Woman makeing the first move ( Archived) (83)

Dec 4, 2018 12:19 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
One2note: even those without a photo , will receive mail
thumbs up Yep.. Those "green light stalkers" are a pain in the a*s. But removing my 3 photos cut it down 50%.
The rest.. they just don't read my profile or care... they follow that green light laugh
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Dec 4, 2018 12:23 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
Tulefell: Yay or nay?

To women: have you ever made the first move on a dating site? What was the result?

To men: a woman made the first move: your reaction, if any?
It's super attractive when a woman makes the first move.

Women should go after someone they think its interesting, instead of waiting for men to come to them. They are more likely to end up with someone they want to date, as online dating is set in favor of women (nothing wrong with that, love it).

Don’t be afraid of rejection !
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Dec 4, 2018 12:27 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
Bogart_1960: It's super attractive when a woman makes the first move.

Women should go after someone they think its interesting, instead of waiting for men to come to them. They are more likely to end up with someone they want to date, as online dating is set in favor of women (nothing wrong with that, love it).

Don’t be afraid of rejection !
So.....do you come here often wink

grin
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Dec 4, 2018 12:27 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
galrads: Really, masculinity issue.... Masculinity hardly exists in the USA Today. Most men here are either pu**y-whipped or they dress like women and or want to be a woman. Then again you’re not interested in USA men on CS.
Anyway, I am not interested in any men anymore... mumbling
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Dec 4, 2018 12:34 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
saidmahmoud
saidmahmoudsaidmahmoudHamburg Mitte, Hamburg Germany3 Threads 1 Polls 1,593 Posts
pKrema: Anyway, I am not interested in any men anymore...
No crying
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Dec 4, 2018 12:34 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
deedee123xo: So.....do you come here often
hey D waveHow’s life treating you?
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Dec 4, 2018 12:36 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
Bogart_1960: hey D How’s life treating you?
Good Bogie, can't complain...even about the crappy weather.

Hope you are well wave
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Dec 4, 2018 12:39 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Bogart_1960: It's super attractive when a woman makes the first move.

Women should go after someone they think its interesting, instead of waiting for men to come to them. They are more likely to end up with someone they want to date, as online dating is set in favor of women (nothing wrong with that, love it).

Don’t be afraid of rejection !
" IIn'y a qu'un
bonheur dans lavie,
C'est d'aimer et d'etre aimé wave
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Dec 4, 2018 12:48 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
deedee123xo: So let me get this right.

You want women to revert to old ways and becomes submissive to men and not be feminists??? But you complain that they don't do the assertive thing and approach men??

You can't have it all one way, with your own little tweets here and there....you either want your woman to have old style values or you don't.
thumbs up

Hello Dee.. hug

I must admit...I'm just As confused as you are! confused
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Dec 4, 2018 12:50 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
daniela777: Yes I have on a few occasions when I notice that the man has viewed my profile several times and he happens to live in the same country.

Today..for example...there's a guy who lives in the same town and has viewed my profile endless times!!
So I suggested we meet for a drink and he accepted!

I suppose he was just too shy to ask? Or...he felt intimidated?

..
Well done and good luck!

I wouldn't want to approach a man, who, I sense, might be intimidated by my profile. Though quite so often it's not about intimidation, but being tired of rejection. They are human, men are, and also need some encouragement on the way to success :)
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Dec 4, 2018 12:52 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
PeKaatje
PeKaatjePeKaatjeAnkeveen, North Holland Netherlands59 Threads 3 Polls 6,334 Posts
My reaction if a woman makes the first move:

Well, it depends on if I like her or not.
If I don't like her, I won't react, if I like her, I don't know because that never happened to me. I'm shy...
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Dec 4, 2018 12:54 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
daniela777: Hello Dee..

I must admit...I'm just As confused as you are!
Hi Dan wave

I'm sure there will be that old generic "you are a snowflake who can't handle the truth" response from him that we've become accustomed to.

hug
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Dec 4, 2018 12:54 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
Tulefell: Yay or nay?

To women: have you ever made the first move on a dating site? What was the result?

To men: a woman made the first move: your reaction, if any?
yes , I was very happy , years ago I was new on here and found my love , it was her move towards me , at first time I thought she was a scammer but after talking for few weeks I found she was such a lovely woman wine
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Dec 4, 2018 12:54 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
deedee123xo: So let me get this right.

You want women to revert to old ways and becomes submissive to men and not be feminists??? But you complain that they don't do the assertive thing and approach men??

You can't have it all one way, with your own little tweets here and there....you either want your woman to have old style values or you don't.
thumbs up
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Dec 4, 2018 12:55 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
Arthur_Sixpence: No, never happened, here or real life...
Frankly, I'd drop down dead...
Oh, they want you to live, that's why :D
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Dec 4, 2018 12:57 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
deedee123xo: Good Bogie, can't complain...even about the crappy weather.

Hope you are well
perfect here. All good, weather too. Fantastic day today ...cool
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Dec 4, 2018 12:58 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
PeKaatje: My reaction if a woman makes the first move:

... if I like her, I don't know because that never happened to me

.
Oh, that's terribly cute :)
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Dec 4, 2018 12:59 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
annaroach: " IIn'y a qu'un bonheur dans lavie, C'est d'aimer et d'etre aimé
Toute chose appartient à qui sait en jouir.

wave
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Dec 4, 2018 12:59 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
Tulefell: Well done and good luck!

I wouldn't want to approach a man, who, I sense, might be intimidated by my profile. Though quite so often it's not about intimidation, but being tired of rejection. They are human, men are, and also need some encouragement on the way to success :)
Well...there's nothing to lose!

I don't really know the reason/s why he didn't approach me and ....viewing my profile several times maybe a sign that he couldn't believe what he saw? dunno

Thanks anyway but I'm only going out of curiosity.
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Dec 4, 2018 1:00 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
pKrema: Anyway, I am not interested in any men anymore...
comfort sad flower
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