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Give me the wind and i'll give you breath sustaining
your life when you have none left
Give me the moon and i'll show you light
leading the way when you have no fight
Give me the strength and i'll give you power
blooming in sunshine as a red rosed flower
Give me the good fortune and i'll brng you luck
energising the soul when you come unstuck
Give me the knowledge and i'll show you life
avoiding all falseness that cuts like a knife
Give me direction and i'll tread your path
discouraging the hecklers the doubters the wrath
Give me the patience and i'll wait my time
where loyalty runs deep and talking is fine.
Give me these things and i will be blessed
then stopping all judgements opinions and stress

Another of my rambling muses

As the chill of the dawn encases all.....while others someplace else prepare for the night...one thing in common.....another day....another step in the journey of time.

We crave...we strive......hoping in the gift that is life.

Sometimes lost..in the reality that is. Time flows...things change...we change.

Our bodies tell us so. We are but objects at the whims of time.

And yet....in the mirrors of our souls.....we discover the memories...the things that were.....those that could have been....those that we sometimes wish to have been.

Time whispers in the silence......it is. And in the NOW.

It is all we have. So we begin again.....another day, another NOW.

To hope, to need, to do. And with the colors of life to play with.....we carry on.

And so....the journey continues.

And what a journey it has been.....so far.

I guess when we're looking to find that special person; communication goes a long way. We listen for key words that trigger thoughts, memories of past and/or we hear patterns we like or try to avoid.

There is a "method to our madness"!

In many ways we like the comforts of singledom - yet desire that closeness we have during companionship. So how do we know they're the one? How do we determine the legits from the fakes? How do we know if we're actually ready to be a partner ourselves, if we keeping running from people and what they say and not giving them the time of day?

I've often thought that the process should just be simple. We talk, are compatible, like the same things and begin the dating process. Usually it's nice when men are a little bit like that of a caveman - just bonk me on the head, claim me and drag me away by my long hair. Of course, we're past that era and into that modern day mentality of everyone being equal. So why is it still bad for a woman to go after what she likes? I'd hate to assume that we women can't behave in this manner.

Of course there are so many other variables in the equation. We look at things that are important to us. Or maybe they're not important to us...but, we're accepting to them. In a sense - we're settling for something in that "gray" area of love and mate finding.

Then I still have to wonder: Is there really an easy way to anything?

There are not that many elements to the equation: acceptance of looks, character, morals, religion - might be some to name. Maybe, instinctively we're prone to animalistic mating rituals where the male species dances and shows his colors which in turn arouses the senses of the female species.

What is "dating" really all about? I'll never know.

I do know that dating is really not for me - and I dislike it.

I do better as a long-term partner and monogamous lover. But, I am hopeful and keeping an eye and ear open for my future guy.

To finding our mates in 2009.

1. What comedian, part Native American, said, "My folks didn't come over on the Mayflower, but they were there to meet the boat"?
2. What comic, appearing in a picture called 'The Great Man', when asked if he liked little children, replied, "Yes, if they are well cooked"?
3. A man called the perfect fool contended, "What this country needs is a good five-cent nickel." Who was the Perfect Fool?
4. Can you name the bearded sage who spouted the line, "Youth is a wonderful thing - it's a shame it has to be wasted on children"?
5. What rotund Supreme Court judge used to tell the one about the boy who killed his mother and father - then pleaded for mercy on the ground that he was an orphan?
6. What syndicated humorist once stated, "The narrower the mind, the broader the statement"?
7. A certain Governor of New York, asked to speak at Sing Sing prison, began with "My fellow citizens," then remembered the convicts weren't citizens, and said, "My fellow convicts." But that was worse. Finally he gulped and said, "Well, anyhow, I'm glad to see so many of you here." Who was he?
8. What gossip columnist once confessed, "I usually get my stuff from people who promised somebody else that they would keep a secret"?

(answers)
1. Will Rogers
2. W.C. Fields
3. Ed Wynn
4. George Bernard Shaw
5. William Howard Taft
6. Ted Cook of King Features
7. Governor Al Smith
8. Walter Winchell

I am interested in finding out how many people are dissatisfied with the treatment they get from individuals who have the attributes I mentioned. There is ALOT of slum and scum out there who paint these sites with phony pictures and misinformation to lead you into a scam.
I believe a site has to be created where the REAL people can go. The mandate would be:
1: TO HAVE A RESPONSE WITHIN ONE WEEK TO A MESSAGE
2: TO HAVE CONTACT INITIATED BY YOUR POSTED FAVORITE AT LEAST ONCE EVERY 7 DAYS OR YOUR SELECTION IS REMOVED FROM SAID FAVORITE, WHICH YOU CAN RE-INITIATE...to show that all parties are doing what they came to the site for...TO MEET PEOPLE
3: TO HAVE A WEB CAM CONVERSATION WITHIN THE FIRST 3 CONACTS to eliminate imposters. Technology can find ways to beat this selection...but most real people will not take the time to paste a phony video for the purpose of hiding their identity when their TRUE motive is to find firendship or a relationship with a REAL person who wants to meet and get on with a partner in life...which will also verify that the user you want to know is the user NOW and not 10ys ago, heavier or skinnier or now missing teeth or hair.

It's time to make a statement here, my friends, so we as a group can help each other create a site that will validate our search for real and true parties interested in the real deal

i miss to be kissed,what about you.......

I mover here a few weeks ago. And i love it down here. I know of a few places to go to, from friends down here. But i am also looking for more places with bands and comedy clubs. I went to underground atlanta and saw An irish pub near Johnny Rockets

Life may be short,but double-dip burdens & children keep it from being simple...All we ask is that you show us some humility.We don`t need to hear about your pimple! Our house may not be as clean as it should,or not even as neat as a pin. But when we`re taken for granted-we wear ourselves thin! Sometimes we can get aggravated & a little aggressive when we`ve had a bad day....But in most cases,we`ve had some regrets,& then eat humble pie for what we say. Of course,there are times of resentment,& our egos are bound to bruise....How would you feel if YOUR mental efficiency gets stuck on automatic cruise?? Patience isn`t a virtue ,but a common learned thing...kindness should be a two-way stree, not a three-circus ring! Pride can hold us hostage,like a block of ice...but don`t ever apologize to your children twice! Blessings are not gotten by putting a coin in a machine-to get more & more....A parent isn`t an object,nor are they a corner,fast convenience store!! We strive to explain,that discipline does not always equal punishment,(which comes in due course)....All we ask is some time alone,(possibly,with a pair of slippers) & that you appreciate us -without any remorse. (You listening,Kid)?????

All the love that history knows,

Is said to be in every rose,

Yet all that could be found in two,

Is less,than what I feel for u.

The twins did not know that they were twins. The boys saw the similarity of the girls but did not know that they looked the same, also. The twin girls saw that he11 and he12 was the same but didn’t think that it was them too. Others tried to explain but couldn’t make it. They went to Kchakcha, stood in front of him and put the twins in the middle; she1 put her palms first on girls’ faces and then the faces of boys. Alexander understood what they wanted and moved his hand to follow him.

He went to the trees, cut and give everyone a fruit. He gave to the boys’ twins apples and two oranges to the girls’ twins. The others understood, agreed and applauded for the thought. Those four looked wondered. Alexander claimed the attention of girls and approached the boys joined hands with the apples, then joined gently their heads and lifted their hands under their faces. The girl twins and others agreed, but the boys did not understand. Alexander called for their attention, he went to the girls joined their heads and lifted their hands with oranges under their faces. The boys agreed and after looked each other surprised. He11 raised his hand and caught the nose of he12 and then caught his own. Others agreed and encouraged him by clapping. Showed his tongue in front of his brother face and he12 did the same. Approached their heads and looked to the others. They applauded laughing. She9 distended her cheeks
and immediately her sister did the same. They brought their heads side by side, check the others. Agree smiling.

He14 raised his hands. Approach he3 and showed his eyes, then went to she7 and showed her eyes and the sky. All agreed and he8 showed that he14’s eyes was like he3 and she7 and as the sky. They looked each other with interest, sat under the tree and showed them the similarities.

They began to know themselves through the characteristics of others. Imprinted in their minds these similarities and often touched these common points into the others. From babies enjoyed the contact, never sitting without touching in some way, and in their sleep were hanging always. But now these similarities made them to love so much that didn’t understand if love their own lips which could’ not see or the mouth of the other witch could see and Knew that was identical. They loved as if they were all one.