Elegsabiff Forum Posts (695)

How often is often once things have settled down?

This is getting really interesting on the actual voting. Women are saying a couple of times a week. Men are ticking less often.

How often is often once things have settled down?

Not to mention shocking your work colleagues

How often is often once things have settled down?

So - has your mailbox gone nuclear?

You're a rare man, mate!

How often is often once things have settled down?

Tru, you're such a romantic

How the devil are you, stranger?

How often is often once things have settled down?

You wouldn't believe how rare that is in long-term relationships but maybe I hear from the wrong people, the ones who are happily active don't have time to talk

RE: Mental incapacity in single people

Oh aye, I'm a registered organ donor and have a standing DNR but having said that, I should check I tick all the Spanish requirements too.

Depends on the demand for organs but I rather hope it will mean the medical authorities would waste no time shutting me down after harvesting all usable bits. I'm suspecting there won't be any queue for my lungs.

RE: Mental incapacity in single people

Hey, KN

The only instructions I would leave - shoot me now - aren't legal

RE: Mental incapacity in single people

I did a blog recently about those on their own, didn't foresee this scenario

Mentally incapacitated, I guess the State takes over and you wouldn't even be aware
Physically incapacitated, oh happy thoughts for the next time I can't sleep at 3 am

RE: Never forgive a traitor, she really was a traitor, "Hanoi Jane"

This is fake news, Jenny, I posted on your blog.

Casual meet (pub lunch type) in Costa del Sol / Costa Tropica area - you in?

Oh Molly yes, I can well believe that but I actually meant stepping out on a blog or forum was scary the first time. Maybe only me? The timid comment, the hammering pulse, the nervous glancing from side to side and hoping nobody actually notices



Well, that was a while back. In a way I miss the thrill of Actually Being Noticed by the god of the blog and the kind reply

Casual meet (pub lunch type) in Costa del Sol / Costa Tropica area - you in?

I lived in Scotland for 15 years, you could drive from the east coast to the west, have lunch and be back in time for tea

It took me 3 days to drive down Spain from France to the coast, it didn't feel particularly tiny but yup, I did get lost a couple of times.

Casual meet (pub lunch type) in Costa del Sol / Costa Tropica area - you in?

Hummmpph. And harrumph.

Actually I didn't really expect non-bloggers and non-forumers to venture on anyway. It's dead scary, stepping out in public the first time - remember?

Casual meet (pub lunch type) in Costa del Sol / Costa Tropica area - you in?

Every meet is a picky meet

Casual meet (pub lunch type) in Costa del Sol / Costa Tropica area - you in?

Okay you lot play here, I'm probably going to try this again on a blog where I can prune out the peanut gallery

Casual meet (pub lunch type) in Costa del Sol / Costa Tropica area - you in?

PHEW

Casual meet (pub lunch type) in Costa del Sol / Costa Tropica area - you in?

not only girls but too darn attractive, the competition is mounting up something 'orrible.

Casual meet (pub lunch type) in Costa del Sol / Costa Tropica area - you in?

Only if he is nothing like you

Casual meet (pub lunch type) in Costa del Sol / Costa Tropica area - you in?

Lipstick too? Because neon pink and that red lippie - no, darling. No. Too naughty

Casual meet (pub lunch type) in Costa del Sol / Costa Tropica area - you in?

You're a long, long way away but hey very welcome

Casual meet (pub lunch type) in Costa del Sol / Costa Tropica area - you in?

The absolute best way to find out would be by joining us but I can now confirm Bnaughty is one

And 5 of the original 8 are female, and as best I know not previously on blogs or forums so BE NICE.

Casual meet (pub lunch type) in Costa del Sol / Costa Tropica area - you in?

Long time no speak Tru, hi, and thanks for a comment designed to alarm members who don't usually use the forums or blogs

Casual meet (pub lunch type) in Costa del Sol / Costa Tropica area - you in?

Rachie, if you're planning a Spanish holiday and these meets work out, you know to time your next one!

Casual meet (pub lunch type) in Costa del Sol / Costa Tropica area - you in?

Casual meet (pub lunch type) in Costa del Sol / Costa Tropica area - you in?

Yay!

Casual meet (pub lunch type) in Costa del Sol / Costa Tropica area - you in?

Hi, shout out to mature CS members in this part of Spain - meets are a good way to meet a bunch of others in the same general area. without any pressure, so it would be great to have at least ten people.

Messages have been sent and there's already 8 definite maybes, so according to CS the next step is to set up a thread.

Tick.



A venue has been suggested in Fuengirola which looks fab, but suggestions between Malaga and Motril would also go down well - some of those interested are in Malaga, but a few are in Motril and between the two (on the coast and inland).

There are quite a lot of us in this general area, even if it's too far for you, go ahead and post a comment, it could get others nearer to yours interested in setting up a more local lunch -

Very general plan would be a Saturday or Sunday in around a month's time. The messages sent were to people who don't usually use the forums or blogs so if you feel more comfortable continuing with messaging, no problem - however, the more people who post a comment, the better an idea we can all get of how much interest there is.

RE: Why do long relationships sometimes breakdown; your opinion of the #1 factor?

3. Often break down because one or both partners retire from work and they have to spend more time together. That's a sad time to realize the person you have been with so long is unbearably irritating 24/7


2. People change, all the time. You aren't the person you were 5 years ago. Sometimes the changes don't suit the relationship


1. Life sucks, maybe it will be better with a new person.



I'm just guessing, never been in a long-term romantic relationship. I guess I have a short attention span

RE: Freedom of information.

Whether my doctor has ever treated my condition before, and if so, how many of his patients survived

My gynae admitted cheerfully AFTER my C section that it was the first he had done with the patient conscious with a spinal block. He was so over-cautious I couldn't move my legs for 7 hours

RE: Living And The Dead

Nice thought-provoking topic

From the past, Napoleon, from the present, Donald Trump. Napoleon would have to be able to speak English, not a problem, right? And neither could leave until I said so?

As to why, I'm told Napoleon was utterly charming when he wanted to be, and I'm fascinated by driven men. Donald Trump is such an immensely contentious figure, yet has such a mesmeric effect on his followers, I'd love to see him in a normal setting to see why, and if my opinion of him face-to-face changed.

And what a conversational combination they would be, eh? It might be a fairly short dinner, though. I do accept that it probably wouldn't be harmonious, but the chocolate cake for dessert should be good.

RE: What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!

Do no harm

RE: What is #1 reason people don't put up recent profile pictures.

Main reason - they don't want to be recognized by colleagues or neighbours or the strange lonely person living in a shack in the same area that they've been trying to avoid for a while now ...

Also the photographs do appear on the internet world wide so there is the chance someone could Google your Facebook photo, for example, and learn you are on a singles website, shock horror.

I didn't read comments so oops my bad if this has already been said 30 or 40 times