hn2009: Have you ever fallen in love with someone that is 10 years younger or younger than you? Would you marry?
Well if he were my fiance then I would already have decided to marry him no?
My personal opinion though is probably no. 10 years or more younger is too much for me. I was married for 25 years to a lovely man 9 years older and that was a problem at times.
I have never fallen in love with someone 10 yrs younger, but I did date a man who was only 7 yrs younger for over a year.... I was in my 30s at the time though. Of course I would commit to a life long relationship to anyone I was in love with. My general perameters on age are 10 years younger and 7 years older, although I am not set in stone on either....
I have to agree with Jan. If he is your fiancé, then you (both) have decided already to get married. Or not?
And since, statistically, women live longer than men, why should you not marry somebody 10 years younger? From a certain age on, that does not really make a difference any more.
Having said that... maybe it does make a difference.... in a positive way If you know what I mean
Yes, as it is far easier to find younger women that are single then it is to find women my age that are not spoken for.( At least in my neck of the woods that is.)
I have been out with men a lot younger and older than me, to me age is nothing at all if the two off you get on well. Im still looking for the one to marry.
Jackson1862: As long as the person is of legal age i see nothing wrong with a 10 year age gap. I don't know about you all but i believe in taking what you can get.
hn2009: Have you ever fallen in love with someone that is 10 years younger or younger than you? Would you marry?
Ten years younger yes, but that's my limit. I think anymore and it is too problematic. A man more than 10 years older than me cannot keep up, especially when we get older and older. I am very, very active and will always be so. A man more than 10 years younger will want a younger wife when I get old. I believe that. Ten is reasonable, anymore is too much. So, age IS NOT just a number: it matters.
kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam2,003 posts
NEVER, it is too crazy and lacking of thinking to do like that, and will feel regretful for the rest of your life if u let yourself to fall in love with a man who is 10 yrs younger than yr age, if one or two yrs younger than yr age is okay, but it is always better & wise if u get married with older man than your age, you will hv a happy life with him and do not hv to worry very much about his loyalty.
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