I would go back and do my childhood, teens and early twenties again in a heartbeat but that would mean I would then have to live life with my ex all over again, so......
i see it as life is a big chess game..you just gotta know how to stratagize to be able to have the best possible outcome[/quote]
But........ relationships aren't like that, love!! And even if they were.... you DIDN'T actually know how to strategise to be able to have the best possible outcome now, did you??!!
Do you now think that possibly a different approach may be appropriate?
Well, me.... it would appear!! I had a fella once who I'd been chatting to for a fair while. We both wanted to meet but before we did, I thought it a good idea to have a few conversations via telephone first. Great!!
No.... not so great, it turned out!! He decided he didn't want to meet after all as he didn't like my voice...........
Mmmmm....
Still..... now it appears I have a fab fella who can't do enough for me!!
Why are you wondering whether SHE wants YOU back or not then?!!
Surely, its neither here nor there in that case?!
I have no idea what she has done that you feel you can't forgive but remember we are all just flesh and blood and yet we expect someone to be ALL things to us...... not possible, my friend. We all fall down at times!!
Quite frankly, I wouldn't want someone perfect.... I would rather accept someone "warts and all"....
From the sounds of it, it may be that she still loves you (or has feelings for you), yes....
BUT...... don't get too carried away too soon. It may be that she is feeling the "futility" of the whole situation...?? You know, a feeling of "hopelessness"......
All kinds of emotions take their toll on a person, one isn't always thinking straight.
Take it one step at a time and try to find some quiet time, when you won't be disturbed to talk to her, and PROPERLY talk to her. If needs be, however hard, bare your soul..... if getting back together is what you REALLY want?!
Remember..... pride comes before a fall!!
Good luck, my friend.... I hope it works out for you!
roseofsharon Forum Posts (8,699)
.... and I say "dude" sometimes. What's wrong with that?
RE: Yes they walk among us..................they also reproduce.................
Yes.... and some of them post!!And I don't mean you BTW, Conrad.... you know that!! Muuaahh....