AS for your example, Willow, a friend of mine taking a leak at a picnic was embarrassed to realize a 5 year old girl had followed and was watching with interest. 'That's a useful thing to take on a picnic' she said approvingly.
We often don't know what lies behind a person's actions and reactions. EVERY time we find out, it makes all the difference in the world. That ohhhhh moment. We may still not agree, but we understand.
Granted, sometimes what we understand is they are seriously unbalanced, but even that makes us realize this was not a sane rational person deliberately being destructive, but a person who is out of step with all but their own reality.
Molly, are you accusing me of massaging figures? :shocked face:
Statistically the bloggers on CS don't even register. At any point, 100 people having a gentle cyber blether, 3 getting het up, 11 flirting .. about right?
RE: Don't forget too Soon.
YES.