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Search for Real Love from USA,UK CHINA OR JAPAN
hi,
My name is zahid and belong to Pakistan. i appeared on this site to search my real love. i know that its not posibble but i hopefully that very soon i get my real love from this site. in fact i want as lady who is too much energatic, lovely and some rich. becuase i leave my Country Pakistan. and she help me for my travelling processing.
My name is zahid and belong to Pakistan. i appeared on this site to search my real love. i know that its not posibble but i hopefully that very soon i get my real love from this site. in fact i want as lady who is too much energatic, lovely and some rich. becuase i leave my Country Pakistan. and she help me for my travelling processing.
Why single?
Well, people wonder why I am single.. "Oh, how pretty and smart you are", they say. But no matter how pretty a person is, sometimes the most adorable people in the world have bad luck at finding the right person I think. I've just ran into guys who I just fell in love with and that was the problem.. The next guy I meet, I will make sure that he falls in love with me too.. I'm not one to care about how much money he has or anything.. If I love him, I will do everything I can to be there for him.. I like guys who are real and smart.. :)
Conversation with God
Bad news that not have to get you down.
It can actually to get you going.
The things that really matter in life
often become more clear to us when
we encounter bad news or bad luck.
We can use such moments to expand
our experience of our most precious
treasures: the people that we love.
Now maybe a wonderful time to get back
to basics, like board games with
your children, quiet talks with
your friends, a moment of gentleness
with the person that you love.
(Conversations with God)
It can actually to get you going.
The things that really matter in life
often become more clear to us when
we encounter bad news or bad luck.
We can use such moments to expand
our experience of our most precious
treasures: the people that we love.
Now maybe a wonderful time to get back
to basics, like board games with
your children, quiet talks with
your friends, a moment of gentleness
with the person that you love.
(Conversations with God)
A question about weddings
My cousin told me once that I would never find a woman that didn't want a wedding. Is that true? Just wondering why it's so important.
the word..
love... what does the word mean... is it a just a word? or an emotion or lies... to me the word has been throwen around like it was nothing... and i have ownly loved once.. but i know love / lust.. i guess its a part of it.. its the most crazy,unpreted,tears,and everything elese in the world.. but by hanging on to that person through it all thats love... and by not giving up thats love.. not even needing the word just knowing.. love is just a word you could say it a million times.. and not mean it all .. but by putting action behind the word thats the real thing..letting that person see who you truly are.. knowing what makes u tick.. can get under ur skin with one word.. being with you through the bad and good.. not letting go when it gets hard.. knowing what your going to say before you say it.. to me love can mean many things.. but what worth is it.. when you dont mean it..
all about me
Here are the basics about me: I am 5’09, 185lbs, dark brown hair and blue eyes. (Most women will say my eyes are the prettiest blue eyes they have seen.) I carry a good tan during the summer as well. I am 41 and have 3 sons ages 17, 15, & 4. I have been married for 18 years, however, my wife decided she no longer felt the intiment love a couple should have, she did say I was still her best friend and that her feelings would never change. So, based on this information and my positive outlook, I still have a great friend, the boys still have a great mom, and I can find another special woman to share my life with.
Education: I have some college (probably enough credits for an AA degree) I am planning to put them together and finish my education.
Military: Airborne Paratrooper (82nd Airborne Div) long time ago.
Places I’ve been: Canada, Honduras, Panama, and several states in the U.S.
Things I like to do: anything that is fun,( I’ll try anything once) I can’t dance, but I like to watch other people dance, doesn’t mean I wouldn’t try with the right person., especially if someone else was getting to close and personal.. I am a big football fan (Dallas Cowboys, and Miami Hurricanes) I also play video games (ps3) I like all types of movies, any outdoor activities, and I’ll even go shopping with women as long as I can stop off at a sports store. LOL. Like I said I’ll try anything once.
The foods I like are simple, beef, chicken, turkey, pork. I don’t like fish or any other seafood, don’t like mushrooms as well. So if a culture can use those ingredients I’ll eat it.
What I want: I want a woman that is very attractive and looks hot when she wears nice clothes and just the same when she wears sweat pants and a T-shirt.. A great pair of legs and a body too match, is a must. This is my thought; God created a bunch of beautiful women with great personalities, so remember you’re not the only one.
After making a comment like that, I feel I have to give you something in return. What I will give you. I will be the man that is always positive, when your down I will help you up. I won’t ever take my anger out on you physically or mentally. I will cook for you and try to have it ready when you walk through the door after a long day at work. I will always be loyal and honest. I don’t drink, smoke, or curse, I don’t get stressed, I’m laid back and patient. I will protect you and keep you from harm, and when it becomes necessary, I put the bad guys in jail. I see it everyday, a husband and wife going through bad times, beating each other up, no woman deserves that. I hear all the time while on the job, all the good ones are married, well I’m one of those good guys that just became available.
Education: I have some college (probably enough credits for an AA degree) I am planning to put them together and finish my education.
Military: Airborne Paratrooper (82nd Airborne Div) long time ago.
Places I’ve been: Canada, Honduras, Panama, and several states in the U.S.
Things I like to do: anything that is fun,( I’ll try anything once) I can’t dance, but I like to watch other people dance, doesn’t mean I wouldn’t try with the right person., especially if someone else was getting to close and personal.. I am a big football fan (Dallas Cowboys, and Miami Hurricanes) I also play video games (ps3) I like all types of movies, any outdoor activities, and I’ll even go shopping with women as long as I can stop off at a sports store. LOL. Like I said I’ll try anything once.
The foods I like are simple, beef, chicken, turkey, pork. I don’t like fish or any other seafood, don’t like mushrooms as well. So if a culture can use those ingredients I’ll eat it.
What I want: I want a woman that is very attractive and looks hot when she wears nice clothes and just the same when she wears sweat pants and a T-shirt.. A great pair of legs and a body too match, is a must. This is my thought; God created a bunch of beautiful women with great personalities, so remember you’re not the only one.
After making a comment like that, I feel I have to give you something in return. What I will give you. I will be the man that is always positive, when your down I will help you up. I won’t ever take my anger out on you physically or mentally. I will cook for you and try to have it ready when you walk through the door after a long day at work. I will always be loyal and honest. I don’t drink, smoke, or curse, I don’t get stressed, I’m laid back and patient. I will protect you and keep you from harm, and when it becomes necessary, I put the bad guys in jail. I see it everyday, a husband and wife going through bad times, beating each other up, no woman deserves that. I hear all the time while on the job, all the good ones are married, well I’m one of those good guys that just became available.
Creative Writing?(For all us Writers)
Do you think it`s my voice,or my diction?-If so,grind me up with Pulp Fiction! All that you claim,you call critique.Can`t you see that `creative writing` makes us unique?Try as I may,I can`t seem to publish.-Is some of this writing considered rubbish?Are the stories I write too long,or too short?-Or am I doing it for the sport? I can`t believe how many words I`ve written-By how many bugs do I have to get bitten?Are there answers to at least one of these questions?-Can someone help so I won`t always get,this indigestion!!!
Would you sell you car to get Married?
Just wanted to get some ideas I thought this would be a interesting topic.
The Virtual Reality(A woman`s birthday)
No matter what you deny-there`s no reason,to say why.It so happens,YOU may be-another year older!!...Let it be known,there`s no use to lie,because you just lose track,when you die!!It`s,that if you go backwards,you will still be older!!...Oh!-the make-up(& feels so natural) that you buy.-And all the different exercises we should try.-it only hurts a little while,-you`ll only be another year older!!...You may have a little more chin,,a wee bit more fat, & a few more lines, when you grin,-it`s just that reality that you are 365 days older!!...OK!! -Wear a girdle,(if you must)But you must know -nothing will pick up that bust!!-Coming to your local dealer-One more year older!!...There are many clothes that you can buy-(possibly,you may need some bigger sizes to try),It`s that vanity of being negative, about that one more year!!...You must know ,you can`t hide-But,for now,put that extra candle aside.-It`s about honesty,about that darn one year!!.....Sometimes,we can be happy.just watching things grow.-And what`s happened to all the other people,we used to know??-It`s not always fun,-to be a year older!!....So,lady,pack up your over-nighter,& go around the block.-Don`t just sit there & watch that clock.-It`s going to happen,anyway,you know.-One more year!!...Or,how about just a day out,at the store-or maybe you could do a little bit more.I know,it`s risky to be,a little older!!...Maybe someone will correct you & hold you back,when you get bolder.That`s what happens,when we get older!!..Just humor us(you`ll get there some day,too)-But for now,just thank God for another day-(that turns into another year),& makes us a little bit older!!
Communication Theme
I am troubled to the core of being. I told myself these are baby steps back to the world. I feel numb and I want to cry. Why would someone lash out to me in such a mean way? Is what he says true? Am I bad person? Am I dishonest? Did I convey messages other than what I intended? Am I just screwed up?
Maybe I'm not ready to be out in the world again. Maybe after five years the wounds are still too tender to be exposed to the light of day - to the single world again. I sit here in front of my computer, shell shocked as the words practically jump off the screen with the full force of the intended cruelty, pain, and rejection. I sit numb and silent, defenseless, as the meaning of the offensive tactic sinks in.
And then BAM! Here's comes blow number two out of nowhere. I wasn't looking for the connection. I don't even know what he expected. All I know is, it wasn't what he wanted and I'm promptly given the virtual F off.
Communication seems to be a theme for me right now.
(YA THINK??!!)
Maybe I'm not ready to be out in the world again. Maybe after five years the wounds are still too tender to be exposed to the light of day - to the single world again. I sit here in front of my computer, shell shocked as the words practically jump off the screen with the full force of the intended cruelty, pain, and rejection. I sit numb and silent, defenseless, as the meaning of the offensive tactic sinks in.
And then BAM! Here's comes blow number two out of nowhere. I wasn't looking for the connection. I don't even know what he expected. All I know is, it wasn't what he wanted and I'm promptly given the virtual F off.
Communication seems to be a theme for me right now.
(YA THINK??!!)
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