The best way I can think to explain it....? Here it is:
A little boy and little girl were playing in the bath. The little boy was telling the little girl how boys were better than girls. Boys build go-karts and tree-houses, girls just play with silly dollies. Boys climb trees and other cool stuff, girls just play "housey". He then stood up and told her that boys have one of "these" (pointing to his nether-regions) and girls don't......
The little girl stood up and said "Yes, but I have one of these and with one of these, I can have as many of those as I like..."!!
Indeed, Big John! That's why I agreed with Claudya "to an extent". Reaching a stalemate when perhaps a connection, just maybe, achieved is not helpful to anyone and a wonderful opportunity may be missed?
That said, I am not partial to a "shy" fella. Though, confidence yes.... over-confident no.
I am with you to an extent, Claudya. I am a bit of an ol' fashioned girl at heart too. I am not in the habit of contacting men first, other than to welcome them to the site/Forums or to be reassuring about something, purely out of friendliness, if you will. I believe that a man getting in touch shows confidence, interest and being prepared to make an effort. A good starting point.
I have met someone and HE contacted me. Guess he's just an ol' fashioned man....? He also came 252 miles to see me for 4 days and, of course, travelled 252 miles back AND didn't stay in my home on the first meeting........ no that's what I call impressive?!
Undoubtedly, not all the effort should be made by him..... I am going to him next time.
Well, I am unfamiliar with US politics but whether the President is Republican or Democrat he would need far longer than he has had thus far, wouldn't he.... surely?!
Anyone expecting remedies or cures by this juncture is simply expecting a miracle.........
Indeed it can! And the positive difference it can often make is my drive and inspiration. That said, my work is factually based and so I gather material for it. So, no writer's block as such (except for numerous re-tweakings in the presentation department) but a serious lack of time....
I do have useful contacts who are able to assist me, of course.
I have no suggestions for a remedy but find areas or environments that inspire/stimulate you for the "blank canvas" you need?
I do hope you find a way forward..... truly! Please keep us abreast of developments, Venere?
Sorry, my friend, I can't help you. I wasn't aware that some ladies have a problem with it, I guess it must be simply a PERSONAL thing? I don't see that I would have any issues with it.....
RE: Bad writing?