'White wife/Black husband marriages show twice the divorce rate of White wife/White husband couples by the 10th year of marriage, whereas Black wife/White husband marriages are 44% less likely to end in divorce than White wife/White husband couples over the same period.'
'White wife/Asian husband couples are 59% more likely to divorce by the 10th year of marriage than White wife/White husband couples, whereas Asian wife/White husband couples show only 4% greater likelihood of divorce than White wife/White husband couples over the same period'
Statistically inter-racial relationships are as successful as any other - which is remarkable considering the cultural difference. Although, the overall numbers are still quite low as most people hold a preference to their own race.
The sole exception to this is a White woman with a man of any race. It doesn't what matter culture he's from the chances of relationship success go through the floor when the woman is White. Statistically speaking(therefore, factually speaking)the only men on this Earth that can tolerate White women are White men.
I find that the greatest of lovers cannot be the best of friends. The tranquility of friendship clashes with the volatility of passionate love. A real lover never is nor can be a friend. While you agree, you are lovers; and when it is over, anything but friends ~ Lord Byron
Of course, this ultimately depends on what you define a partner to be - a companion or a love.
Inellectual development so often comes at the expense of instinctive understanding. Which is why the chess club is no good at parties.
It's rare when a person has the mind powerful enough to handle intellect without this deforming him with at least a measure of social autism. Nietzsche would be one of these rare persons, although he had other psychological problems.
Every upside has a downside and every strength has a weakness. It's not lost on me just how many of the world's greatest minds are either social autistitards or emotionally bi-polar. Autistitards idealise facts and try to force them into some system of what ought to be - Autistitards will often opt for ideologies that venerate the ideology above humanity(see: Marxism and Libertarianism)the bi-polar genius sees the truth for what it is which only blazes new pathways to sorrow.
Of course, education correlates wih Atheism just as it correlates with autism.
This lack of social savviness and unawareness of Human nature can be seen in geeks, nerds, the middle class and others of higher education and intelligence. All of which lean towards Atheism.
Genetics still plays a massive part and it is also unchangeable(for now). Lifestyle is something that comes in after.
I know my Dad looks really dark, intense and severe - he looks just like an Eastern European terorist and when we went to Yugoslavia he was actually removed from the bus at machine gun point by the local police - and my Mum is very Saxon looking with a soft, round face and blue eyes.
I look like a less intense version of my Dad, and my Brother looks like a less soft version of my Mum.
Yes, you'll still find the freak results and the unique hotties with a look all of their own. Imperfections can work with other complementary imperfections. But in terms of numbers and objectivity beauty corrolates with proportion. You don't see many girls going into their plastic surgeon and asking for a massive conk(nose).
If only there was some way of forcing people to breed with other people who have the exact opposite aesthetic flaws. More beauty in the world equals more truth in the world, and a happier planet this would be.
Sometimes self-servingly and sometimes passionately. Sometimes I live from wants and at other times I live from obligation.
If I'm to be solely concerned with my own happiness and loyalty to my own pleasure zone then I "live for today". When I get to thinking about the economy or the state of society and the kind of world my children will grow up in then I feel an obligation to be anxious - it's a mark of respect to the gravity of the situation. When the floods are coming you don't sit in the garden and put on KISS FM.
A full-scale public shaming offensive against the obese.
Increase tariffs on imported goods - for numerous reasons the parent should buy the child a bicycle made in Britain(or your own country)and not an imported xbox. We could make price just one more incentive for parent's making the right decision.
Re-industrialistion - jobs in clean factories are healthier than jobs in offices.
Deport immigrants - jobs in trades and jobs cleaning toilets are healthier than cubicle farming and pen-pushing public sector makework. Deporting immigrants woulod mean our own people would have to do real jobs instead of unhealthy(for many reasons)joke/debt-creating jobs.
Rural work programmes for youngsters from the inner cities.
Curtailment of excessive non-judgementalism - the only people who should fear judgement are lazy and pathetic losers, being non-judgemental, as a society, is allowing too many people to slide into dysfunction.
Egalitarian healthcare can work because it isn't like other business. Doctors are motivated by altruism, prestige and status to a greater extent than professionals in other industries. Our National Health Service wouldn't have worked for so long if the people in it thought and felt like bankers.
Of course, there's still the Achilles' heel that is open borders to bring down any welfare state, just as our NHS is now finding to its privatising demise.
I exaggerate general truths to demonstrate a point. Of course there are some Western women that are pro-civilisation like foreign women. But statistically speaking, marrying a domestic woman is more likely to end in failure than success. The much safer bet is to marry a foreign woman from a culture that is far more worldly than our own, but I don't want to do this for other reasons.
I myself grew up in a single parent home and I'm quite determined to avoid this happening to me.
In the West, women(and many men)just do their actions and they're not going to spend hours and hours thinking about them - what kind of a life would that be?
Well, so long as this mentality of the eternal 8 year old persists in the West then I'm unlikely to marry anytime soon. Which is what makes this recession so important, it is the first major brush with reality the Western world has experienced since the second world war. It is good for our souls. And maybe I'll find a a nice and pro-civilisation type of woman(who's British!)after the Fall.
The only thing more disillusioning than failure with women is succces with women. To look into the soul of the woman is to gaze into the abyss.
I'm still seeking an attractive, intelligent and educated non-foreign woman that knows the truth of my words. Only the non-Western cultures are humble and grounded enough for its women to be capable of self-criticism and self-reflection and for the excesses of hypergamy to be restrained. But I don't want to marry a foreigner because our race is under siege and I refuse to be part of the problem.
And make some god darn demands! Set your limits and your boundaries and above all impose your jurisdiction.
A Woman wants to qualify herself to YOU. A woman wants the man to be selective for two reason: Firstly, there is no way that she can feel special if you'd be willing to accept any woman at all as your partner. You humiliate both her and yourself by not being picky. Secondly, a woman wants to subordinate herself to the power of a man's judgement - this is how she builds attraction and confidence in him without which she could not be able to rely on him as a Man. The Woman is looking for a Master, not an equal. Part of the test women set for who is and who isn't masterful material is her insistence that she wants an equal. Remember, a Woman will NOT tell a Man what he needs to be to be a Man, this ruins the whole effect.
Girls my age can't do this one because they'd be about 5 in the picture. But we do have the beloved make up + myspace angle + photoshop combo of dastardly tricks that the younger girl has in her arsenal of witchcraft.
I've come away from some dates feeling like I should call the ombusman. As "attractive" women I could sue them under the Trade Descriptions Act 1968.
Balls to that. I've had enough violence to last a lifetime, I'm not interested in brutality until it's for a cleansing and productive purpose - and Hipster/Marxist jaws break easily enough anyway.
A few of old mates are now boxers, so I'll go and watch them, but this is as far as my interest goes.
Women are attracted to lameness, insecurity, supplication and men who have very narrow personalites who bring nothing to the table but sameness.... my mistake.
Generalisation can be a good thing. How can awareness of what's mostly or often true be a bad thing? Aside from that, generalisations are a lot better than absolutes. Generalisations go wrong when a person treats them as being always or never true(when the fool turns a generalisation into an absolute). But anybody with a functioning survival instinct, a logical mind, or an awareness of reality can see the odds and knows how to play them - the Human race, and indeed all life, wouldn't be here without it.
He may have genuinely screwed up. In any case, how does a child respond when you take its toys away?.. This is basically the same thing. Anything that gives pleasure, even when it's taken for granted, will be sorely missed once removed.
However true this is for men it is doubly true for women. A woman can desire a man she doesn't even objectively fancy just because she can't obtain him. Like how a cat will lie with the string at its paws in complete disinterest, but begin to pull this string away and what happens? The cat goes nuts with possessiveness and trys to claw the string back. There's a reason why cats are considered to be feminine.
I don't consider it a coincidence that Ayn Rand and Karl Marx are both suspected autistitards. And I'm amused when thinking Atheists - the uber-rationalist/robot variety - espouse their oughtistic views.
Autism/Nihilism/Solipsism go hand in hand with Atheism. And Nietzsche did say that if the death of God didn't occur alongside the rise of the ubermensch - to set the new structures and values of faith in society - then Humanity would regress into an infantile state of hedonism obsessed with nothing but its own experience and completely oblivious to the essential structures of civilisation(like autistics).
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RE: interracial relationship
I wish you all the best. One of my ex's was Brazilian, and all I will say is that there was never a dull moment.