave.
Whatever that might mean it has been said as the riddle of nature

On this Planet Earth we use four as base to create
To learn about and live by the laws of nature
Earth Water Fire and Air the building blocks from the beginning of time and space
The physical the emotional the mental and the spiritual
As above so below or is it the other way around? As below so above

The four seasons is to be seen in its cycle as the answer found of the nature of all things
The four directions North Cold East sun-rising South warmth West sun-setting
The four levels of the human brain. The Mind, Intelligence. Memory and oops forgot what the last one was sorry lol must be personality Ego
The pope the cardinal the priest the sheep
The president the minister the mayor the people
The Captain the Officer the crew the passenger
The Soul the Higher self the Ego the Lower self

SPRING is the morning ,seeding with thoughts for the day to come, watering it into germination with the emotional connection
Childhood up untill eaten for the tree of knowledge
The garden of Eden where all is in perfect harmony
The foreplay in any (adult) s*xual encounter

SUMMER is the afternoon the flower of what has been seeded you have to keep on watering it is essential to be able to stay involved
Pre adulthood exploring the field of differences
The penetration merging the two into one the beauty of the body

AUTUMN is the evening the harvest time of fruits and nuts and depending on the thoughts of morning Some call this Karma
Adulthood family
The o*gasm collecting the essence of “Love”

WINTER is the night time ploughing the soil. Turning it upside down taking out as many weed roots as possible in the knowledge of the soul that they will return
Retirement, the elder, peace
The aftermath resting in each others arms.

“WINTER IS COMING” what does that mean to you >>??
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Was going to write on sleep hygiene, or issues north and south/east and west, nationalism speaking, but C's blog got me coveting my CS neighbor's goods. A visit from the CS cyberscrutinizer? How unfair. With all my highly copious and acerbic ranting here, and not a few bidirectional personal attacks, on everything from my intelligence, to my stature, to my age appropriate shrinking manhood,----well, my envy almost got the best of me, my fair minded CS fellow bozos on the bus. So this BLOG. Don't you all think it unfair that I am being so cavalierly and unjustly overlooked? Why, for all I do to stirr things up here, and to get a few limited number of brain neurons French kissing, you'd think that CS would visit me. Not merely on the shamelessly lavishly appointed CS member home visit traveling van. But in the IT ether herself, AND a few nights on the manicured VIERK mansion kilometer long driveways. With all holds on the van chock full of wonderful and expensive presents, for..........................................ME! The servants would be glad to haul it all into one of the guest cottages. Ah, but long ago, in another life, concerning jealousies, I learned---that it's not a fair universe, and---"Eifersucht ist eine Leidenschaft,-wer mit Eifer sucht, was Leiden schaft". Hope this isn't the hook for the VIERK. Alors, Pereat les narcissismes, sur CS.

20/20...perfect vision.

2020...something revealed....enlightenment...perhaps

We all know of the house of mirrors, when the circus comes to town...

You can be fat / thin / tall / short

What is urgently required is:
PERSONALITY Mirrors

We'll have some very sick people, about 99%

I have a neighbor… He comes from a family of criminals… Yep… They are on the web… Killers, robbers, drug sellers… But… He seems to want to do things “right” in his own way… And he is absolutely adorable with me… I have not a single complaint to make about him… He told me he loved lasagna, once… I asked him his birth date and said to him: “That day, we are going to eat lasagna… You and I”…
That day he was all dressed up… I said “Happy Birthday!!!”, hugged him and we started walking… I said: “Let´s stop at the bakery… A “pit stop”, jajajajajajajaja… He laughed and I told him to wait for me outside… I bought everything I thought he would enjoy eating… When I came out, we walked to a park and sat… I started taking all the stuff out and he was shocked… We had pizza, a huge piece of a very yummy cheese, sodas, ranch dressing… At one point, his eyes were teary and he said: “Elena, I will never forget this day”… I said: “Well, that´s my intention… To make it unforgettable”… At that moment, I saw a 56 year old man, with the face of a seven year old on Christmas Eve… My heart smiled… BIG… He saved some of the food for his youngest boy at home… He has TEN kids… All of them almost grown up, now… But they grew up under very hard conditions… We kept walking to our main destination and stopped for his birthday piece of cake… He picked the chocolate one and I picked the “Tres leches”… I had all the people there sing “Happy Birthday” and again, he had teary eyes… I bought another piece of cake for him to take home and after that, we couldn't eat anything else, but I bought him that lasagna anyways and he took it home… He hugged me and said “Thank you so much… I love you”…
A few days after, he knocked on my door and told me I had forgotten to turn my external lights off... I said: "Thank you so much for being so sweet to me"... He said: "You are the most wonderful neighbor, anyone can have, beautiful... Anything you need, just let me know"...

I believe kindness is contagious... I have seen it...

Do you agree with me?... Would you like to share your thoughts on this subject?...

Speak your mind unburden your soul say it as it is even say it as it isn't

Whatever you want

First time I'm writing this stuff on here. Anyway I just need a place to brainstorming my head, my thoughts and my anger toward things I couldn't handle it. I posted some poems here also, you can check it on my profile.

Yeah I used to write daily in my journal. I make and creating poems, quotes and story. My first book will launch soon in my country, FOUR PIECES and it used Bahasa not English. I'm writing the second one with English and hopefully I could share some of it here.

I have duties at work. Also an arrogant Boss. My job is fine but it has lot of pressure. Sometimes I'm stuck and I can't handle my emotions towards people around me because Boss have a trust issues and He wants me to be as perfect as he wanted me too. Well, I'm only human, I am not God and it's burdened me sometimes. Not sometimes but a lots. Perfection is not human and I hate it. I hate being that person everyday.

So, here's the thing about work and my circumstances:
When you've tried being nice, no bad intention,and just showing some respect and teamwork , hell etc heaven knows what I've done for, then suddenly they threw sh*t right back to you. Like---, wth? Then you started questioning and doubting yourself what on earth happened with me?
It is me or it's just in my head?
OR--- I'm too crazy to be a part of them? Then who's the one to blame?
Most of the time I've done my best and that's what I've got? Is it fair enough?

Enlighten me because I started to hate that If you know what I meant.
As a leader I think You should have known and aware about everything that had happened in your workplace and stop blaming someone else. Because there're lots of conflagration in your space but you've been busy pleasing someone else's problem instead of taking good care of your team.

My book has come out. Now local area could pre order it through my publisher website ONE PEACH MEDIA or visit their Instagram page.(Indonesia only)

FOUR PIECES.
To be honest it's not about chick love story instead it's about mental illness. Yes. It's dark and getting dark in every pages.
It's what I've felt before.
It's what people might have been through too.
Maybe it could be you,
It could be your brother or sister,
It could be your friends or your significant other.
Please, do something to help them,
Or at least be there for them.
Because, mental health issues, whatever it is, they need to know that we are care about them.
Don't judge them because you're not wearing their shoes. Instead be there for them.

So about my book, FOUR PIECES.

Why did I choose this dark genre instead of all those chick love story? You should have known me before, I don't like following mainstream. I'm a rule breaker. I'm stubborn. I don't want to put any burden on my back to write a story to please someone else's ego. I write what I've felt. I write what I've been dealing or what I've done so far. I guess that's the way of being an artist also an author from my opinion.

Yes, FOUR PIECES is more concerned about mental illness or mental health issues. It took ages for me to deal with that. It took ages for me to capture all the scenes on paper. But in one night, this idea came out one day when I heard my best friend lose her father. I texted her, we talked and all those parts turned into a draft and here we are now. I should have thanked her for it. She helped me lots about mental health issues. Long list.

And remember, it's okay for not feeling okay and get help.

REMEMBER, When you tell people about yourself and they couldn't accept it, that's not your fault.

You're not alone.

Suicide isn't the best option. NEVER. It's just the way you might think would end your pain TEMPORARY but the truth is, you wish you could stop the time and run away.

Now Let's create some beautiful memories together instead of thinking about how this life would end. The sun's still look beautiful even if it looks hesitate.

#vivianlin #FOURPIECES #writing #book #mentalhealthawareness #mentalillness #mentalhealthissues #depression #anxiety #selfharm #bipolardisorderawareness #healing #recovery #preordernow #dearagony15

....Yep, lets hear them.... Those hopeless, ephemeral, doomed, time and breath wasting New Years Resolutions. I've already hinted at mine. Including---much more targeted flirting. Being kinder to the world, including to dozens of strikingly lovely females nightly scratching at my front door. Less impossibly cognitively fathomable, intendedly putatively significant, somnolence immediately generating, ---cryptic scribbling. Above all those containing a trace of waxing narcissistic, on all my greatness and unmatched modesty. Much fewer rank base political meanderings. Ditto for comments on such, especially when sourced by AOC levels of thinking and knowledge base. And a few more, too personal to mention, except in more private venues. All have have had auspicious beginnings over the past few weeks. Except for the HARDest one, VERY hard. Abandoning my wanker ways of life. The flirting and tree house might just help with workable results on this last pledge.