What do you think about someone who always waits until Friday to let you know about the weekend (33)
I think it is bad manners. Or they assume, they are more important then they actually are, or you were their last resort.
The only way to teach them is to reject them. "I am sorry, I wish you asked me sooner, I have made plans (and then don't say what those are), how about next weekend or the weekend after?"
The only way to teach them is to reject them. "I am sorry, I wish you asked me sooner, I have made plans (and then don't say what those are), how about next weekend or the weekend after?"
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They will need to be making other plans that don't include me, as I've already planned my weekend.
I'm a busy girl, I have options... I don't sit by the phone waiting for them to decide whether they want to see me or not.
I'm a busy girl, I have options... I don't sit by the phone waiting for them to decide whether they want to see me or not.
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If someone does this more than once, you are not a priority to them.
Move on .
Move on .
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CossackCat: I think it is bad manners. Or they assume, they are more important then they actually are, or you were their last resort.
The only way to teach them is to reject them. "I am sorry, I wish you asked me sooner, I have made plans (and then don't say what those are), how about next weekend or the weekend after?"
Makes sense. thanks, CossackCat. The only way to teach them is to reject them. "I am sorry, I wish you asked me sooner, I have made plans (and then don't say what those are), how about next weekend or the weekend after?"
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Kaybee50: They will need to be making other plans that don't include me, as I've already planned my weekend.
I'm a busy girl, I have options... I don't sit by the phone waiting for them to decide whether they want to see me or not.
Thanks, I agree and wonder why some folks continuously disrespect others like this. I'm a busy girl, I have options... I don't sit by the phone waiting for them to decide whether they want to see me or not.
Kaybee.
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Mrroscoe03: If someone does this more than once, you are not a priority to them.
Move on .
Roger that Mr roscoe Move on .
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Happy weekend y'all 
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They don't think that my time is as as important as theirs.
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Last on the list.
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NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Last on the list.
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Bearwoman: They don't think that my time is as as important as theirs.
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chancer_returns: Happy weekend y'all
Ditto c-r... we’ve got really nice weather going on here in Dublin, Ohio USA ------ This poll is Archived ------
I think could be its not until Friday that they feel its time to think about themselves having just spent another whole week wasting there precious human rebirth by second fiddling to someone else's grand plans 1 (a) and generally would like to catch up with someone they like
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robplum: I think could be its not until Friday that they feel its time to think about themselves having just spent another whole week wasting there precious human rebirth by second fiddling to someone else's grand plans 1 (a) and generally would like to catch up with someone they like
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They trying to see, if whoever they made
plans with is gonna cancel out, then you
will be the last priority, they know
you not gone say no, cause they been
treating you like that
plans with is gonna cancel out, then you
will be the last priority, they know
you not gone say no, cause they been
treating you like that
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Kaybee50: They will need to be making other plans that don't include me, as I've already planned my weekend.
I'm a busy girl, I have options... I don't sit by the phone waiting for them to decide whether they want to see me or not.
I'm a busy girl, I have options... I don't sit by the phone waiting for them to decide whether they want to see me or not.
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i would have to know the person to be able to answer that.
i have a couple friends who work really hard...and they honestly don't know what their schedules will be like, or how tired they will be. so knowing that... i don't mind if they don't know. mind you... i am not dating either of them....
i have a couple friends who work really hard...and they honestly don't know what their schedules will be like, or how tired they will be. so knowing that... i don't mind if they don't know. mind you... i am not dating either of them....
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Jono
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I would think that their other friend cancelled at the last minute and now they don't have anything to do on Friday night. If I didn't have anything to do I might see it as a good thing.
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Packersbabe1: Jono
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hiya galrads
i reread your question...my initial comment was more about an established relationship.
if it was someone i was just casually dating..
i wouldn't be interested. i tend to be busy, and organize my time. my weekend plans would already be in place by late friday.
i'm sure you've heard this...
"never make someone a priority if your just an option in theirs"
i reread your question...my initial comment was more about an established relationship.
if it was someone i was just casually dating..
i wouldn't be interested. i tend to be busy, and organize my time. my weekend plans would already be in place by late friday.
i'm sure you've heard this...
"never make someone a priority if your just an option in theirs"
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jono7: hiya galrads
i reread your question...my initial comment was more about an established relationship.
if it was someone i was just casually dating..
i wouldn't be interested. i tend to be busy, and organize my time. my weekend plans would already be in place by late friday.
i'm sure you've heard this...
"never make someone a priority if your just an option in theirs"
Hey jono thanks for the different views i reread your question...my initial comment was more about an established relationship.
if it was someone i was just casually dating..
i wouldn't be interested. i tend to be busy, and organize my time. my weekend plans would already be in place by late friday.
i'm sure you've heard this...
"never make someone a priority if your just an option in theirs"
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Raph
Good on you...lol...
If it works why question it...
Good on you...lol...
If it works why question it...
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It depends, you might buy concert tickets months in advance. You can't really plan on something like going sailing or fishing months in advance.
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Some people have busy lives and are dependent upon others for their schedule.
My daughter doesn't always know when she, or her partner are working at the weekends. It depends upon her boss, what work comes up, people calling in sick, etc. They both work like dogs.
I sometimes work at weekends.
My grandchildren are my priority. Being a grandmother is like being a parent who doesn't live in the home. A week is a long time in a child's life and they rely on the routine of me seeing them at the weekend for security.
It's 5.30am Saturday morning and I still don't know how I'm going to fit everything in this weekend.
As an adult, I understand that I have to suck it up if other adults are too run off their feet to spend time with me, or make arrangements in advance. More vulnerable people like kids, grandkids, elderly parents take priority. Work takes priority because that's about survival, or providing for others.
I'm not in a position to have a sense of entitlement over other people's schedules, or them over mine.
If we get together, fabulous. If not, then there'll be other times.
My daughter doesn't always know when she, or her partner are working at the weekends. It depends upon her boss, what work comes up, people calling in sick, etc. They both work like dogs.
I sometimes work at weekends.
My grandchildren are my priority. Being a grandmother is like being a parent who doesn't live in the home. A week is a long time in a child's life and they rely on the routine of me seeing them at the weekend for security.
It's 5.30am Saturday morning and I still don't know how I'm going to fit everything in this weekend.
As an adult, I understand that I have to suck it up if other adults are too run off their feet to spend time with me, or make arrangements in advance. More vulnerable people like kids, grandkids, elderly parents take priority. Work takes priority because that's about survival, or providing for others.
I'm not in a position to have a sense of entitlement over other people's schedules, or them over mine.
If we get together, fabulous. If not, then there'll be other times.
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Friday suits me fine as people usually pass away between Monday & Thursday.
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Mrroscoe03: If someone does this more than once, you are not a priority to them.
Move on .
Move on .
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Mercedes_00: Friday suits me fine as people usually pass away between Monday & Thursday.
I did not know that. When guys get my age you have to be gentle with them Merc ! ------ This poll is Archived ------
loulou77: Raph
Good on you...lol...
If it works why question it...
Good on you...lol...
If it works why question it...
loulou77: Raph
Good on you...lol...
If it works why question it...
Good on you...lol...
If it works why question it...
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Created: Sep 2019
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