Teach something good, is it? Okay. Lesson one. Which wife is more appreciated by her husband?
A) the wife who nags at her husband he is a loser, boring, needs to jack himself up, get more ambitious and at least apply for the bloody promotion, not be useless and negative all his life.
B) the wife who greets her husband with a loving kiss when they meet, listens while he tells her about his frustrating day, kisses the top of his head and encourages him to try for the new promotion in the company because at the very least it will show management he is interested in improving his position.
Telling people they are negative always works. The first wife is the one who cheers her husband up and motivates him. The second wife is a waste of time and space and couldn't change negative to positive in a billion years.
Not sure why I am bothering writing this. Must be the coffee talking. Pure bs.
Oh Ken of course you are fearing the worst. Let us know.
I had a cat that waited every night by the gate for me to come home, while the other one did his own thing. The day the old cat had to be put down was traumatic and I was in tears when I got home. Through the tears I saw a white shape waiting at the gate. It was the younger cat - and he did so every night from then on.
If the news about Moe is bad, I hope one of the other cats takes over his vital role in your life.
Do you seriously think anything we say or do, even if we did it in our millions with one voice (and THAT will never happen) makes the blindest bit of difference? The world is controlled by a tiny percentage of the 7 billion people living on it and they are playing God without the slightest interest in who the 7 billion people believe really is God or Allah or Jehovah, etc.
We ants will never even see the agenda, let alone understand it. FB, Twitter, blogs, any of the social forums, are there just to let us poor idiots have our unimportant say and think we are important and worth listening to. No-one is listening, except the other idiots.
In SA born-again Christians have fish logos on their cars, is that the same elsewhere?
My brother had one on his car in case he broke down, then they would stop to help. He's a bit of a cynic.
Arriving at a dinner party with people you don't know well, and realizing all the other cars sported silver fishes, was never a good moment. The dinner could go either way, and I don't like prayer meetings. Not entirely crazy about happy-clappies, they are too keen to convert others without waiting to be asked, like most converts to most religions. Still, sounds like you enjoyed your evening, that's by far the most important thing.
Mic - I'm so blocked they will HAVE to badger you. The only people who can get messages through to me - unless I do the equivalent of 'have him scrubbed and brought to my room', i.e. message first - are single verified millionaires with triple personalities.
Jim, good points, although if a girl is only interested in shoe-shopping, doilies, etc, she is at least being honest? And could meet a guy like Pedal who shares that interest and be her perfect match
Willow, I don't think CS guys are big on monogamy either. Plenty stay on site while in a relationship.
Your blog is on what men would like to see in women's profiles. It is slowly getting there. Our guys are shy, delicate types, a little backward in coming forward, once the joking and catcalling dies down the truths will drift to the surface.
Och, Molly, you're a top member already hen, with more friends than you can shake a stick at. So what that you haven't a clue what they say about themselves, it's usually just wishful thinking anyway
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RE: Negative People
Teach something good, is it? Okay. Lesson one. Which wife is more appreciated by her husband?A) the wife who nags at her husband he is a loser, boring, needs to jack himself up, get more ambitious and at least apply for the bloody promotion, not be useless and negative all his life.
B) the wife who greets her husband with a loving kiss when they meet, listens while he tells her about his frustrating day, kisses the top of his head and encourages him to try for the new promotion in the company because at the very least it will show management he is interested in improving his position.
Telling people they are negative always works. The first wife is the one who cheers her husband up and motivates him. The second wife is a waste of time and space and couldn't change negative to positive in a billion years.
Not sure why I am bothering writing this. Must be the coffee talking. Pure bs.
Thanks, DC for your comment