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I have never done this before, but I wanted to share.
Today I was cruising with my good friend when I passed my ex. We dated for 3 years and I really loved her. I texted her after I passed her and she told me she was with a guy who I knew she had been talking to. That was when it hit me. I am over it. I am finally free of the what if's and spur of the moment crap. I am ready to be her friend and no more. I just felt like sharing this because it has been causing me a lot of stress and I know a lot of people go through it. Just have faith. Everything comes with time.

The love we were longing for
Love unseen
Love unspoken
But to often Written in eyes
Melt into our passion
That our souls seek.
You crave it it's real
Passion and wanting
Thrusting and grinding
To mentally steal
Take over my heart
Caress them and breathe
Take me and unwind
Touch me and tease
Pull off my veils
and undress the passion
I nurture for you
Push me and fall down
Straddle me close
And make love aloud
Kisses and bites
our bodies are wound
Wound together tight
A night full of passion
Of heat you caress
This blind fiery passion
and its several shades
consume us
consign this world
that neither you
nor the world
nor I remain

I pray that we fall in love
you will love for me and not hope for someone who is more prettier.

I hope that you will take care of me if I get sick
make me laugh and be trustworthy

I hope you will remember that I prefer Lily's to roses
and that my favorite color is blue

Please know that my eyes are Hazel
they're not any other color

Please know that I might be too shy to kiss you
but please don't be afraid to kiss me
I won't slap or push you away
I know that your kisses will be perfect.

If I cry, please know it isn't because of you
just hold me close
and I will quickly Heal.

And if we decide to break up
Please understand that I may be bitter
but promise to remember that you have feelings too
even though you may be to afraid to show them
And please tell me if anything I do bothers you
or if something just doesn't sit right.

I would love it if you are always honest with me
because I will be honest with you
I hope that you understand that
I may be a nervous and very scared too.

I hope that I am not asking for too much from you.
Would you hold me tight,
And never think of letting go,
If I told you that you'd captured my heart
And was wondering if you'd keep it always.

and neither do long distance relationships.

Actually, I don't find that people are really trustworthy these days. There are too many characters out there looking for the bigger better deal. Too many men (I've encountered) looking for the next notch on their belt or bed frame or whatever. But, once I ask my questions, I pretty much know what they want.

It's cool. If you're that type of person then more power to you. It's just not what I want. And, we all want what we want...yes?

But, if you think that overseas relationships and long distance relationships can work - haha, don't be surprised to hear that the person you're seeing is also seeing someone else or worse, many more others. These people know how many they can handle.

So there was this guy who contacted me, he said he read my profile and that he lived overseas. I think he said he lived in Germany, but said he was from South Africa or something like that. He travels for work. He complimented me on several of my pictures and said he would be coming to the states in 6 months and if I would like to meet him. "Why?” I thought, "If he read my profile, he would know what I wanted - and that it wasn't him. I wonder if he thinks he can sway my decision...let's see", I continue to think.

Of course - I run down my list of criteria and no, he's not what I want. So just to make sure, I ask him: How tall are you? 5'9" What is the most important thing to you in your life? "A woman, if I had one" he says. Then he continues down the list "...my job, my kids..." STOP! "Oh how many kids do you have?" I ask.
He says he doesn’t have any and wants kids. "Oh, really how many do you imagine having, IF you find the right woman of course?” I say.

He says, "I want two."

I then proceed to tell him I'm definitely not the woman for him. He wants kids and I would be a waste of time or a stepping stone to his next woman. And, Lord knows I don't want to be anyone’s stepping stone...I want to be the last woman to the man that matches me.

As I'm telling him this information, he asks me if I want to be friends with benefits. He asks me if I need any satisfaction. I ponder a bit...well I do have needs...but, I would rather have myself all stitched up down there than have someone I'm not attracted to and who's not a potential "forever" on top of me.

Wonderful! The truth comes out.

He tells me he can satisfy me in everyway.

I think, "Hahaha, nope, sorry you can't satisfy me in everyway. My gag reflexes would be set off or I'd need a blind fold..."

1. I don't find you attractive. 2. You're not husband material. 3. You want kids, which doesn't match me at all 4. You live overseas anyway...and that will never work out if I want to see you everyday. 5. You're too short for me 6. Did I mention I'm not attracted to you?

There's more to the list...but, why bother typing it all out.

I could add that he approached me exactly as I have stated everyone seems to approach me. With lies. He wanted to appear as though he would be interested in long term and really he just wanted a fling. The friends request was absolutely priceless!

How methodical. If he's capable of doing that...what else is he capable of?

One thing I do know...overseas doesn't work and liars don't work either. I do however, appreciate that the truth came out later. But, what I decided to do with it was my choice ultimately - I chose to walk away from it.

He's now on my blocked list. There's no sense of "that" resurfacing its ugly head. And, he's better off not hearing anymore rejections from me.

If you go away, on this summers day
Then you might as well take the sun away
All the birds that flew in the summer sky
When our love was new and our hearts were high
When the day was young and the night was long
And the moon stood still for the night birds' song
If you go away, if you go away, if you go away
But if you stay, I'll make you a day
Like no day has been or will be again
We'll sail the sun, we'll ride on the rain
We'll talk to the trees and worship the wind
Then if you go, I'll understand
Leave me just enough love to hold in my hand
If you go away, if you go away, if you go away

If you go away, as I know you will
You must tell the world to stop turning till
You return again, if you ever do
For what good is love without loving you
Can I tell you now as you turn to go
I'll be dying slowly till the next hello
If you go away, if you go away, if you go away

But if you stay I'll make you a night
Like no night has been or will be again
I'll sail on your smile, I'll ride on your touch
I'll talk to your eyes that I love so much
But if you go I won't cry
Though the good is gone from the word goodbye
If you go away, if you go away, if you go away

If you go away as I know you must
There'll be nothing left in the world to trust
Just an empty room full of empty space
Like the empty look I see on your face
I'd have been the shadow of your dog
If I thought it might have kept me by your side
If you go away, if you go away, if you go away



written by Rod McKuen as a translation of the original poem in French "Ne Me Quitte Pas" written by Jacques Brel 1959 (just trust me the English version is much better than the original in French)

It's impossible to tell the sun to leave the sky,
It's just impossible.
It's impossible to ask a baby not to cry,
It's just impossible.
Can I hold you closer to me
And not feel you going through me,
But the second that I never think of you?
Oh, how impossible.

Can the ocean keep from rushing to the shore?
It's just impossible.
If I had you could I ever ask for more?
It's just impossible.
And tomorrow, should you ask me for the world
Somehow I'd get it, I would sell my very soul
And not regret it for to live without your love
Is just impossible

Can the ocean keep from rushing to the shore?
It's just impossible.
If I had you could I ever ask for more?
It's just impossible.
And tomorrow, should you ask me for the world
Somehow I'd get it, I would sell my very soul
And not regret it for to live without your love
Is just impossible
Oh impossible,

Impossible

Impossible

Question????:
I know that Perry Como, Shirley bassey, Elvis presley and more singers performed this song but who wrote this poem????

dating is so hard any way...
cant understand why there so many people out there that want to play mind games with you.... could someone explain this to me... help me understand

how many guys out there get girls from ghyana are they for real??? or what