I can't tell you how it was. Nor can I explain what happened, But I fell in love with you.
A light that lit up my whole being, Your smile, like a sping Filled my life with contentment.
Was it your eyes, or your mouth? Your lips, or your voice? Maybe it was the impatience of waiting so long for you. More, I can't say, I can't say how it was. Nor can I explain what happened, But I fell in love with you.
I've found that children will generally do what you expect them to do. If you expect that they will have to be forced then they will. I expect my daughter to behave. I have to make a conscious effort to speak to her as if that is what I believe about her. I say things like, "Okay, we can go to the store because I know you'll be good." I constantly remind myself to remind her that she is a good girl. If she ever gets off track, many times I can simply ask her "Is that what good girls do?" and she will correct the behavior without any further discussion. I get lots and lots of compliments on how well behaved she is, and I love it!
In my case, I pretty much gave her everything....I figured she needed it more than me with the kids and all. (we have one together, but she has two more that aren't biologically mine)
She said that getting separated would be a good idea to work on our problems. I reluctantly agreed, and moved out. Then she moved to Kansas. All of my wise counsel told me that I should file for divorce, to "stike first" would be better because I would be at a serious disadvantage if she filed for divorce out of state. I did, I filed for divorce, but then a week later I filed a nonsuit. I told my lawyer that I might end up divorced someday, but I wasn't going to be the one to quit.
Oooh it gets even better. I got the "I still love you and I miss you" call. I rented a truck, packed up her house, moved her back down from Kansas. Then after a month she went behind my back, borrowed some money, filed for divorce, and I had to move out again per court order....Nice huh!
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King & Queen of Romance
I can't tell you how it was.Nor can I explain what happened,
But I fell in love with you.
A light that lit up my whole being,
Your smile, like a sping
Filled my life with contentment.
Was it your eyes, or your mouth?
Your lips, or your voice?
Maybe it was the impatience of waiting
so long for you.
More, I can't say, I can't say how it was.
Nor can I explain what happened,
But I fell in love with you.