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What is with all these women on this site that appear to be models but write as if they come from some Communist country. Sure looks smells like some kind of scam.

Some People Look for the perfect person to love but they don't realize that a Person becomes perfect we began to Love Them Sincerely....

Luv is missing Some1 Whnever you r apart , but somehow feeling warm inside bcoz u r close in heart....

Well, we are in the 21 Century and with it a new cupid, the internet! For those timid persons, the solution! For those who want an adventure, a revolution! Who has not known someone interesting yet in one of those dating sites, like the connectingsingles? I am here, trying to find my "prince charming" for about a year, and during this time I had the chance to find nice people, some of them well-educated, intelligent, curious, dreamers..., some are new good friends... BUT on the other hand, it is quite normal to find also some rude, unpolite, dishonest people, pretending to look for serious relationships and instead of that, just look for taking some kind of advantage of the others. We have to consider all pros and cons before getting involved in a virtual relationship. Yes, friends, this world and its people are beautiful but sometimes they are also awful, violent and unjust. All of us must consider four points of view on a virtual dating: the adaptation, the intention, and indeed the meeting. The interest in this type of relationship is "sui generis' because there is no real contact. The physical presence is not real, the information must be real. The lie can lead to a situation quite embarrassing and even disastrous. Never forget, we only get back what we give away.
Anyway, I am quite sure it's really possible to find our soulmates in the internet, specifically here at connectingsingles. Positive thoughts are alwyas worth. We can never give up, but dream on... and dream on...one day, all of a sudden, he/she will be there, just out of our dream...in flesh and blood...so take a deep breath becasue that's the moment, enjoy it. Good luck guys!

Time loses all it's meaning
And I leave the world behind
As I head for the horizon
Where the water meets the sky.
Keep my eye upon the sails,
Feel the direction of the breeze,
Becoming one with Nature
And setting my senses free.
The sun glistens on the water
As if stars were hiding there.
The path before me is so bright
As the wind whips through my hair.
The seagulls dive for food
The buoy bobs up and down
The fish jump out of the water
The clouds move without a sound.
The wind frightens with fury
Or teases like a friend.
Seeing you on your journey
Or bringing it to an end.
Lord, keep that wind flowing steady
For I long to reach my goal.
And if I can reach the horizon
I know, then I can touch my soul.

my first poem here it is
learnt from others its fair & ease
do some gramatical mistakes and put similar soundin words at the last of every sentence
your poem is ready, others will appreciate.

if possible, play around the word love in the poem
because millions of broken heart, lookin for love like those stuff
those who hv true love, has no time to read poems,
they will be busy with loved ones, instead of CS

try to go deep in ur poem
show love, birth, death and tears
let the reader feel the fear
u r a good poet o my dear

First off I ask that you stick with me on this. Its going to be long and its going to sound like a sob story at first. But read it all the way through and you will see that its not a sob story but I hope to be uplifting to many. And I will try and keep it short. But I can get wordy sorry.

I have been thinking over my recent love life and why I have beating the crap out of my self. But in order for this to make any sense I should go into the story of how far my last relation ship went and how it fell apart. And I will try to stick to the facts and keep my feelings to my self for now so sorry if its kinda dry. (And no I wont be using her name as I don't want to slander her name)

About 3 years ago I met the most amazing girl. Then again who doesn't think that when your heart stops beating at first sight. She and I quickly hit it off and we where soon very close buds. We talked every day and did all we could to be together. So it was only natural that we would take that next step and eventually become a couple.

Every thing was going great I was happy and so was she. We had our spats and some got bad yet what couple don't have those. But we survived them and grew closer. Till about 5 months ago I popped the question to her and she said yes. Overjoyed we got a ring on her finger and all seemed to be going splendid. Till about 4 months ago she came to me telling me she was with another mans kid. My heart exploded and our world was torn apart. But after about two weeks of hell and not really talking to her I decided to work on forgiving her after all she came to me and told me the truth and she was drunk that night right. So wasn't her fault right ?

Well you know what they say bad news travels like wild fire. Come to find out this wasn't her first time. And that she might not been as drunk as originally thought. She then verified all this her self. Saying it didn't mean any thing that I was the only one she loved. But the Damage had been done. So as of 3 months I have been single and healing. Now ready to give love a new shot and a little wiser.

But I spent three months in my own little hell. Beating my self up trying to make her out to be the bad guy from the start. But after some time thinking of it I came to two conclusions. If she was as bad as a person I wanted to think. Then why would I have dated her in the first place and why did it get that far. And the Second why was I beating my self up in our time together I never once strayed. Also I tried to forgive her to give her that second chance.

Then a third Conclusion came into my head. One that did scare me just a bit. But maybe we are meant to fail just once. Could it be our way of learning. Maybe now I know I can pick my self up from such a hard blow so that now I will take a chance on the girl that seems to be to good for me. What is she going to say no so what! I have been through hell and back oh look at me Im standing here in one piece and some how with a smile coming back to my lips. And now I understand how badly it hurts to be used by the one you love. So now I will go well beyond what is needed to make sure who ever I end up with will never feel that way. Finally I have learned never take the one your with for granted.

At the end of the day I have come to realize how we are all truly flowers in this harsh world. Think about it for a second. You look at flower and think about how beautiful it is. But have you ever thought about why a rose has thorns or why true Addle Vise cant be picked any more? Look at all your flowers and then look at where they grow in nature. Nature beats the snot out of them yet there beauty only grows more powerful from it.

So you have found a new love
And she fills your heart and soul.
Your footprints marked side by side
The pieces fit, and you are whole.
You want to shout your love to the world
I am but an echo fading fast,
To a whisper that's barely heard
As you place me in your past.
We have become a memory
A moment lost on the wind.
From someone loved to someone known
Our souls shall never touch again.
Step out into your future,
And hold your new love tight
Make every footstep count
As you walk in love and light.

hi ladies and gentlemen woul you agree that theres more interacial relationships as those involved find and experience a perfect balance? i dont know bout you guys but i love lotsa milk in my coffee.

mmm its really cool to know that theres lotsa carig people out there i just wanna say thanks to all who gave me advice. i will probably try to be patient perhaps lay off for a while.

chao....

lol

viv

Hello,
I was chatting with some of my work colleagues over lunch today about Personal Relationships and the way in which perceptions of physical attractiveness are influenced by personality. I found out that individuals – both men and women – who exhibit positive traits, such as honesty and helpfulness, are perceived as better looking. Those who exhibit negative traits, such as unfairness and rudeness, appear to be less physically attractive to observers.
So I asked one of them. Do you think this guy is attractive? I was referring to one of the handsome guys working with us.” Perceiving a person as having a desirable personality makes the person more suitable in general as a close relationship partner of any kind,” said my college, that proofed to me, a positive personality leads to greater desirability as a friend, which leads to greater desirability as a romantic partner and, ultimately, to being viewed as more physically attractive.
Funny to know, most of them repeatedly said regardless of how “attractive” the individual was initially perceived to be, Physical appearance and personality is an independent source in predicting attraction. So we all laughed or deep inside some of the girls wished to have had a committed relationship with a physically attractive person first!! Despite their saying that this, may change over time due to their positive or negative traits!!.
My today’s conversation provided me with positive thinking, by reminding people that personality goes a long way toward determining your attractiveness; it can even change people’s impressions of how good looking you are, Do you want to look attractive? And have you had such experience in which personality won against physical attractiveness?