Venusruled Blog Comments (724)

RE: I'm Thai woman looking for real love and marriage

Old women Oh man, I better go get my crone cape on.

RE: I'm Thai woman looking for real love and marriage

Broken english or not, Moonlove is really giving you the what for! She is one feisty girl! I thought you two were more on the lovey dovey side....

RE: If music be the food of the soul then Rock on!

I'll really date myself here.

1. Pat Benatar
2. ACDC
3. Billy Squire
4. Frankie Goes To Hollywood
5. Aerosmith
6. Billy Joel
7. The Cars
8. Madonna
9. Michael Jackson
10. Andreas Vollenweider

Too many songs to mention, so went with artists.
I don't know that any song changed my life, but those were the artists I had the most fun singing to and dancing to.

RE: The Significance of Ladybugs.....

Wow, Drea, what a story! I believe that lady bugs are good luck. Of course, as one might guess, I'm into all sorts of symbology. I look for signs all the time.

Did everyone end up being okay?

RE: Bald Headed Women: Do Women look Right Bald?

I was thinking Sinead O'Conner too! I thought she really pulled it off. It just depends on the head. If someone has a funny shaped head, it will not look good no matter how attractive the person's face is.

But I say, if a person wants to shave their head or have tattoos or piercings all over their bodies, more power to them.

RE: Stop thinking about it!

Wow, this is really taking me back! This could have been written by me ---years ago. Brunette, your story is one that many women can relate to. Young love is crazy love! Please take your time. There is a lot of life to "get serious" with someone!

I know that everyone craves the intimacy that we think is only available with an other. Truth is, if you can feel the love for yourself that you so want from a man, you will have the whole world to choose from. The whole world, because everyone and everything will look like Love when you love yourself. It will be reflected back to you everywhere you go.

If I had known this when I was your age...I can't even imagine how much more of my life would have been as joy filled as it has been in the few years since I have been practicing Self love. People think that means being selfish. Nothing could be further from the Truth! For you can only give what you have. And no one else can love you if you don't love yourself.

Wish there was an emoticon of a little guy on a soapbox.

find joy, bring joy and let the rest flow to you naturally.

RE: here lately

John, I think it's nutty that there is even an option to rate photos. Like we all don't have enough insecurities- Probably best to turn off the rating option or just don't bother looking at the results. It's all bs anyway. You look as nice as you seem to be when you write comments on the blogs. You also are a good looking man, so just do this to the goofs that like to make people feel bad about themselves.

RE: negative comments stay away

I apologize for my harshness. I should know better than to get on this site when I have a migraine! Rest assured, I will only comment on your blogs in the future if I have something sincerely positive to write. Thanks for finally letting everyone know what it is you want. That is helpful.

RE: i died for love

Oh, and by the way, Mr. Mjames, I happen to absolutely agree with you! I do think you "shoot from the hip" a bit harshly in some of your post comments (this and others), but in this case you give good advice.

I still think this writer has a lot of talent. Not sure if you were just critiquing this poem or the writer's abilities, so that may be the only point on which we do not agree.

RE: i died for love

Miss Drea, I think people, all kinds of people, can inspire us to make changes that benefit us and those around us. But none of them make us better, or make us change. We decide to do it and we take the action necessary to transform.

Since everything on this plane is about the illusion of duality, the other side of the coin to being given credit for changing someone is you have to take the blame if they fail. No thanks, perfectly happy with the idea that people are responsible for all their own changes, happiness, and so forth.

I enjoy being a facilitator of that if it fits, but don't want a person to think I fill their cup. That's how codependent relationships work. Been there done that. Yuck!


I totally agree, Nite Star, you have a lot of talent. Sorry for not acknowledging that right off the bat!

RE: First Trio "Married" in The Netherlands

I can't even imagine having 2 husbands. One was tough enough! Why would having more than one at a time be better?

Makes me tired just thinking about it!

RE: Do you believe in zodiac sign?

Shoot they auto block India too. I changed that setting as well. Try again. Good night all!

RE: i died for love

Mr. Pitts, I know, then we could blame everyone else for how we feel. But even if we do try to blame everyone else, it causes us to be even worse off than if we take responsibility for our own emotions. Because at that point we give up all of our power to something outside of us. That is not a good place to be in.

I'd rather take full responsibility for my emotions and know I have all the power to change the way I feel in any situation. Simple but not easy. JMO

RE: He Would've Cuss/Hit Me If I Was a Guy!

Holy Hannah, Miss Drea! I wouldn't go any where near that mall, no matter what store was there! Yikes! I lead a sheltered life...

RE: Do you believe in zodiac sign?

Sorry about that, Mr. Pitts! You are too young. hhahaha I'll change the settings.

RE: He Would've Cuss/Hit Me If I Was a Guy!

Yes, Miss Drea, that is my feeling too. Notice how we all said "watch out, be careful" she back pedaled and wrote:

"Actually, I can tell if a person is up to no good pretty well. As I talk to the guy, he seem pretty decent and cool.

At the time, his reaction made me jokingly think that he probably would've have reacted differently if I had been a guy."

We all just do what we want, don't we? I just pray she stays safe. That's all that matters.

RE: i died for love

She didn't die for love, she died because she didn't get what she wanted. Sorry if that sounds harsh.

People only want something or someone because they think they will feel better in the having of it. No thing outside of us can make us happy...or make us sad. Nope, love had nothing to do with this one.

RE: He Would've Cuss/Hit Me If I Was a Guy!

So I've been told. Lucky I have all those angels looking out for me!

Also, it has been my experience that people are going to do just what they want to do, no matter what I advise. Have you noticed that many people ask for advice but very few actually take it? Then when they end up in trouble or upset, you are the first one they call to talk about it?

Have a wonderful Easter, everyone!

RE: He Would've Cuss/Hit Me If I Was a Guy!

P.S. Mr. EasyWriter, I think you're just mad you didn't get in on the jojoba oil discussion.

RE: Do you believe in zodiac sign?

Mr. Pitts, I would be happy to pull your chart. If you want to email your info to me. I need birthdate, time of birth, and place of birth.

How were the last two and a half years for you? Saturn was in Virgo until Oct. (it is back in Virgo now for a couple of months). It squared your Sun in Gemini.

RE: What's Goin On?

I think that would be a very interesting thing to add to your profile... the meaning of your name, I mean. Good luck!!! You seem like a really good hearted man.

RE: He Would've Cuss/Hit Me If I Was a Guy!

Dynamite, Have fun!!

RE: He Would've Cuss/Hit Me If I Was a Guy!

Oh did I misunderstand? Perhaps aphrodisiac is the last thing you need. Unfortunately jojoba does not come in different weights the way motor oil does. May have to just give it a rest!!

RE: For my Chinese Sweetie …..

You know I can almost picture that!!!

RE: cooking

How do you find the time? Between being such a good husband and servicing the fine widow, I can't imagine how you find time to bring home the garlic and fry it up in a pan too!

RE: Fun and interesting site

This blogging is great fun! Good luck finding your London tweed hunky dunk!

RE: What's Goin On?

Just curious. Do you think that having the word "kill" in your handle might put some women off? I keep wondering why people say they want to attract someone to them but then have these weird handles. Your profile name is like your first impression. It does give people insight into how you think a bit.

RE: He Would've Cuss/Hit Me If I Was a Guy!

Good call, Miss Drea. I believe first impressions are sooo important. Better to nip it now, if the feeling was that strong.

RE: For my Chinese Sweetie …..

Drea, you are such a sleuth! I noticed Thad is gone. TOL deleted his profile too? My bad??? Was it because of my feisty assault on their non sense?

Oh well, if one can't take the heat....

RE: Older woman dating younger man. . .

Davinadia, that was just beautiful! I love that way of thinking!