John Elway....winningest quarterback of all time when he retired, only recently surpassed by the ageless Favre.
A couple others that might rival some on your list: Sammy Baugh, Dan Fouts, Warren Moon. If Moon's CFL stats were counted by the NFL, like former AFL qb's stats are included, he would outstrip most of those on your list in every career category. And how about Jim Kelly? Four conference championships in a row leading a revolutionary no-huddle offense, that's a claim no one else can make.
The question assumes that we knew before we got involved, and that's not always apparent. Afterward, we may have already become attached, and the relationship may have its own momentum.
But if one did know beforehand, one would have to balance that downside against the weight of one's own attraction and feelings.
I once had a relationship with a redhead, and she was a sweetheart. But if all things were equal (which of course they are not) I would fancy longish straight dark brown hair...no doubt a learned preference from my first girlfriend when I was 17.
Boys names appear in blue. Girls names appear in pink. The o/p's name and pic suggest a guy, but his name appears in pink, which I'd guess is what LouiseDreaming was referring to.
There are oodles of charming and/or interesting women on CS.
Among those oodles, there's a goodly number I rather fancy, in a variety of ways.
Among that goodly number, there's a few that, y'know, I kinda like.
And among those few, there's four that you might say I kinda have a crush on. However, two of them live so far away they might as well be on the moon.
As for a chance to let any of those four know, I suppose I've already made it kinda obvious, short of saying "Hey I really like you," which of course I couldn't do.
I'd guess self-confidence is probably the biggest turn-on for both men and women. Likely goes to the core of our deep-seated biological yearnings.
I know for me, nothing is as attractive as a woman's smile. A smile says: I am happy, I am well-adjusted, I am in charge of my situation (at least, at that moment).
But women may perceive self-confidence differently. Lots of women - I've known some personally - fantasize about Mr. Spock precisely because he does not smile.
Hey, you
That's the most any of us can really hope for, isn't it? Better to ride with the tide than try to fight the flow.