There is really only one of two paths he can take right now, either keep going as is, or to take a path to recovery. I been on both paths and I know where each path leads to. If you reread my post, you will notice I suggested to see a doctor and not much more than that.
I know where he is right now and I do know that going as is will not help him any.
Yeah I made some questionable threads and I won't lie about it. It actually was people who told me straight up like you did here that made me take a hard look at everything, then I could see that something was not right. Hard to do but it was worth it big time.
lol, the herb probably don't help, but I found alcohol far worst and had to give it up years ago. I can say however that I don't smoke it nearly as much as I did even a few years ago.
To the op. There is some good advice here in some of the replies. Take advantage of it and it can lead to a better place.
Pay heed to this post as 2girls is correct. I learned the hard way that desperation and the whole depressed thing will not attract anyone. It seems to me that you are depressed, maybe a visit to the doctor would do some good, it did for me.
I used to respond to every mail, even if I wasn't interested but what started to happen was if I responded that I was not interested, I would sometimes get "hate" mail and more than once, have gotten multiple hate mails. I decided that I was no longer going to respond if I was not interested and that policy has made life much simpler.
There are many others who had my experience and have done the same as I did.
All depends on how much you trust them, if they are trustworthy, you shouldn't have anything to worry about and if they are not trustworthy, they shouldn't be in your life to begin with.
A girl came skipping home From school one day. "Mommy, Mommy," she yelled, "we were counting today, and all the other kids could only count to four, but I counted to 10. See? 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6,7, 8, 9, 10!"
"Very good," said her mother.
"Is it because I'm blonde, Mommy?"
"Yes, Honey, it's because you're blonde."
The next day the girl came skipping home FROM school. "Mommy, Mommy," She yelled, "we were saying the alphabet today, and all the other kids could only say it to D, but I said it to G. See? A,b, c, d, e, f, g!"
"Very good," said her mother.
"Is it because I'm blonde, Mommy?"
"Yes, Honey, it's because you're blonde."
The next day the girl came skipping home FROM school. "Mommy, Mommy," she yelled, "we were in gym class today, and when we showered, all the other girls had flat chests, but I have these!" And she lifted her tank top to reveal a pair of 36Cs.
RE: soulmate
There is really only one of two paths he can take right now, either keep going as is, or to take a path to recovery. I been on both paths and I know where each path leads to. If you reread my post, you will notice I suggested to see a doctor and not much more than that.I know where he is right now and I do know that going as is will not help him any.