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A true gentleman would foot the bill, whether it's a full blown 3 course meal , or & fish & chip supper.. Now that may raise suspicion as to the intent but as far as I'm concerned, it's a statement that the lady in question is worth the effort & expense & not for for any other reason.
It isn't about the money, it is the gesture.
Buying drinks afterwards would more than cover half the meal anyway.
The only time I would want to pay is if I didn't want to meet him again. I'd want to just pay my share and go.