I have had a broken heart, yes, of course. Most recently, not so much a broken heart (we hadn't been seeing each other that long) but major disappointment, yes.
That said, I think the disappointment comes from realising that he was not the person he portrayed. I really liked the person he pretended to be, not the REAL him, as it turned out.
I have no suggestions for a fix, each has their own way of dealing with things.
For me personally, I don't handle disappointment well.... I am not a lover of sadness and melancholy, I am much better at handling such things if I am angry rather than being upset.
I do hope you find a way.... truly I do!! But it has to be what works for YOU.
That is lovely, I am pleased for you, of course. I don't want to be a kill-joy but do you think the fact that its been on and off (more OFF) is saying something....?!
When you get home, why don't you pamper yourself a little? Ya know.... chocs, a nice glass of wine, a hot bubbly soak, watch your favourite movie, something like that? Let the stresses and strains of the day wash away....
Goodness knows, you no doubt deserve it, AND.... I bet you don't treat yourself often enough?
Sorry for the joke, just feeling a little mischievous tonight. Of course, I would own up right away. You know I would never really pretend I wasn't going if I was, eh? Just as I wouldn't dream of pretending I WAS going if I wasn't!!
Yes, there is a handful of people I think about then I'm on here. The same people that I am in touch with off-site, for the most part. A fab bunch they are too!
So.... is there a question? Do I wear them... is that it?!
I am happiest in jeans or trousers. I don't often wear a skirt or dress but when I do, yes, I wear stockings and suspenders, yes. Wouldn't dream of wearing tights (pantyhose).... evil, evil things!!
RE: BROKEN HEARTS ANYONE?
I have had a broken heart, yes, of course. Most recently, not so much a broken heart (we hadn't been seeing each other that long) but major disappointment, yes.That said, I think the disappointment comes from realising that he was not the person he portrayed. I really liked the person he pretended to be, not the REAL him, as it turned out.
I have no suggestions for a fix, each has their own way of dealing with things.
For me personally, I don't handle disappointment well.... I am not a lover of sadness and melancholy, I am much better at handling such things if I am angry rather than being upset.
I do hope you find a way.... truly I do!! But it has to be what works for YOU.