That was very good JMF, yes, he disappeared all right and I would say for the good. Dam, he was fast. Never been disconnected, and blocked all over in a minute. He did say he was a tech. He sure acted like a tec. But he acted more like a tick, ha.
Exactly, nothing I said was bad. It's not like I had anything with him, but please give me a break. I do thank goodness, he is gone like the wind. I think it is the best thing that has really happened to show his true colors right away, I smell a rat!
Thanks Kiss, the only way out of this is to keep it in the back of my head and learn from it. I cannot get ahold of him and don't think I would want to if he would snap under such a lame question.
I know I want a good person, that is all, thanks.
The Dobe
Yes, alot of advice, but alot of it good and thanks to all who have written.
Thanks Friend, exactly, that whole conversation ended like it never happened. You are so right, no one wants that. Can you imagine something major happening and he goes poof?
I have 2, but I cannot mention names. The jest is I was writing to a guy overseas, just as pen pal. He mentions this to someone he knows who is a chick. I get onto chat and she starts to bash me. Says they are both laughing at me behind my back. That he thinks I like him, that is a laugh. He is at war and I never thought of him as anything but a pen pal.
Then tells me that his dog is alive when my?? friend said he was dead. The object was to hurt me even more. She tells me that she told him to tell me he was dead.
So to think 2 grown people were laughing behind my back and I find out about it, really shows me the kind of character these two have.
So I sent him a note last night again, after I had bashed him up and down. You call yourself a soldier but you are talking behind someones back when not on duty?
Then I mention we shall have a talk about the dog today.
He sends me a note, saying don't bother with a note. Then is uptight about mentioning his dog. Well, I wasn't going to kid him about his dog, just to let him know that his other friend was saying stuff about his dog. Basically, it is in his pocket now about how nasty she was to me in chat and it involved his dog.
Then I said, who is your friend and about the friend you have right now that you laugh to, is she your friend??? Well, he is never to be my friend again. To treat me bad once, when, I was a friend- danger. That will not happen twice.
As for the other person in on it, she has had it in for me. I bashed one of her friends one night. Then said I was sorry, so when she saw me in chat last night, she managed to get all there except for one against me. Well, she can be queen of the chat world. Congratulations.
Hi Elsson, I don't think it will matter if he does. It is a shame that I feel messed up, but I am a nice person and never meant any harm. Just imagine if the same had happened to you. But guys can be more hard I guess, I was almost in tears. But I feel better today, like wat the ? If he could lose it over that question, what about something major.
Yes, I think you are right, to just jolt and block. Very strange. It really hit me for a loop. One minute we were on, and then nothing. The tears started but did not come.
I will move on, that was really not a nice thing to do.
Yes, Sophia, a real over reaction. It stung. I've been in online dating sites before and this is my favorite, and this has never happened over something so little.
I agree with you Joselyne. If they cannot try to come up with a solution if you have touched on something upsetting, we cannot get them to do anything about it. So you let them go.
Or never ask a question that might get a man upset=Never ask a question club. I guess that is where I am at now, in not ask a question never never land.
Not a rude question at all, just what kind of New Yorker are you? I did not mean harm, only I wondered if he was the type to say exactly what he thinks, etc. Or was he not that type at all?
He was offended and said that I should know the answer to that. Then said we must be one two different wave lengths. Then said goodbye and wished me luck.
I thought I would have a chance to say I'm sorry, but he got off before I could explain. Then blocked all communication to me.
Tears came to my eyes. But if I don't hear from him that he is sorry, I flew off the handle without knowing what you meant, then it is for the best. I do not deserve such treatment, heaven forbid something major come up between us.
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RE: Why do women like to be carried to the bedroom?
I'd drag you