Gender neutral public restrooms (67)
One certainly doesn't want the prospect of SEEING gender-fluid in a gender fluid bathroom
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TokyoRogue: One certainly doesn't want the prospect of SEEING gender-fluid in a gender fluid bathroom
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They need to remain as they've always been.What if someone has a small child ? I wouldn't allow my small enter a gender neutral restroom.
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Kaybee50: In theory, I would like to think I'm quite on board with the idea of public restrooms being available to those all who are gender fluid.
In reality, I'm not sure.
Saturday evening I popped into the restroom to readjust a garter belt. I hiked up my skirt, was wrestling with the stay, and looked up. There was a man standing at the other end of the restroom against the wall. He was a security guard for the facility and I must've looked like a deer in the headlights, as he said not to worry, he's seen just about everything. Ohhh, that was reassuring!
What do you all think about this issue?
In reality, I'm not sure.
Saturday evening I popped into the restroom to readjust a garter belt. I hiked up my skirt, was wrestling with the stay, and looked up. There was a man standing at the other end of the restroom against the wall. He was a security guard for the facility and I must've looked like a deer in the headlights, as he said not to worry, he's seen just about everything. Ohhh, that was reassuring!
What do you all think about this issue?
Most 'activity ' in a public bathroom takes place in private cubicles anyway, so it wouldn't particularly mind it.
Maybe they should put on loud music though, because men seem to far louder than women
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If you go to somebodies house for dinner, they generally dont have 2 separate toilets, and its no big deal.
I think the general public is a different matter, teenage daughters and dirty old men are a bad mix. Easier to police separate areas, there would be no excuse for a guy to be hanging around inside a female bathroom.
I think the general public is a different matter, teenage daughters and dirty old men are a bad mix. Easier to police separate areas, there would be no excuse for a guy to be hanging around inside a female bathroom.
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Kaybee50: In theory, I would like to think I'm quite on board with the idea of public restrooms being available to those all who are gender fluid.
In reality, I'm not sure.
Saturday evening I popped into the restroom to readjust a garter belt. I hiked up my skirt, was wrestling with the stay, and looked up. There was a man standing at the other end of the restroom against the wall. He was a security guard for the facility and I must've looked like a deer in the headlights, as he said not to worry, he's seen just about everything. Ohhh, that was reassuring!
What do you all think about this issue?
In reality, I'm not sure.
Saturday evening I popped into the restroom to readjust a garter belt. I hiked up my skirt, was wrestling with the stay, and looked up. There was a man standing at the other end of the restroom against the wall. He was a security guard for the facility and I must've looked like a deer in the headlights, as he said not to worry, he's seen just about everything. Ohhh, that was reassuring!
What do you all think about this issue?
I think a less experience security guard would have been so traumatised , seeing you undress, it may have sent him into therapy
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One2note: I think a less experience security guard would have been so traumatised , seeing you undress, it may have sent him into therapy
Why I oughta....He was seeing me get dressed, not undressed.
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Kaybee50: In theory, I would like to think I'm quite on board with the idea of public restrooms being available to those all who are gender fluid.
In reality, I'm not sure.
Saturday evening I popped into the restroom to readjust a garter belt. I hiked up my skirt, was wrestling with the stay, and looked up. There was a man standing at the other end of the restroom against the wall. He was a security guard for the facility and I must've looked like a deer in the headlights, as he said not to worry, he's seen just about everything. Ohhh, that was reassuring!
What do you all think about this issue?
Public bathrooms are almost always uncomfortable.In reality, I'm not sure.
Saturday evening I popped into the restroom to readjust a garter belt. I hiked up my skirt, was wrestling with the stay, and looked up. There was a man standing at the other end of the restroom against the wall. He was a security guard for the facility and I must've looked like a deer in the headlights, as he said not to worry, he's seen just about everything. Ohhh, that was reassuring!
What do you all think about this issue?
If a public washroom wan't to be neutral then it should only occupy 1 person.
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pat8lanips: If you go to somebodies house for dinner, they generally dont have 2 separate toilets, and its no big deal.
I think the general public is a different matter, teenage daughters and dirty old men are a bad mix. Easier to police separate areas, there would be no excuse for a guy to be hanging around inside a female bathroom.
I suppose since it was posted outside the door that the public bathroom was for "Everyone", one knows before entering.I think the general public is a different matter, teenage daughters and dirty old men are a bad mix. Easier to police separate areas, there would be no excuse for a guy to be hanging around inside a female bathroom.
What made me uncomfortable was that the security guard was against the wall behind the door.
One cannot see him/her standing there until the door is closed, and I wasn't looking in that direction until I already had my skirt hiked.
I suppose I wasn't expecting someone of any gender to be in there policing the premises, and staring....
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mollybaby: Most 'activity ' in a public bathroom takes place in private cubicles anyway, so it wouldn't particularly mind it.
Maybe they should put on loud music though, because men seem to far louder than women
Excellent point Minx. Maybe they should put on loud music though, because men seem to far louder than women
And hand out gas masks at the entry....
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Kaybee50: I suppose since it was posted outside the door that the public bathroom was for "Everyone", one knows before entering.
What made me uncomfortable was that the security guard was against the wall behind the door.
One cannot see him/her standing there until the door is closed, and I wasn't looking in that direction until I already had my skirt hiked.
I suppose I wasn't expecting someone of any gender to be in there policing the premises, and staring....
What made me uncomfortable was that the security guard was against the wall behind the door.
One cannot see him/her standing there until the door is closed, and I wasn't looking in that direction until I already had my skirt hiked.
I suppose I wasn't expecting someone of any gender to be in there policing the premises, and staring....
Would the fact that you knew it was a gender-neutral bathroom not make you think twice before hiking up your skirt?
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Kaybee50: Why I oughta....
He was seeing me get dressed, not undressed.
He was seeing me get dressed, not undressed.
Its no Biggie for me!
At work there's only one restroom/ changing room and I'm the only male employee!
You never hear me complain about it!
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One2note: Its no Biggie for me!
At work there's only one restroom/ changing room and I'm the only male employee!
You never hear me complain about it!
At work there's only one restroom/ changing room and I'm the only male employee!
You never hear me complain about it!
That's entirely different from a public restroom
I'm with Cc and Pat on this
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Kaybee50: In theory, I would like to think I'm quite on board with the idea of public restrooms being available to those all who are gender fluid.
In reality, I'm not sure.
Saturday evening I popped into the restroom to readjust a garter belt. I hiked up my skirt, was wrestling with the stay, and looked up. There was a man standing at the other end of the restroom against the wall. He was a security guard for the facility and I must've looked like a deer in the headlights, as he said not to worry, he's seen just about everything. Ohhh, that was reassuring!
What do you all think about this issue?
In reality, I'm not sure.
Saturday evening I popped into the restroom to readjust a garter belt. I hiked up my skirt, was wrestling with the stay, and looked up. There was a man standing at the other end of the restroom against the wall. He was a security guard for the facility and I must've looked like a deer in the headlights, as he said not to worry, he's seen just about everything. Ohhh, that was reassuring!
What do you all think about this issue?
It's one thing to go into a public restroom knowing full well that it is but not knowing some security dude is there in stealth mode would be quite a surprise indeed.
Privacy is becoming a thing of the past everywhere. 
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Kaybee50: In theory, I would like to think I'm quite on board with the idea of public restrooms being available to those all who are gender fluid.
In reality, I'm not sure.
Saturday evening I popped into the restroom to readjust a garter belt. I hiked up my skirt, was wrestling with the stay, and looked up. There was a man standing at the other end of the restroom against the wall. He was a security guard for the facility and I must've looked like a deer in the headlights, as he said not to worry, he's seen just about everything. Ohhh, that was reassuring!
What do you all think about this issue?
In reality, I'm not sure.
Saturday evening I popped into the restroom to readjust a garter belt. I hiked up my skirt, was wrestling with the stay, and looked up. There was a man standing at the other end of the restroom against the wall. He was a security guard for the facility and I must've looked like a deer in the headlights, as he said not to worry, he's seen just about everything. Ohhh, that was reassuring!
What do you all think about this issue?
I think men should do their business in a men’s restroom and women should do their business in women’s restrooms.
Anyone wanting to be something different should work on congress to legislate something like ada compliance to eventually require non men and non women restrooms. Maybe more of society will be ready for co-bathrooms in the distant future like a small minority want to force on society today. I would not want most men in any private or public restroom with my daughter or any other woman in my family.
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2intrigued: It's one thing to go into a public restroom knowing full well that it is but not knowing some security dude is there in stealth mode would be quite a surprise indeed. Privacy is becoming a thing of the past everywhere.
When l was a beautiful young teenager, a unsupervised poooliceman strip-searched me in the police-station, at night, the whole deal ...l guessed that there was something very wrong at the time & many years latter, l know that was not an ordinary proceeding for an unaccompanied sworn officer to undertake, with a vulnerable member of the public ...in an NZ rest-room, finding a security "dude" lurking inside is suspicious activity 
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stephenbadger: When l was a beautiful young teenager, a unsupervised poooliceman strip-searched me in the police-station, at night, the whole deal ...l guessed that there was something very wrong at the time & many years latter, l know that was not an ordinary proceeding for an unaccompanied sworn officer to undertake, with a vulnerable member of the public ...in an NZ rest-room, finding a security "dude" lurking inside is suspicious activity
Did that actually happen to you?
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In China the mens restroom often has a woman cleaner lurking in a corner, at first it was disconcerting, especially as men's urinals are open unlike the actual toilet which is enclosed. I usually use a cubicle as can't pee when being watched by a woman
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This is a typical Chinese college restroom
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In reality, I'm not sure.
Saturday evening I popped into the restroom to readjust a garter belt. I hiked up my skirt, was wrestling with the stay, and looked up. There was a man standing at the other end of the restroom against the wall. He was a security guard for the facility and I must've looked like a deer in the headlights, as he said not to worry, he's seen just about everything. Ohhh, that was reassuring!
What do you all think about this issue?